some examples of these, bc that personally helps me with remembering this stuff:
peeked - she peeked between the curtains, trying to catch a glimpse of what lay beyond.
peaked - the movie had peaked in the 80s, but it had stayed quite popular throughout the 90s as well.
piqued - the prospect of hearing such a tantalizing tale piqued my interest.
phased - berets have phased in and out over the years, but theyâve never quite gone away.
fazed - he wasnât at all fazed by her biting tone.
weary - after such a grueling trial, it would be a wonder if any of them werenât weary.
wary - growing up, my mother cautioned me to be wary of strangers.
due time - he will pay his dues in due time.
do time - âitâs time to do this,â she said. i hid my grin. âyup,â i agreed. âitâs do time.â
per se - her answer was not per se troublesome, but the look on her face when she gave it concerned me.
per say - (i couldnât think of a sentence that worked, but the implication seems to be that someone is being charged something for each opportunity they have to make their opinions known)
breathe - as the smoke cleared, it soon became much easier to breathe.
breath - as the killer passed, i pressed my hands over my mouth and held my breath, certain he would hear the rapid thumping of my heart
wander - the dog has a tendency to wander, so we made sure to get her micro-chipped.
wonder - the beauty of the waterfall was a wonder to behold.
defiant - he remained defiant even as the guards dragged him away.
definite - though our scientists have been hard at work, they have yet to reach a definite conclusion.
wanton - she charged forward, swinging her axe with a wanton glee for the carnage to come.
wonton - i was surprised to hear heâd never had wonton soup before, so of course we had to order that as well.
bawl - almost as soon as the plane had taken into the air, no less than seven babies began to bawl.
ball - we balled so hard i thought my eyes would fall out. (the joke is that âto ballâ is in some places slang for âto have sexual intercourseâ, so you technically âball your eyes outâ isnât wrong, itâs just hyperbole, much like âbawl your eyes outâ or âlaugh your ass offâ. still kinda a weird thing to say, though)
sike - âsike!â she cried, momentarily confusing me, until i followed her finger to where hungarian bantamweight greco-roman wrestler andrĂĄs sike stood waving at us.
psych - if i donât stop overthinking this, iâm going to psych myself out!
sleight - skillful sleight of hand is a requirement for a successful magician.
slight - he had a slight frame, which he was trying and failing to conceal with a massive overcoat.
complementary - her shirt was complementary to her shoes.
complimentary - the coffee was complimentary, the waitress had told me with a smile. (quick noteâ the coffee picture up there is cute, but incorrect. âcomplimentaryâ means both âexpressing a complimentâ and âfree of chargeâ - a complementary coffee would be a coffee that goes really well with something)
discrete - as you can see, there are several discrete shelves for each genre of book.
discreet - iâd never once worried about confessing my worries to her, as sheâd never had any issue being discreet.
born - jesus was born in a manger.
borne - jesus was borne by mary.
(for those last two, please ignore if youâre reading this before 1775, in which case it doesnât apply to you and you neednât worry about it)
lightening - during the last weeks of pregnancy, you will experience lightening. (note: this refers to the noun; also called âdroppingâ)
lightning - there might be a lightning storm this tuesday! (note: technically this actually did used to be spelled as âlighteningâ, but then that got contracted to âlight'ningâ, which eventually became âlightningâ. so⊠not wrong but no longer technically correct either)
loose - to the captainâs horror, the knot was far too looseâ whoever had tied it, he vowed, theyâd be swabbinâ the decks for the rest of the year, assuming they survived the storm.
lose - i have to admit, i really do hate to lose.
affect - your attitude will affect your chances.
effect - the emperor wielded his power to great effect.
(those last two are really challenging for me, so i decided to throw some alliteration in there)
there - âlook there!â he cried, pointing towards the horizon. i gasped as i too saw the outline of a ship cresting the waves.
their - it was their concern, not mine, so i bit my tongue.
theyâre - theyâre going to over there, to their house.
to - to infinity, and beyond!
two - the students split themselves into six groups of two and one group of three.
too - youâve gone too far!
and a few more i know people struggle with:
its - the dog tilted its head inquisitively to the side.
itâs (it is) - âitâs a damn shame,â the old woman said with a sigh.
itâs (it has) - âitâs been quite a day,â the postman chuckled nervously.
(this one is really confusing, but âitâsâ DOES NOT DENOTE POSSESSION - itâs exclusively used as a contraction. the possessive form is the one without the apostrophe, so for anyone who uses it/its pronouns, thatâs the one you should use. for example, âlaura laughed uproariously, its shoulders shakingâ - the shoulders are lauraâs, laura uses it/its. also, âitâs lauraâs turn to do the dishesâ - lauraâs pronouns arenât coming into play, itâs simply its turn to do the dishes)
your - your name is sally.
youâre - youâre named sally.
(the easiest thing to do with contractions is, in my experience, to break them up. if you arenât sure whether the contracted word is the right one, use the full version instead. for example, if the sentence you have is âyouâre cat has escapedâ, try breaking that up. âyou are cat has escapedâ doesnât really make sense, so you know to use âyourâ instead - âyour cat has escapedâ)
wouldâve - i wouldâve done it myself, but i didnât want to step on your toes. (this is the contracted form of âwould haveâ)
would of - just incorrect; this one doesnât work in any way that iâm aware of
advice - i gave him a piece of advice.
advise - i would advise against that.
(the difference for those two is that advice is a noun and advise is a verb)
calender - i put the paper in the calender.
calendar - i made sure to mark the date on my calendar.
(a calendar is used to keep track of times and whatnot; a calender is a machine you press paper in)
capital - lilongwe is the capital of malawi.
capitol - the legislators assembled in the capitol.
principal - she recently became the principal of the local elementary school!
principle - these are the principles upon which this chess club was founded.
counsel - i would counsel you to exercise caution, my liege.
council - the city council voted to ban man-eating shrubbery.
rein - i tried my best to rein him in.
reign - the reign of the empress lasted thirty-seven years.
rain - rain beats down, down on the outer walls.
choke - thick smoke billowed around us, and we started to choke.
chock - as the airplane rolled to a halt, the wheel bumped gently against the chock.
whine - much to my irritation, he soon began to whine.
wine - she doesnât have a drinking problem, although sheâs quite fond of wine.
y'all (you all) - y'all best come inside now!
yaâll (you will) - yaâll have to try harder than that to beat me!
vicious - he gave me a vicious grin
viscous - viscous saliva dripped from the creatureâs jaws.
except - everyone except jim came to the party.
accept - i invited an old friend, but i hadnât expected her to accept.
insure - a subsidiary was set up to insure risks.
ensure - you are to ensure that none of these pesky adventurers escape this dungeon alive!
assure - i assure you, the toothpick roller-coaster is completely safe.
then - if you want me to believe you, then youâre going to have to prove it.
than - i felt safer with her than with her sister.
bear - this is a burden you cannot bear alone.
bare - he ran through the woods completely bare.
uninterested - as a child, i was completely uninterested in boys, so it took me a while to realize i was gay.
disinterested - a judge should always remain disinterested.
(note: disinterested does not mean âlacking interestâ, but refers instead to impartiality. however, this misconception is so widespread that itâs frequently used as synonymous with uninterested, although thatâs also the earliest known usage of the word, so itâs really up to you whether you care)
emigrate - brian said his dad is going to emigrate from belgium!
immigrate - aliceâs aunt is going to immigrate to czechoslovakia.
e.g. - i donât like sad events (e.g. funerals).
i.e. - cats are quadrupeds, i.e., they have four feet.
(e.g. stands for âexempli gratiaâ, which means âfor the sake of exampleâ, and i.e. stands for âid estâ, which means âthat isâ)
stationary - a properly parked car will remain stationary.
stationery - i love buying new pens at the stationery store.
whose - i wonder whose table that is.
whoâs - whoâs that man over there?
a lot - there sure are a lot of geese in that lake.
allot - iâll allot each group ten minutes for their presentations.
adverse - the toads had an adverse impact on the regionâs environment.
averse - heâs very averse to noise, so he spends a lot of time in the library.
aisle - whenever my family takes plane trips, my mother always insists on the seat closest to the aisle.
isle - the isle was only an hour away by boat.
allusion - his novel makes a striking allusion to the alexiad by princess anna komnene.
illusion - the witch conjured a powerful illusion to distract her pursuers.
pursue - i will pursue that witch to the ends of the earth!
peruse - he began to peruse the books in the history section.
ascent - the ascent up the mountain quickly grew more and more challenging.
assent - i couldnât think of any better plan, so i reluctantly nodded in assent.
canvas - together, we painted the sunset on the canvas.
canvass - as a politician, she has to take some time to canvass for votes.
cloth - his dress was made from a deep red cloth.
clothe - i canât afford to lose this job; i have to feed and clothe my children!
clothes - my grandmother kept her clothes in a small wardrobe.
complacent - sheâd been at the top of the class for so long, sheâd gotten complacent.
complaisant - she had a cheerful, complaisant nature, so she got along with everyone quite quickly.
defuse - he did his best to defuse the bomb.
diffuse - thanks to the internet, itâs possible for ideas to diffuse even further and far more quickly.
disassemble - the pieces snap together, so itâs not hard to put together or disassemble.
dissemble - heâs a straightforward, honest person, so he wonât dissemble just to spare your feelings.
elicit - i managed to elicit a response after hours of pestering.
illicit - he bought some illicit drugs.
eminent - his brilliance led to his rise as an eminent scientist.
immanent - death is immanent in life.
imminent - climate change is an imminent crisis.
preeminent - the mona lisa is a preeminent example of da vinciâs work.
flesh out - tumblr userâs like to flesh out movie and tv plots.
flush out - hunters may use hounds to flush out their prey.
pray - i will pray for his safe recovery.
prey - cats are famous for toying with their prey.
hangar - the airplane was safely led into the hangar.
hanger - he hung up his coat on a hanger.
hoard - she had a veritable hoard of trophies.
horde - a horde of people flooded the streets.
levee - i drove my chevy to the levee, but the levee was dry.
levy - he intended to levy a tax on imported goods.
loathe - i loathe that man.
loath/loth - i am loath to the thought of leaving you here.
(note: for that last one, due to how frequent incorrect usage is, thereâs a strong argument to be made that at this point âloatheâ is effectively just a variant spelling for âloathâ)
marinate - i let the chicken marinate in the sauce.
marinade - i made a marinade for the chicken.
palate - she pressed her tongue against her palate.
palette - the artist poured several splotches of paint on their palette.
pallet - all he had to sleep on was a lumpy pallet.
past - though he tried and failed many times in the past, jeremy still believed he could climb the rock wall.
passed - i passed by her house the other day.
perpetrate - i plan to perpetrate a burglary tonight.
perpetuate - if the system is not changed, all it will do is perpetuate the problem it is intended to solve.
pored over - i pored over my textbook for hours.
poured over - poured over the pasta was a thick, creamy sauce iâd never seen before.
prescribed - the doctor prescribed him some medicine.
proscribed - murder is among many things proscribed by the law.
suit - she wore a crisp suit to the wedding.
suite - the twins lived in a hotel suite.
taut - to my relief, the rope remained taut.
tout - she does her best to tout her wares.
there are more but iâve been doing this for. a while and my wrist is hurting. feel free to ask me for any clarification, or if there are other words youâre struggling with and need an example for!
tldr: the coffee image is wrong. if you take nothing else away from this, take that. both of those images show a complimentary coffee.