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Happy Pride to:
Disabled aspecs
Neurodivergent aspecs
Low/No empathy aspecs
Caedsexual/caedromantic aspecs
Sex/romance repulsed aspecs
Young aspecs
You are not "just stereotypes" or "bad representation". You are not hurting your community, and you have just as much right to be here and to celebrate your identity as any other aspecs.
Anya is live and ready to show you everything. Watch her strip, dance, and perform exclusive shows just for you. Interact in real-time and make your fantasies come true.
Free to watch • No registration required • HD streaming
PSA: You are still aspec even if your orientation is influenced by your mental disorders!
You are still asexual even if you have SA trauma!
You are still aroace even if you have schizoid PD!
You are still aromantic even if you have NPD!
You are still afamilial even if you have ASPD!
You are still aplatonic even if you are autistic!
The cause of your orientation does not make it any less valid
Songs explicitly about or relatable to being aromantic
"Never Been In Love" by Will Jay
"Aromantic Moodboard" by Max Lizanich
"Crush Culture" by Conan Gray
"i think i wanna be alone" by mazie
"Zero Feelings" by Zoe Clark
"Turning Out" by AJR
"Please Don't Say You Love Me" by Gabrielle Aplin
"Not A Love Song" by bülow
"I Am Not a Robot" by MARINA
Other songs with aro-positive vibes
"Sports" by Beach Bunny
"Driving Myself Home" by Rose Betts
"despair" by leo
"my ted talk" by mxmtoon
"Kissaphobic" by Make Out Monday
"Rose" by The Weeknd (can be interpreted as platonic)
"FRIENDS" by Marshmello and Anne-Marie
"Dance Floor Anthem (I Don't Wanna Be In Love)" by Good Charlotte
"I'll Be There" by Walk Off The Earth
"You're My Best Friend" by Queen
For my aro community 🖤🩶🤍💚
Happy pride to all the aspec people who don't experience attraction in an 'easily comprehensible' way. Happy pride to aegosexual and aegoromantic people. Happy pride to caedsexual and caedromantic people. Demisexual and demiromantic people. People in queerplatonic relationships. People who experience alterous attraction. People who don't want to be in any kind of relationship with anyone. People who struggle to understand what form their attraction takes due to autism. Allosexual aromantic people. Alloromantic asexual people. Cupiosexual and cupioromantic people. Lithosexual, lithoromantic, fraysexual, frayromantic, ace/aro spike, ace/aro flux Ect. Ect.
It's okay that you exist. You are valid and important and your sexuality is an important part of the human condition. You are not broken. I love you all
hey guys happy pride month
as you all may know, im caedosexual. if you dont know what that means basically i am asexual due to trauma [there are aro/aroace versions of this label]. im not ashamed of this identity, but you know what i AM ashamed of ? THE FLAGS. THEYRE SO ASS. IM SO SICK AND TIRED AND I MADE A NEW ONE [GREEN AND BLUE VARIANTS FOR CAEDROMANTIC AND CAEDAROACE FOLKS RESPECTIVELY]
the colors also have meaning !!!!!!!!!
dark red - trauma red - grief and anger and all the feelings that come with being Traumatized lighter red - properly processing trauma and acceptance of caedo identity [when i slowly realized i was caedosexual i felt ashamed because i was "feeding into" the stereotype that ace people are "broken" or wtv. but if your asexuality/aromanticism is caused by trauma thats totally valid !!] white - healing from said trauma shades of purple/green/blue - the vast ace / aro / aroace spectrums. encompasses sex/romance favorable, indifferent and repulsed individuals, and everything in between
i wish all those who identify with these labels a happy pride month, and a safe recovery from their trauma. youre not alone in this, and you will find people who love you for who you are, who will love you how you should be loved.
Anya is live and ready to show you everything. Watch her strip, dance, and perform exclusive shows just for you. Interact in real-time and make your fantasies come true.
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AROSPEC QUIZ | NOT MINE | CREDITS TO WakfuMeu6210
Saw this on Pinterst. Felt the need to share it.
Hi! this is a quiz that could help you know if you're aromantic or in the aromantic spectrum(also with more specific terms)! QUIZZES ARE NEV
LINK IF YOU CAN'T SEE IT:
https://www.quotev.com/quiz/17149713/Are-you-on-the-aromantic-spectrum-microlabels-included
happy pride month im sending my power to all of you whose queer identity is affected or caused by trauma
i want to mention the caedromantics and the stigma they face [any caed/caedo label face stigma but this is the arophobia blog so ill focus on them]
the prefix caed- or caedo- in caedromantic indicates that the person was alloromantic at some point, but traumatic experiences resulted in the person developing aromanticism. while the traumatic experiences can [and usually do] involve unhealthy romantic relationships, any form of trauma can result in a caedo- identity
for some reason caedos are really frowned upon? because to allos its like "ohh you just havent found the right person yet!" or "just go to therapy, itll fix that!" as if there was something to fix but when interacting in queer spaces its all "you have to be BORN aromantic to count" and "youre pushing stereotypes of us!!!"
while i do understand that aspec identities are often chalked off as mental illness or the person being "broken", caedromantics arent trying to perpetuate any stereotypes. caedromantic people just. exist. and it doesnt make us any less aromantic as someone who was born aromantic, or someone who developed aromanticism overtime, or any type of aromantic out there. i was so afraid of coming to terms with the fact that my aromanricism stemmed from trauma because i thought i was "proving arophobes right", and i hated myself for it for almost a year.
a good friend of mine once said genuine experiences cant feed into stereotypes because people live and experience the world in unique ways, and it coincidentally aligning with a stereotype in some way is simply unfortunate. and its true. to any caedoromantics out there, the source of your lack of attraction doesnt make it any less respectable or 'valid' [i dont like using that word but im out of ideas]
so yeah. the exclusion and injustice caedromantics face is arophobia.
this is arophobia
saw this first hand once while looking up the terms to see what they were. sucks people cant just accept others experiences/ids
