âReminder that aspecs can still date and love their friends and familyâ and themselves. And their hobbies, and their passion in life, and the media they consume and their pets and places they like to go and food and drinks they like and in fact they donât have to subscribe to the idea of âloveâ at all. You donât have to date or have friends or family to be a person. You donât have to fit into what society wants your life to be like to not be a robot. When I complain about aphobes implying that people who donât date are machines, Iâm not just complaining that they devalue platonic or familial love. Theyâre devaluing the idea of being your own person and thats a type of aphobia people donât talk about enough. Aspecs can do whatever they want forever and that includes everything.



















