actually no, we're not "dating". we're bound together for infinity. like the stars. so, fuck you, actually.
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actually no, we're not "dating". we're bound together for infinity. like the stars. so, fuck you, actually.

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more people need to be aware of the term alterous attraction (a desire for a close emotional connection with someone, but it's not completely romantic or platonic) and use it instead of calling everything a qpr. because by calling everything a qpr you are turning that term into a label instead of what it actually is - an umbrella term for many non conventional types of relationships.
thank you for clearing it up for me, marriage dot com
Having an alterous crush is so weird cause like.
What do you mean I want to be friends but also I think it's adorable when I fluster you and I think I could spend the rest of my life doing that. And like I wanna be your boyfriend but not like THAT, I wanna hang out but I don't wanna go on dates, I wanna kiss you but never on the lips, like maybe your hands or your forehead or your cheek or anywhere less romantically charged. I wanna hold your hand but like only sometimes, and only if it's not a big deal. But also it can be romantic just not like THAT. But also kinda like that?
And like it's fine if it's entirely romantic to you, that's cool. It's not to me. It's this weird blend of both. But also??? Don't make it weird and hugely romantic. But I could buy you flowers and call you my valentine in February, but like as friends-but-also-not. I want to hold you in my arms and comfort you and be your rock. But like. Not as friends but also not romantically. I adore you but not like you want me to but also it's like halfway there.
And no I might not get butterflies, but I do get a huge stupid smile on my face when you text me. So that's something.

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hey guys do the allos know that they can have qprs too? like do they know that being alloromantic doesn't mean they can't choose to be in a qpr anyway? because qprs aren't "romance-lite" for aros, they're an entirely separate kind of relationship that anyone can have. you can do this with fictional characters too. you can put characters that aren't aroace or are even canonically dating in qprs with each other just because you think that would be a cool way to play with their dynamic. it's actually very cool and you totally should.
every canonically romantic pairing in media can be an alterous QPR if you're aroace enough
sometimes being alterous /aroacespec is about trying to figure out if you want to date them, kiss them, hug them harder and longer than anyone else, fuck them, spend every waking moment with them, or teach them board games and throw pieces at them when you lose.