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Aroace culture is knowing that you don't experience sexual attraction, and don't want any romantic relationship, but still getting flustered as hell with aesthetic attraction
It's like "Oh damn, they're nice to look at. 🙂 Oh shit, they're looking at me, what do I do!? 😳 ... Why am I like this? I don't even like them 🫠"
TL;DR: aesthetic attraction is a bitch
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I know this might seem like a tiny thing to some people, but I really hate when people try to define the a-spectrums specifically as a "lack" of that type of attraction.
Like, that phrasing actually reeks of aphobia and allonormativity (consciously or not).
Asexuality is not a lack of sexual attraction, it's experiencing little to no sexual attraction. Aromanticism is not a lack of romantic attraction, it's experiencing little to no romantic attraction.
I do not experience sexual or romantic attraction, but I don't "lack" those things. Lack implies a deficiency, a sense of incompleteness or wrongness. To lack something means that you are lacking in it, and inherently assumes that's a bad thing. That might not be the intention, but the word "lack" is just so pathologizing that I just hate using it to describe something like orientation.
My orientation is not a problem or an absence of something, it's just what I am.
I am not lacking. I'm just aroace.
And stay safe everyone!
Not wanting to have sex is NOT a problem. It doesn’t matter if you are asexual or allo, there is nothing wrong with not wanting sex. It’s just an activity. That’d be like saying that if you don’t like soccer, you need to go to soccer therapy to figure out why you dislike it and figure out how to like it because it’s for your own good. See how ridiculous that sounds? IT IS OK TO NOT WANT TO HAVE SEX AND IT IS NOT SOMETHING THAT NEEDS TO BE FIXED!!!!!!
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i ship them but in an infinitely more nuanced and aromantic way than you ever will
aroace culture is wanting someone who will be there with you every step of the way and you cherish each other deeply. But not in a romantic way.
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