"ceterosexual is just fetishization. how can you tell who's nonbinary?" well, how can you tell who's male or female?
"that's different. you can tell by their looks." no, you can't. looks may indicate a more likely chance, but it's not always the case.
"but you can at least experience the attraction based on what you assume." well, yeah. obviously. i've heard stories of strictly gay men hitting on stone butches until they realized they were women, not men. they simply lose interest once they realize they're women, despite looking like men. perhaps the same logic applies to ceterosexuals, no? unless, of course, you simply think those gay men are just fetishizing masculinity...
