Jun 10
"Theyfab is a slur against trans men!"
And nonbinary people, right?
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...and nonbinary people, right?!?
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"Theyfab is a slur against trans men!"
And nonbinary people, right?
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...and nonbinary people, right?!?
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i am So Scared rn bro i had a mutual i didn’t realize was transphobic and now my ENTIRE dash is just “ermmmm nonbinary people aren’t real…” and stuff like that wtf is going on
Damn, I hope you're doing alright. How did this person not even notice your intro post? Or really anything on your account?
We don't want another Jeffree Star, who I honestly thought was nonbinary for the longest time. Until he made a video shitting all over nonbinary folks, I wholeheartedly believed that he was nonbinary. "Why are you talking shit about yourself right now? Oh. Nevermind."
But honestly, what went through that person's mind when choosing to follow a very obviously queer account?
To remedy that, block them AND interact with a ton of other queer accounts. Eventually, that transphobic stuff will disappear. I still see some of it but that's just because of doing a bunch of block-list posts and re-blogs. For a semi-unrelated example, I made two posts on Fire Emblem: Three Houses and a lot of my dash is about Fire Emblem: Three Houses.
Unfortunately, it seems that one bad apple pollutes the rest. There were accounts that I adored only to find out that they were radfems and liked to shit on political ideologies like anarchism. With being based in the US, the whole system is polluted and more are just being vocal about it.
I hope things work out for you because that's not okay.
"trans men and transmasculine people were the most targeted by transmedicalists above everyone else!"
Yeah that sure is an easy claim to make... when you are classifying all the nonbinary people explicitly targeted by transmedicalists as transmasculine whether that's how we actually identify or not.
Tenderqueer, anyone? Tucute? Trans Trender? Theyfab? Hyperfeminine cis women who want to be special?
any of this shit bringing any bells?
It's 2026. When will nonbinary people stop being erased and forcibly misgendered in ways that binary trans people would be up in fucking arms about if it was done to them.
You all understand the harm of claiming that historical trans men who explicitly describe themselves as men were secretly women, to be held up as a win for women everywhere, and yet you will pull that exact same shit against nonbinary people at every chance.
Every few fucking years like clockwork we have to remind binary people that transmedicalists do in fact fucking loathe all nonbinary people including those of us who do not identify as transmasculine or transfeminine.
Every fucking few years we have to remind binary people that retroactively forcing a binary identity on nine binary people to suit a fucking exorsexist talking point is in fact blatant and disgusting exorsexism and erasure that they would be screaming from the rooftops about if it was done to them.
wow, what a lovely nonbinary-focused shitpost by a fellow tumblr user! i do love being represented in harmless jokes that i find fun to reblog!
boy!! i sure hope nobody in the comments or reblogs makes this entire discussion about whether or not trans men suck rather than acknowledging nonbinary individuals for once!!
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guys seriously is it so hard to chill out for like. five fucking seconds
is nonbinary like inherently less progressive to you than women?? just because some of them might LOOK like dudes when theyre. not
or hell some are dudes but also women at the same time like.. point is. is it so hard to stop arguing and stop putting all the focus on binary people. to let nonbinary people have the spotlight for ONE SECOND
like, at this rate, it's not even just transmisandry. it's exorsexism now too. because you can't let nonbinary people have ONE THING.
first you force them into boxes when the whole point is that we DON'T fit into boxes (like afab/amab, tme/tma, transfem/transmasc, etc). and now you make everything about yourselves when it shouldnt be???
GUYS. I DONT WANT TO HAVE TO BE SAYING THIS ABOUT A SILLY STUPID TOMODACHI LIFE SHITPOST. BUT HERE I AM BECAUSE NONE OF YOU CAN SHUT UP.
you know, its not like the only form of discrimination in this world comes from non-queers. a lot comes from queers themselves. fellow queers. i already know this, as an aromantic that is not asexual, we get treated like shit by allos and even sometimes asexuals. first of all, that would never be an excuse for me to bully allo queers nor aces, which i already understand better than most of you APPARENTLY, since you claim trans men are awful but you only ever treat them like cis men in the worst way possible. second off, THE ERASURE. we are NEVER acknowledged. "im not aspec, but happy pride to aces and aroaces!" what about us non-ace aros. jesus. so, i mean, i know nonbinary isnt comparable to aroallo, since nonbinary is MUCH more largely understood and acknowledged, but the point still remains, cuz we still dont have ideal support yet. were still pushed aside or put into binary boxes. were still... talked over in favor of binary women and men when the conversation isnt even about them??? SERIOUSLY
im not joking, its gotten so bad for you guys that youre turning back around to exorsexism. i thought we were past that by now. guess not :/ then again, why would i expect any better from people who think that TRANSGENDER men are somehow not queer?...
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Exorsexist writers, typing "he or she" in an attempt to sound "professional" and keep an audience:
Me, clicking the back button the very moment i see "he or she", because that's the moment i know not to trust a single word they say:
It is incredibly frustrating how trans men and transmascs get erased from history time and time again, even by other trans people. They don’t even realize they’re doing it sometimes. I saw a tweet by someone who said something along the lines of “trans women and crossdressers were arrested for public indecency in the Stonewall era.”
It would have been just as easy to say trans people and it would have been more accurate as trans women weren’t the only trans people affected. But no, trans men and transmascs were erased from the discussion once again despite experiencing the exact same thing.
This casual erasure of our history is so normalized that nobody even notices when it happens. We are just slowly being cut out and silenced. Maybe one day people will forget entirely that we even were here.
Asexism A- (away from/without, as in Abinary), sexism (as in exorsexism, as in cissexism) The oppression that comes from being outside of, and by extension unaligned with the 2 binary genders, feminine and/or masculine. A subset of Exorsexism, but describes an experience specific to itself. Intended for use by Abinary people.
What was it made for? For Abinaries to be able to safely talk about their oppression without confusion or harrassment from non-abinaries. Asexism was not intended to be used within discussions that center non-abinaries (ex. a discussion primarily speaking on exorsexism/transphobia towards multigender people) and I am staunchly against my words being used to forward things like (trans)misogyny, racism, intersexism, sexual abuse apologia and anything similar.