#aporagender

[PT: Stop treating fem and masc as the only way to be non-binary. /End PT]

Fem and masc enben are real, important members of the community. I am a masc enban myself. But people *cannot* keep pushing this "are you a masc enby or a fem enby?" concept. People cannot keep treating fem and masc as the only two gender types that exist.

Stop excluding androgynous enben.

Stop excluding neutral enben.

Stop excluding null enben.

Stop excluding genderless enben.

Stop excluding xenine enben.

Stop excluding outherine enben

Stop excluding aporine enben.

Stop excluding culturally gendered enben

Stop excluding unlabeled enben.

Stop excluding multigender enben.

Stop excluding multitrans/multicis enben.

And while we're on the topic of treating enben like they have only two categories - lesbian/uranian and straight enben are completely real, and deserve to have a place in the community. HOWEVER, please stop neglecting enben (and binary people attracted to enben) who don't fall into those categories. Please stop neglecting diamoric orientations [link].

Please stop neglecting feminamoric, viramoric, symmaic, contraic, ceteramoric, tria, etc, etc. Please stop labelling every single NBLNB, NBLW, and NBLM relationship as "lesbian", "uranian", and "straight."

Please stop acting like every enban should be comfortable using the gay-straight identities.

Also, stop acting like every enban uses they/them (or that every man uses he/him or every woman uses she/her) pronouns, and stop calling enben "theys." It's very othering to hear "men, women, and theys" and exclusionary towards enben who do not use they/them. Enby/enban, person, enbies/enben, and people are all *right there.*

As much as you may dislike the word queer being used for you, it doesn't mean that lgbtq community doesn't consist of queer individuals, and you have to be respectful to them :3 My identity doesn't hurt nor invalidate anyone

Darkened original image with flags and their names (every label is a link) is under cut!!

[ID: 15 blinkies of different pride flags, with the name of each label written in pixel lettering. In order, they are bxy, agender man, aplatonic, greyplatonic, aplatonicflux (one reading "aplatonicflux" and the other reading "aplflux", disability stutter, genderfaun, demiboy, t4t bi, anifaux, amonab, aporagender, demigirlflux, and neptunic. /end ID]

blinkie requests for @crowinsnow, @kibbleluvr, @slavik-barkink, and various anons!

Asteraflux-✦

[as-ter-ay-flux OR as-teerah-flux- era like the eer in eerie + ah] 

(srry im rlly bad at describing pronunciations)

-could also be shortened to astera but theres multiple things called that already

✦) An aporagender that has fluctuating levels of neutrality and nullness but is always aporine

✦) Null is different to agender and does not necessarily mean genderless, but if it does then it would still be aporine agender due to the general aporinity of this gender

✦) Never male/female/androgyne but sometimes neutral, null and neither (but still gendered) with fluctuating levels of those 3 

✦) Kinda similar to aporyfluid but aporyfluid is moving between aporagenders which tend to have differing levels of neutrality but it’s specifically moving between the labels, whereas asteraflux is just one label that changes within itself

✦)flag:

Orange: aporinity

Yellow: genderflux

Light green: neutrality

Dark green 1: being neither neutral nor null but still gendered

Dark green 2 / stylised black: gendernull