#questioning

I transitioned later.

And if later you find that you do feel romance —that’s fine too!! Not all aromantics feel *no* romance! Even if you later realize you’re alloromantic, that doesn’t detract from your time identifying as aromantic! Identity is weird and complex and always evolving. Labels aren’t leases. They’re meant to help you describe yourself in the present, in the *now*, not 2, 5, 10, 20 years in the future.

Calling out one of us from like 8 years ago with this one (affectionately but also not, because it still does this sometimes).

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