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this is exorsexism

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not an experience but this tik tok
this is exorsexism

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is it a "womans space" or is it a reproductive health clinic?
is it a "womans space" or is it a domestic violence shelter?
is it a "womans space" or is it a queer pride event?
is it a "womans space" or do you just exclude people who arent women from spaces that they belong in because you think people who arent women are "evil"?
as a person under the agender/nonbinary umbrella I actually think the recently increased focus on a nonbinary person’s agab is insanely fucking uncomfortable and blatantly exorsexist. Stop trying to sort NB people into boxes of amab vs afab, transfem vs transmasc, tma vs tme, etc etc. It is not praxis or activism to keep attempting to binarize people whose entire identities are built around the fact that they DO NOT ADHERE to a binary. You are just being a fucking tar pit #sorry
"transmasculine nonbinary people" and "transfeminine nonbinary people" with no mention of transneutral nonbinary people is creating a binary, actually.
and no, these categories don't include intersex people.

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This GENUINELY Boils my blood. I don't care if it was a joke. This is plain out exorsexism. Nonbinary people owe you nothing. Also the "Trans women are allowed to make fun of you" just icks me out especially with how much exorsexism & Transandrophobia is on the rise (I do not mean transfems are the only ones or I don't mean they do it the most either). No one is allowed to make of you. Period 🫩 being trans doesn't excuse this.
I'm not surprised they are dehumanizing and demeaning anyone that is calling them out on their bullshit. You being transfem doesn't give you the right to bully others. Reeks of exorsexism and transandrophobia in general 🫩 what I find funny is this person doesn't realize transfem includes nonbinary identites. During pride month is actually insane. Fucking pissed me offff
so, are you tma or tme? oh you're nonbinary? but like do you have a penis or vagina are you girl nonbinary or boy nonbinary? neither? no you have to be one of them lol EVERYONE knows that nonbinary people are either a spicy woman or spicy man i mean are woman-lite or man-lite uh theyfab or theymab are transfem or transmasc!! oh you're transneutral? now we're just making words up /s
Been thinking about making this post for a while, so here it goes.
The trans community has a specific type of transphobia towards nonbinary people who were assigned male at birth, and that is forcing womanhood onto them posed as purification or salvation.
The reverse, forcing nonbinary people assigned female into the man role, also exists, but it's frequently done with open hatred (e.g. "those they/thems are actually men trying to sneak into women's spaces") and therefore it has been called out by several people I interact with.
The former, not so much.
Many tend to see misgendering of someone amab towards womanhood as fundamentally benevolent or unserious. Real people develop new kinds of dysphoria and quit trans spaces because of that, including some of my acquaintances, but it's all seen as accidental collateral damage for the noble goal of making more women discover themselves.
"But what if you're denying a closeted self hating trans woman a chance to be called a woman" is seen as a more valid argument than the distress being actively done to people of other genders, and it's fucking bonkers.
I refuse to keep centering non-abinary* perspectives in this conversation.
* abinary spectrum includes agender, xenogender, and other things adjacent.