#diamoric

It is one thing if a non-binary person personally labels their relationship as such. However, the active neglect of non-binary specific labels is exorsexist, especially since sapphic/yuri is predominantly used to refer to feminine relationships and achillean/yaoi is predominantly used to refer to masculine relationships. (This is not to say sapphic and achillean can't refer to other gender types, but theres no denying the binary-centric history these terms hold within the community.)

Fandom spaces are even worse with this, treating all non-binary relationships as just sapphic-lite and achillean-lite.

If you are in a fandom, and you have a character with a non-binary ship, please promote non-binary language.

At the very least, please mix in non-binary language with your binary-centric terms (ie; a non-binary person who is dating a binary man, and prefers to be called a husband, while using terms such as toric or adonic for their relationship.)

Here are some terms used in the same way sapphic/yuri and achillean/yaoi are:

-Diamoric (A relationship that involves a non-binary person in some shape or form) -Trixic (NBLW) and Maedic (WLNB) -Toric (NBLM) and Adonic (MLNB) -Enbian (NBLNB) and Binitian (Binary Loving Non-binary)

Here are some terms used in the same way lesbian and uranian are:

-Feminamoric (non-binary person primarily attracted to women.) -Viramoric (non-binary person primarily attracted to men.) -Ceteramoric (non-binary person primarily attracted to other non-binary people.) -Tria (binary person primarily attracted to non-binary people. This could be any type of non-binary person, or specific types of non-binary people). Can be spelled alternatively based on attraction (ie; triasexual, triaromantic, triaplatonic, etc.)

Here are some terms used for dating/marriage:

-Bach/Bachlorex/Bachloree/Bachloren/Bachlorum (unmarried) -Partner/Joyfriend/Datefriend/Enbyfriend/Enfriend (dating) -Fiance/Nearlywed/Betrothed/Celebrant (engaged) -Marrier/Newlywed/Bridegroom/Brigroom/Gide (getting married) -Spouse/Wifeband/Huswife/Wifen/Husen/Wifet/Huset/Esso/Essie (married/spouse)

And while we're here, stop calling non-binary people "they/thems." Non-binary people do not all collectively use they/them pronouns, we can also use he/him, she/her, it/its, neopronouns, multiple pronouns, or even no pronouns. Our genders do not deserve to be boiled down to infantilizing language like "my little they."

When referring to a singular person, use the words non-binary person, enby, or enban.

Here are the first half of my new Pride Angels designs! Featuring the following flags:

Abrosexual, Achillean, Agender, Ally, Aroace, Aromantic, Asexual, Bigender, Bisexual, Cupioromantic, Cupiosexual, Demiboy, Demigender, Demigirl, Demiromantic, Demisexual, Diamoric, Gay, Genderfae, Genderfaun, Genderfluid, Genderfluid (Alternate), Genderflux, Genderqueer, and Intersex.

[PT: Gendered attraction terms]

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Here are some umbrella terms that apply to both mono and m-spec attraction (ie; "sapphic" could refer to a mono lesbian or a m-spec person):

Sapphic: Attraction to women (and potentially enben) that is queerfeminine or genderqueer in nature. Often used to discuss WLW, but can also describe NBLW/WLNB and even MLW/WLM (if the man involved is genderqueer in some nature.) Achillean: Attraction to men (and potentially enben) that is queermasculine or genderqueer in nature. Often used to discuss MLM, but can also describe NBLM/MLNB and even (genderqueer) MLW/WLM. Trixic: Enben who are attracted to women (and potentially other enben). Often used to discuss NBLW, but can also describe NBLNB or NBLGqM (GqM = genderqueer man.) Toric: Enben who are attracted to men (and potentially other enben). Often used to discuss NBLM, but can also describe NBLNB or NBLGqW (GqW = genderqueer woman.) Enbian: Enben who are attracted to other enben. Often used to discuss NBLNB, but can also describe NBLGqW or NBLGqM. Maedic: Women who are attracted to enben. Often used to discuss WLNB, but can also describe WLGqW or WLGqM. Adonic: Men who are attracted to enben. Often used to discuss MLNB, but can also describe MLGqW or MLGqM. Binitian: A binary person attraction to enben; an umbrella term for maedic and adonic. Diamoric: An umbrella term for any relationship or attraction that involves an enban. This includes trixic, toric, enbian, maedic, adonic, or binitian attraction/relationships, and some sapphic, achillean, julietian, romeric, and duaric attraction/relationships. Julietian: Women who are attracted to men (and potentially enben.) Often used to discuss WLM, but can also describe WLNB or WLGqW. Romeric: Men who are attracted to women (and potentially enben.) Often used to discuss MLW, but can also describe MLNB or MLGqM. Duaric: An umbrella term for julietian and romeric.

Here are some more specific terms:

Straight/Hetero-: A person who primarily experiences duaric attraction. May also be spelled as Strayt when being used by an enban/genderqueer person. Lesbian: A person who primarily experiences sapphic attraction. Uranian/Turian/Veldian: A person who primarily experiences achillean attraction. Feminamoric: A person who primarily experiences trixic attraction. Viramoric: A person who primarily experiences toric attraction. Contraic: An enben who is primarily attracted to genders they consider to be different from their own. Symmaic: An enben who is primarily attracted to genders they consider to be similar to their own. Tria-: A person who primarily experiences enbian or binitian attraction. A non-binary or genderqueer tria person may use the term Ceteramoric as well/instead. Lunaric: A tria- person who is primarily attracted to feminine enben. Solaric: A tria- person who is primarily attracted to masculine enben. Saturnic: A tria- person who is primarily attracted to androgynous enben. Neustellic: A tria- person who is primarily attracted to neutral enben. Nullstellic: A tria- person who is primarily attracted to null enben. Ageninic: A tria- person who is primarily attracted to genderless enben. Spacialic: A tria- person who is primarily attracted to xenine enben. Oustellic: A tria- person who is primarily attracted to outherine enben. Apstellic: A tria- person who is primarily attracted to aporine enben. Multiellic: A tria- person who is primarily attracted to multigender enben. Fluidellic is a subset of multiellic, describing a person primarily attracted to fluid/flux enben. Mono-: A person who is attracted to one type of gender (ie; a person who is attracted to only women.) Mspec/M-spec/The Multiattractional Spectrum: An umbrella term for people who are attracted to more than one type of gender. Bi-: A person who is attracted to two or more types of genders. Ambi- describes a bi person who is attracted to both similar and dissimilar genders. Dyo/Di- describes a bi person who is attracted to exclusively two types of genders (ie; a person who is only attracted to maveriques and women.) Bin- describes a bi person who is only attracted to the binary genders. Ply-/Poly-/Poli-: A person who is attracted to three or more types of genders, but not all types of genders. Neptunic: A ply person who is attracted to all genders except for masculine ones. Uranic: A ply person who is attracted to all genders except for feminine ones. Trixenamoric: A ply person who is attracted to all genders except for binary men. Torenamoric: A ply person who is attracted to all genders except for binary women. Omni-: A person who is attracted to all types of genders, but has gender preferences, presentation preferences, and/or is attracted to different genders in different ways. Fin-: An omni person who is attracted to all genders, so long as they present feminine qualities. Min-: An omni person who is attracted to all genders, so long as they present masculine qualities. Lin-: An omni person who is attracted to all genders, so long as they present androgynous qualities. Nin-: An omni person who is attracted to all genders, so long as they present neutral or null qualities. Agin-: An omni person who is attracted to all genders, so long as they present agenrine qualities. Ouin-: An omni person who is attracted to all genders, so long as they present outherine qualities. Pan-: A person who is attracted to all types of genders and has no gender or presentation preferences. They may have physical preferences (ie; preferring muscular people, preferring green eyes, etc), but gender plays no role in their attraction. Abro-: A person whose orientation is fluid or fluctuates (for example, they may be fin one day and uranic the next.) How often it changes varies from person to person. Mutoic- describes a person whose orientation changes under specific circumstances (ie; a person who is usually apstellic, but shifts to lesbian during the summer.)

Special mentions:

Nonbinary love is beautiful and possible, diamory, ceterosexuality and enbianism is wonderful! Nonbinary self love is powerful, wonderful and should be practiced by every enban. Being non-binary is amazing, and loving enbiness is something to be celebrated!

You can be loved and be non-binary. You can be loved by others, both binary and nonbinary. You deserve to love yourself as an enban.

You can love nonbinary people! Nonbinary t4t is amazing!! Binary x NB love is wonderful!! Enbian love is an amazing thing, and far more needed in this world. It's okay to define your attraction to enben! Attraction to enben specifically is not fetishisation, that claim is absurd. Is it fetishisation to be attracted to men and/or women?

Celebrate your nonbinary and genderqueer self, partners, friends and family! Love them for who they are, and celebrate the love you share with them!

Intersex BIPOC, we love you. Whether you have a penile trait, urethral trait, ambiguous genitals, agenital trait, reproductive trait, hormonal trait, and/or chromosomal variation - we love you.

Transsex and altersex BIPOC - we love you.

Genderqueer, transgender, non-binary, and anonbinary BIPOC - we love you. Whether your identity is feminine, masculine, androgynous, neutral, null, xenine, outherine, aporine, or a combination - you are stunning and valuable in your own unique way.

BIPOC with cultural genders or sexes - we love you. Your gender or sex deserves to be viewed through its own cultural lens, and to be acknowledged beyond a "gotcha" to transphobes & intersexists.

Sapphic, achillean, binitian, diamoric, m-spec, and a-spec BIPOC - we love you.

BIPOC who experience queerplatonic, alterous, objectum, or auto-spec attraction - we love you.