#ceteramoric

It is one thing if a non-binary person personally labels their relationship as such. However, the active neglect of non-binary specific labels is exorsexist, especially since sapphic/yuri is predominantly used to refer to feminine relationships and achillean/yaoi is predominantly used to refer to masculine relationships. (This is not to say sapphic and achillean can't refer to other gender types, but theres no denying the binary-centric history these terms hold within the community.)

Fandom spaces are even worse with this, treating all non-binary relationships as just sapphic-lite and achillean-lite.

If you are in a fandom, and you have a character with a non-binary ship, please promote non-binary language.

At the very least, please mix in non-binary language with your binary-centric terms (ie; a non-binary person who is dating a binary man, and prefers to be called a husband, while using terms such as toric or adonic for their relationship.)

Here are some terms used in the same way sapphic/yuri and achillean/yaoi are:

-Diamoric (A relationship that involves a non-binary person in some shape or form) -Trixic (NBLW) and Maedic (WLNB) -Toric (NBLM) and Adonic (MLNB) -Enbian (NBLNB) and Binitian (Binary Loving Non-binary)

Here are some terms used in the same way lesbian and uranian are:

-Feminamoric (non-binary person primarily attracted to women.) -Viramoric (non-binary person primarily attracted to men.) -Ceteramoric (non-binary person primarily attracted to other non-binary people.) -Tria (binary person primarily attracted to non-binary people. This could be any type of non-binary person, or specific types of non-binary people). Can be spelled alternatively based on attraction (ie; triasexual, triaromantic, triaplatonic, etc.)

Here are some terms used for dating/marriage:

-Bach/Bachlorex/Bachloree/Bachloren/Bachlorum (unmarried) -Partner/Joyfriend/Datefriend/Enbyfriend/Enfriend (dating) -Fiance/Nearlywed/Betrothed/Celebrant (engaged) -Marrier/Newlywed/Bridegroom/Brigroom/Gide (getting married) -Spouse/Wifeband/Huswife/Wifen/Husen/Wifet/Huset/Esso/Essie (married/spouse)

And while we're here, stop calling non-binary people "they/thems." Non-binary people do not all collectively use they/them pronouns, we can also use he/him, she/her, it/its, neopronouns, multiple pronouns, or even no pronouns. Our genders do not deserve to be boiled down to infantilizing language like "my little they."

When referring to a singular person, use the words non-binary person, enby, or enban.

This is diamoricism (which inherently branches from exorsexism.)

The only times it is ever okay to label a relationship with an enban as yaoi or yuri is if the character themselves has canonically done as such, or if the character has canonically expressed being binary-aligned (and expressed being okay with binary terms) and is with someone else who is binary/binary-aligned

Instead, use the following terms (which function in the same way sapphic and achillean do):

- Diamoric (Any relationship that involves a non-binary person)

- Enbian (EnbyxEnby)

- Toric (Enbyxman) or Adonic (ManxEnby)

- Trixic (Enbyxwoman) or Maedic (WomanxEnby)

Or use these terms (which function in the same way that lesbian, uranian, and straight do):

- Ceteramoric (Enby Primarily attracted to enbies)

- Viramoric (Enby primarily attracted to men)

- Feminamoric (Enby primarily attracted to women)

- Tria[sexual/romantic/platonic/etc] (Anyone, binary or non-binary, who is primarily attracted to Enbies. Ceteramoric falls under this.)

i'm coining the term "ceterian" as a synonym for cenelian. it's derived from the latin root "ceter" which means "other". i had coined it before i was familiarized with the term cenelian and its vaster popularity.

the flag above was originally designed for the term ceterian. i currently consider it an alternative flag design for cenelian.

flag color meanings - #129b31 | green represents the freedom of natural & healthy dynamics - #c9e675 | yellow represents the lack of need for binary men & women - #ffffff | white represents the broad amount of expressions and identities within the non-binary umbrella - #b27ce7 | lavender represents romantic, sexual, & platonic love - #7c017c | purple represents androgyny, femininity, and masculinity

this is the original post coining ceterian / neutian.

it has been moved to:

ATTRACTION TO NON-BINARY, NEUTRAL OR UNALIGNED INDIVIDUALS

aliamoric︰non-binary individuals who are exclusively attracted to other non-binary individuals.

ceteramoric︰a non-binary and/or genderqueer individual who is exclusively attracted to other non-binary and/or genderqueer individuals.

diamoric︰a term used by some non-binary individuals to describe their orientation, which does not fit into the similar/opposite gender attraction dichotomy due to being a uniquely non-binary experience.

enbian︰non-binary individuals attracted to non-binary individuals. one may or may not be attracted to other genders as well.

enboric︰an umbrella term to describe any attraction to non-binary individuals.

mestric︰an umbrella term that includes any relationship, attraction, orientation, or partnership that includes non-binary individual(s), and all those that cannot be categorised according to a same-gender vs. opposite gender dichotomy.

neutric︰an neutrois individual who is attracted to other neutrois individuals.

nuumian︰an neutrois individual who is exclusively attracted to other neutrois individuals.

singularic︰the attraction to neutral, unaligned and/or genderless aligned nonbinary individuals.

stellaric︰the exclusive attraction to unaligned and neutral aligned nonbinary individuals. terraric︰non-binary people who are exclusively attracted to non-binary people and stellarians.

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Ceteramoric / Teramoric flag

I made this to match the original (and most commonly used) Viramoric and Feminamoric flag layout, since they're all Diamoric sibling terms/orientations and I enjoy how it looks!

Purple was taken from the existing Ceteramoric and Teramoric flags, as it was both the easiest color to avoid eyestrain with (much harder to do with yellow), not already present on the flag (like green), and is present on other Enboric flags (ex. Enbian, Aliamoric).

Free for anyone to use as always and help with image description/ALT text is appreciated!

All my life, whenever I thought I had a crush, how I acted upon it depended on gender

For boys: i simply informed them i have a crush on them. Didn't ask them out, just went up to them and said, "i have/had a crush on you haha" T-T (this happened thrice lolll)

Teramoric, tercamoric or ceteramoric: being exclusively enboric/cetero-; a suptilic folket attracted to non-binary folks only.