#gynesexual

"As a genderfluid person who techically is attracted to both men and women, but is only attracted to men from a male perspective (I sometimes describe it as being a bisexual man but a lesbian woman), I feel like bisexual doesn't describe me well, so I'm often looking for different labels, and gynesexual might be one I'm going to start using, but I'll see (I am very attracted to femininity in men specifically, and I do have a special romantic attraction to women, while with men it's mainly lust. My ideal partner would probably be another genderfluid person who feels a similar way to me, but I have little to no relationship experience, so I'm open to anything rn, but also scared that the only people I can find who are attracted to me are attracted to me in a way I don't prefer, ex: straight men. Also if you know a label that might refer to me better than any of these, please tell me, I feel my search isn't over yet, because I do wish to be able to signal both my sexual and gender identity in one or two words. I've been thinking of omnisexual too before I found this article, but I still don't know what that specifically refers to, as far as I can tell it's just a fancier word for queer, which I do like queer too, but it's too vague for me. I don't mind saying genderfluid to express my gender and then saying a different word for my sexuality, but my sexuality ties in with my gender expression sm that I feel like a whole different word is due...)"

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also I kind of went down the sapphic Instagram reels rabbit hole and a lot of lesbians say/think they’re bi before realizing they don’t actually like men…

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