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It is kind of funny how all of the civil disobedience by previous civil rights movements just gets memory-holed so liberals and the press can wag their fingers are the present ones for not doing things "the right way"

Started 144 years ago, and finished... *checks notes*... LAST. WEEK.

Somewhere gender dysphoria can easily veer into body dysmorphia is that a lot of transmascs need to get okay with, like... their chests being "cisperisex man flat" and not "completely perfectly flat" because these are not the same thing. You're probably not going to be as flat as when you were prepubescent and That's Okay you're just adult shaped. You literally have pecs. Not in a cope way sometimes it literally just is muscular anatomy

Cause idk this point has been made before and they typically point out, like, big buff action movie guys as their example, and that's true & easier to see but I'd like to stress that Regular Guys still aren't usually Completely Flat because the anatomy is just shaped like that. Everyone has pectoral muscles and some amount of breast tissue it came free with being a mammal

Something Formative for me was when I put on my starfleet uniform cosplay and felt a little weird about how tight it was on my chest & then realized I genuinely just look like the male actors on the show. It just fits like that. A lot of you have Kirk's tits and it's Fine especially if you're binding and just not satisfied with the results

i think i don't really vibe with most other fans of my favorite male characters is because they usually depict them too much of a man, and i am not interested in men, i am interested in The Character. and i am not saying that they should depict them as women, or nonbinary, or should depict them as feminine, no, not at all. but there's like, you know, you can depict a male character as The Character, and you can depict them as The Man. do you get me? like, i go to the fandom looking for art and fics, and it's just, regardless of his actual characterization, it's all just fantasizing about some kind of an abstract dominant patriarch, wearing my favorite character's face. it may be the most totally-wouldnt-have-normal-relationships (and sometimes even would-literally-abuse-you) kind of guy, and you join a dedicated space for his fans, and all they talk about is how they want to marry and start a tradcore 50s style nuclear family with him. it can be a guy who's arrogance and attempts of domination are explicitly shown to be a facade that hide the fact that he's actually kind of a massive pathetic wet loser, and you go to his fics, and they're all depicting him as a caricaturish daddy dom. at this point it's like, do you even like the character at all, or do you just like The Man, and project this man onto whatever character you find visually attractive? and these people kind of, really really poison actual discussion of the character, who is kind of a fucked up evil person (i only like *those* types, so im talking about them) because they see analysis of the actual character as an attack on their fantasized daddy dom husband, who is actually isn't The Character at all, and is simply a face of the day for The Man

after being on HRT for 12 years I feel spiritually obligated to block people with “TME” or “TMA” in their bio and I’ve ever known a more peaceful blogging experience as a transsexual