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Miti's Talk is BACK.   Beliefs   I found an article I wrote back in November 2018 and I never shared it. Today I went through it and I figured it has a lot to say. For me at least feels very powerful. And this article is resonates with me today even more than two years ago. I am on the path of Self - Awareness and Self - Love journey and this mind- flow is really spoke to me… feels like I sent a message to myself to the future. :) Especially these times we are living in, all the isolations and economic problems because of the pandemic and such. This is the time where we need to actually be there for ourselves just as much that we would be there for anyone else we love!   This little anecdote will let you have an insight of the way my mind works. I even found it myself to follow the flow of it :) I feel like I'm running. Not sure away from myself or to myself!? Both in the same time. We are constantly on the road to find ourselves. Most of us are walking on this path without realising it and actually never get to themselves.   Some of us are 'awake' and set foot on the ground with an opened eye. Or two :)   Well, I am between the two if that's even possible. Because I am aware of my blindness -Now- "Do I have an opened eye?" - Sure, it's opening up.. But for so long not to able to see between the lines and be blindfolded it became a never questionable thing of: "Who am I". And I was just living life without actually live it. Read the full article

Alright-y then.. Hello 2021!   What a year behind, huh? But let’s stop with the dwelling and try to focus on the positives.. I'd say the hardest year of my life so far, and not because of covid. I kinda wish that, the only problem I've had have. However, when I said last year, 2019, New Year's Eve, that 2020 is my year; 2020 Vision and all that kinda things, you know. I wasn't wrong! 2020 is MY YEAR! Was. Let see what I mean: There has been a few big and sad changes in my life, both personal and professional. I don't deal with changes very good in general; this time wasn't any different, but sitting at my desk at 9:20 PM on New Year's Eve in 2020 and going back on the memory lane and analysing what I always do, but the first time I am not looking to blame - well, I do fail that some times, but I'm trying to see what I have to learn from this all.. What I need to take away from everything? Because all the pain I went through was for me to grow. I asked the Universe to help me grow, I told her to use me as a vessel… So, she made me uncomfortable, she showed obstacles, stripped of everything I knew. The journey hasn't stopped yet because I am still have massive pain in my chest what I will carry for a very long time, but I know it's for me to learn to be silent, to learn to let go, hot to move on, how to stand my ground, how to stand by my values and boundaries, how to be more understanding, hot to fight for what I believe in, how to survive, how to be more assertive, more Read the full article

Only one thing will attract love, and that is love.   Love is one of life's great mysteries. It is impossible to explain the rapture you feel when you experience love, and words alone cannot describe the intensity of emotion that engulfs you when you connect mentally and physically with another human being. And how can you express the indescribable feeling that accompanies holding your own child for the very first time? Such is the dominion of Love.   Like friendship, you cannot receive true love unless you are first willing to give it. Love always involve risk. When you extend your love to another, you do so in the hope that your love will be accepted and returned in an equal measure. But unless you are willing to give of yourself first, you will never know the joy that comes from receiving unqualified, generous, understanding love.   You may be hurt if you love too much, but you will live in misery if you love too little.   Peace&Love Miti Read the full article

Life never is sweet to those who are soured in the world.   You can expect to benefit from life in direct proportion to what you invest in it. If you plant positive thoughts and deeds, you will reap a bountiful harvest. But if you sow hatred and discontent, you can expect to receive the same result in kind. When you grudgingly give only what you must, you must expect that you will receive in return only what others are forced to give to you. You may consciously choose the be a positive, considerate, active achiever who makes things happen, or you may choose to wait, watch and grow old and bitter. Sadly, when you allow yourself to flounder in negativism, you may not realise the harm you've done until it is too late. When you choose to be happy and successful, you will find happiness and success, but you needn't choose negativism and failure. It will find you on it's own.   Peace&Love Miti Read the full article

Hope and fear don't travel together.   Hope and fear are conflicting emotions; as long as you have hope, you can overcome whatever fears assail you. Hope gives you the courage to persevere in the face of adversity, to seek new frontiers of achievement. As psychiatrist and author Karl Menninger said, "Hope is modest, humble, selfless; it implies progress; it is an adventure, a going forward - a confident search for a rewarding life." Hope is the outgrowth of preparation. When you examine the possibilities in a spirit of positive achievement, hope is the inevitable result. If you take the appropriate steps to prepare yourself for success in any endeavour, you will acquire the self-confidence that will lead you surely and swiftly to the object of your desire.   When you experience delays, setbacks, and temporary defeats, hope gives you the courage to persist until you overcome the doubts and fears that plague us all from time to time.   Peace&Love Miti Read the full article

Would you take a chance on being judged in heaven by the same rules you used to judge your fellow men?   How easy it is to have one set of rules for ourselves and another for everyone else. One of the most profound biblical concepts is the admonition to walk a mile in another's shoes before criticising him or her. When you are tempted to be critical of a colleague or a family member, pause for a moment and ask yourself: "How do I measure up?" "Am I criticising this person for behaviour I sometimes exhibit myself?" "Just because they are not doing things the way I would, does it mean they are wrong?" You may find that when you seriously consider another's approach, you will learn a better way to do things yourself.   Peace&Love Miti Read the full article

Go to bed praying and get up singing, and notice what a fine day's work will do.   Religion is particularly helpful in placing human existence in perspective and in developing the proper attitude to acquire the blessings of life for yourself and your family. By using the power of prayer to connect with the Supreme Being, you learn to trust your nobler instincts and enable your spiritual growth.   When you express gratitude for your blessings every night and welcome each new day with a song, you will be able to deal with whatever life throws at you. Peace&Love Miti Read the full article

Fear is the most costly of all the human emotions even though most fears have no foundation in fact.   The greatest enemies of success are indecision, doubt, and fear. As long as you are plagued by doubts and fears, you will be indecisive, and indecision is the seedling of fear. It crystallises into doubt, and the two combine to create fear. These enemies are especially dangerous they germinate slowly and grow unobserved. Seven basic fears can stand between you and success. They are the fear of: poverty, criticism, ill health, loss of love, liberty, old age, and death. Because your mind always seeks to transform your thoughts into their physical equivalent, you must use your absolute power what you think to eliminate such negative impulses and replace them with positive thoughts. By mastering your thoughts, you master your fears.   Peace&Love Miti Read the full article

The greatest of all miracles is the power of simple faith.   Because faith is an essential element of Christianity, the New Testament is filled with references to the power of faith. In the book of Matthew, Jesus told the unbelievers that if they but had "faith as a grain of mustard seed," they would have the power of to move mountains, and faith nothing would be impossible for them. In the book of Mark, He told the faithful that "all the things are possible to him that believeth." In biblical teachings, faith is "the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen." in sort, faith is the active expression of willingness to believe in that which we cannot prove. It is indeed a miracle.   Peace&love Miti Read the full article

Faith never diminishes through use, but it increases thereby.   Like your body and mind, your faith becomes stronger when you exercise it. The first time you "take the leap of faith," you may be understandably apprehensive. It is not easy to accept an abstract idea as fact, or to attempt something when you are unsure of the outcome. When you apply your faith, however, you will find that if your cause is just an you have faith in God (Higher Power), in other people, and in yourself, you will achieve what you desire.   You will experience moments of uncertainty when you are unsure of yourself and what action you should take. When you do, trust your instincts. It does not matter whether your intuition comes from Infinite Intelligence or whether it is the sum of your knowledge and experience. The important thing to remember is that the power is yours to be used.   Peace&Love Miti Read the full article

Faith cannot be created, but it can be appropriated by all who have prepared their minds to receive it.   In some religions, it is called the "gift of faith", a gift from God to those who are mentally prepared to receive it. When you accept the existence of faith, even though it cannot be explained by logical, rational thought, you will begin to receive its benefits. When you develop the capacity of faith, you will experience a wonderful sense of contentment and wellbeing that comes from the knowledge that a Higher Power is available to you whenever you need it. You exercise faith when you practice your religion, accepting the doctrine of your church, synagogue, or mosque - even though the existence of God cannot be proven empirically.   You also exhibit faith when you trust another to deliver on his or her promises in a business deal, and you demonstrate your faith in yourself every time you attempt to do something you have never done before.   Peace&Love Miti Read the full article

Faith cannot be created, but it can be appropriated by all who have prepared their minds to receive it.   In some religions, it is called the "gift of faith", a gift from God to those who are mentally prepared to receive it. When you accept the existence of faith, even though it cannot be explained by logical, rational thought, you will begin to receive its benefits. When you develop the capacity of faith, you will experience a wonderful sense of contentment and wellbeing that comes from the knowledge that a Higher Power is available to you whenever you need it. You exercise faith when you practice your religion, accepting the doctrine of your church, synagogue, or mosque - even though the existence of God cannot be proven empirically.   You also exhibit faith when you trust another to deliver on his or her promises in a business deal, and you demonstrate your faith in yourself every time you attempt to do something you have never done before.   Peace&Love Miti Read the full article

Today's message from Napoleon Hill is I feel very much unrelated to. However, surely there is something we can take away from this...   If I had but one wish and it could be granted for asking, I would ask for more wisdom with which to enjoy the many blessings I possess under the American form of government. Someone once said that democracy is a lot like making sausage. It's not very pretty, but the result is all that matters. We are indeed fortunate that our country's founders were learned and had themselves experienced oppression. They were determined to construct a system of democracy that would allow an open and honest analysis of public policy, which would ultimately lead to us to decisions that best serve the majority of the people. We are blessed with a model of democracy and free market economics that other countries around the world can only strive to emulate. The next time you're involved in a conversation in which others criticise our form of Government, put in a good word for America. Remind them how fortunate we are to live in a country where we can openly criticise our leaders, argue among ourselves, and ultimately arrive at a solution that best serves us all.   Peace&Love Miti Read the full article

If you are too busy to spend time with worries, they'll be too discouraged to hang around. Worry is a companion like any other - it won't stay around for long if you don't spend time with it. When you are so busy with positive, constructive actions that you don't have time to worry, you have already begun to climb the ladder of success. This is not to suggest that you should blithely ignore problems. What it does mean is that you should not so internalise problems that you are paralysed and unable to take constructive action. When you find that your worries are keeping you awake at night, remember that cracker-barrel wisdom that the best way to kill your worries is to work them to death.   Peace&Love Miti Read the full article

Most worries are not half as serious as we first think they are.   Many a night's sleep has been lost over worries that become inconsequential when exposed to the bright light of a new day. Things always seem bleakest in the dark of night or when we are all alone. At such times, the mind has a way of exaggerating the circumstances until we convince ourselves that things are far worse than they actually are. Don't waste energy in needless worry that could be directed toward solving the problem. If you have trouble sleeping because your worries keep you awake, try keeping a notepad beside your bed. Instead of worrying about something you must do, or fretting about a problem you are unsure how to solve, make a list of things you should do tomorrow to address the situation.   You will find that it's much easier to leave your worries on the pad than turning them over and over in your mind throughout the night.   Peace&Love Miti Read the full article

Never listen to a doubting Thomas unless you are willing to become one, for doubt is contagious.   We human beings have a great capacity for doubt. Despite our most valiant efforts to overcome our doubts and insecurities, they occasionally creep into our minds before we realise what is happening.    A negative word from another may be enough to trigger our own suppressed negative feelings and unleash a wave of groundless fears. Positive thinking is something that is learned, fragile, and usually countercultural. It must be practiced constantly.   Peace&Love Miti Read the full article

Worry will kill you quicker than work.   Worry is perhaps the most useless of all human activities. As humorist Will Rogers once observed, "Worry is like a rocking chair. It keeps you busy, but it doesn't get you anywhere."   Worry does not solve anything; it only serves to place additional pressure upon you. If there is such a thing as constructive worry, it would be taking a positive approach to potential problems by anticipating them before they occur and developing alternative solutions to them. If you are with a problem that might evolve in several different directions, for example, try developing a decision tree with a plan of action for each eventuality.   When you have a carefully planned response for every possible problem, you won't have to waste your time in unproductive, unnecessary worry.     Peace&Love Miti Read the full article