#nonpartnering

Not sure how other non-amorous have it, but whenever I see someone, who used to hate or get disgusted over the idea of having a partner & now suddenly goes "y'know, it doesn't sound that bad anymore, cause someone convinced me to like it instead", I get annoyed & disappointed, cause it feels like a betrayal, even if it's just a single post I come across somewhere. As now it's one more person from an already huge majority, who's gonna try convince & preach how amazing is to have someone up-your-ass 🙄.

nonamorous culture is being so set on living without any sort of long-term partnership that it genuinely bewilders you when someone brings up the idea of you getting married someday. like, wait. you mean ME??? I'M going to do that?? Are you sure???

do you know if yumeshipping would count for being non partnering? like i want to be in a relationship but only one that i can control. often only in my head and also with no attraction and or love from me

nonamorous person who experiences alterous attraction culture is being tired of people pretending like alterous attraction = queerplatonic attraction, because I do not want a relationship!! i do not want a partnership!! yes i feel alterous attraction, but that is not the same as wanting to be in a queerplatonic relationship with someone!! raaaa

Nonam culture is refusing to tolerate amorous mfs, who center their lives around partnership (even if it sounds fake as hell) & often sabotage their friendships, and think they're gods for that. Like nah, you should be ashamed instead 😭.

Nonam aroace culture is not relating at all to aroaces who post about wanting platonic partners. Like, I'm happy for them/wish them luck but No Thanks

nonamorous is im repulsed by partnerships and im so sick of peopel treating my friends like partners and trying to basically work around the fact im not partnered with them trying to treat them like my partners when theyre not