I went to Goodwill earlier and got these two books <3
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I went to Goodwill earlier and got these two books <3
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I learned about the microlabel ananthrolove, and it fits my experiences really well! I've always felt like I could only love what couldn't reciprocate. Hobbies, food, fictional characters? Sure! But never anyone I actually know. It made me feel guilty for a long time. Self-absorbed and shallow. Learning about lovelessness helped me get over the shame, and now I even have a hyperspecific term I can pull out when I feel like going into extreme detail! That's fun
Yay!! :D This is loveless joy!
I LOVE MY LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!
(i have a vague memory of someone complaining about me) but for cool cyclogenic reasons me and my in-sys partner are back
and somehow more complicated. cause it was already our first confusing instance of a not really qpr, but now we're both aqueerplatonic. and anattractional. and loveless. and love repulsed, if we think about it, so i don't really know how to explain that
like we don't even have an attachment towards each other anymore, but something significant is happening. i would still call vim my partner, but we do not like each other. there isn't an ounce of attraction or love but vi is, in fact, my partner
(i think we're the third instance of this actually. we have a surprising amount of loveless arelationships going on)
(i just. realised this is what our ocs are. this is literally what we wrote for them. months ago. how does that keep happening.)
^^^
(You'll all become what you all create.? We guess?? Try making one of your OCs really rich and see what happens next!)
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Hi sorry you reposted my post as alovephobic (I think I spelled that right…) and I was just curious as to how the identity works? Like I thought everyone had interests and hobbies and stuff, is that offensive to think? I’ve never heard of this before? I was trying to make a “anti-aphobic” post saying that even if people don’t “love” the way you’d expect, they still have other things, even if it’s hobbies and interests, that’s still valid, but is that not true? Asking out of curiosity and wanting to grow ^v^
okay hi! i wasn't trying to single you out or anything, but the general message of your post is something i hear a lot, that makes aspec posts (as an alove / loveless person) really isolating.
imagine how an aplatonic person (little to no platonic attraction, or desire for friends) would feel, hearing aromantics and asexuals talk about how while they don't want romance and sex, at least they want friends. that general message is something we hear a LOT. "i don't want this, but i'm still human. i want this alternative form of attachment or attraction"
it feels like someone trying to validate themselves by casting out a smaller, less accepted part of the community
i don't want [x], but i can still feel love. i am still capable of this. i'm not empty
i understand what you were trying to express. i know how impossibly frustrating it is expressing your identity, and having people assign a bunch of other assumptions about it. or in your case, negating something you do [PT: do] experience and erasing it entirely. but it's so isolating hearing people assume that there is a universal thing everyone favors and is capable of. that we, as humans (or whatever...) may not favor sex, but at least we want romance. at least we want friends. at least we value our family, at least we love, at least, at least, at least
anyway, if you do love differently, good for you. but i don't at all, and i hate being generalized
(i hope this makes sense. i kind of rambled)
Do any other loveless folk find they also don't hate people like other people do? Everybody appears to hate at least somebody and i just don't. The most negative i feel about somebody is vague discomfort. I'm just neutral about everybody I guess
