can I ask why you don’t like trans people? And don’t say “the lgbtq (or lgb, in your words,) is about attraction” because that’s not true
I don’t want to make any points or try to debate with you until I can understand your point of view first. It’d be unwise of me to try and do so- because there’s probably something I’m not understanding.
I have trouble explaining things, always have, so i apologize if my explanation is jumbled. I'm not the best person to ask my opinion on- but I'll try.
Transgender as a concept was coined by childhood psychologists/sexologists and pedophiles. John Money being the most infamous person to contribute to the existence of transgenderism, where he forced a male child to live as a girl his entire childhood. [1] [2] (i really recommend going through the blogs linked, @/majchic majorly,and @/trannyradfem for example of trans-identified radfem.)
Transgender enforces gender norms, which is ironic, because modern TRAs want to destroy gender norms, no? If bodies aren't gendered, why do you get 'relief' from looking like your desired gender? If femininity and masculinity aren't gendered concepts, why do you get dysphoria from dressing either way? You don't need to change your gender to dress masc/fem, change your name, or hell, even get sex changing surgery. Gender should remain as it always has been, a biological reality. I acknowledge some trans folk have dysphoria, but that still doesn't warrant identifying as the opposite gender.
If you "dont feel like a woman/man", " dont feel feminine/masculine enough", well, it doesn't mean anything because gender isnt a feeling. You're still a female or male at the end of the day. If you want to live as a woman/man, what does that really mean? If gender was abolished, how would you act, how would you dress? If being seen as the opposite gender (or neither) is of such high priority, i recommend seeking therapy, because there's probably something you're trying to avoid mentally. Gender isn't a personality trait.
Ive identified as nonbinary for a large portion of my teenhood. Through those years, Ive had dozens of questions about gender and transgenderism, most of which never got answered because I was worried about becoming a traitor. So i shut them down. It took me going to a sober living facility with no internet access for four months, for those questions to bubble to the surface and finally get answered. I read some books, and naturally, I wondered if radical feminism, the form of feminism I was taught to hate, was what I was looking for. I stopped identifying as nonbinary and embraced my womanhood.
The "trans people exist in other cultures" thing as well, is BS. All Third Genders are ways to identify the person as not being masculine/feminine in the proper ways. They're not an actual "other gender". they further reinforce the binary.
Definitely not the best answer, but this is what I have to offer.
