Nonamorous culture is finding peace in not pursuing anyone/refusing to be pursued after years of agonizing over relationships that you could never feel *completely* happy in
No more partners for me! (* ´ ▽ ` *)
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Nonamorous culture is finding peace in not pursuing anyone/refusing to be pursued after years of agonizing over relationships that you could never feel *completely* happy in
No more partners for me! (* ´ ▽ ` *)
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This post is so valid and I do that too
But I also do the opposite thing
when people worriedly post wondering if anyone would date them because of some conventionally unlikable trait of theirs, my gut reaction is a really sincere
"I would!!!"
Followed by an immediate "…Wait, no I wouldn't." when I remember I'm a nonamorous aro and don't date anyone, actually
Nonamorous, allosexual(ish) culture is bringing up that a person is hot and when someone says to shoot your shot you stare at them like they grew a third head. Then they tell you to just be confident, not getting the message you will NOT be doing that.
ITS NOT A LACK OF CONFIDENCE. I AM REPULSED. "Shooting my shot" GROSSES ME OUT!!!! UNDERSTAND THAT!!!!!
Anyways, any other orchidsexual/romantic folks out here? Advice to the newly nonamorous perhaps regardless?
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flag id: a flag with 4 stripes, which are light green, green, black, and turquoise. end id.
banner id: a 1600x200 teal banner with the words ‘please read my dni before interacting. those on my / dni may still use my terms, so do not recoin them.’ in large white text in the center. the text takes up two lines, split at the slash. end id.
nonerosous:Â describes one who does not desire sexual relationships
[pt: nonerosous:Â describes one who does not desire sexual relationships. end pt]
for anon! this term is a subset of nonamorous. i based the flag on my polyerosous flag — here are the color meanings:
light green: abundance; a life without sexual relationships contains an abundance of joy, despite what others may think
green: nature, health; it is not unnatural or unhealthy to not desire sexual relationships
black: confidence and strength
blue: peace, success; feeling at peace and successful in one's life without reaching the amatonormative goal of having a long-term sexual relationship
tags: @radiomogai, @liom-archive, @macchiane, @genderstarbucks, @maggore, @dragonpride17, @orientation-archive
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nonamorous partnering culture is feeling like you've forever chained to a person you're in a relationship with after like a day. i feel special towards you and want to interact more but Get out of my life will you
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Not sure how other non-amorous have it, but whenever I see someone, who used to hate or get disgusted over the idea of having a partner & now suddenly goes "y'know, it doesn't sound that bad anymore, cause someone convinced me to like it instead", I get annoyed & disappointed, cause it feels like a betrayal, even if it's just a single post I come across somewhere. As now it's one more person from an already huge majority, who's gonna try convince & preach how amazing is to have someone up-your-ass 🙄.
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nonamorous culture is being so set on living without any sort of long-term partnership that it genuinely bewilders you when someone brings up the idea of you getting married someday. like, wait. you mean ME??? I'M going to do that?? Are you sure???
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do you know if yumeshipping would count for being non partnering? like i want to be in a relationship but only one that i can control. often only in my head and also with no attraction and or love from me
Yeah, I think you can define it how you want when it comes to that kinda thing (I'm not super familiar with yumeshipping or selfshipping culture to give much of my two-cents but I don't think its disqualifying)