Being nonbinary when there's no real way for us to be legible genderwise in current society is so... I would be transitioning regardless of how I was born. I would be wearing the same things that get me read as masculine woman one day feminine man the next, never myself, maybe medically transitioning a little different, but not by that much. There is no world where I am understood by the average person, Gendered correctly on first glance. There is no world where I fit into the current paradigms of gender regardless of how I was born. There is no what if that would free me from the alienation that comes from not having a place to so much as aspire to.
Its freeing in some ways, and its who I am regardless, but it can be so lonely in other ways. Many 'universal trans experiences' are no more relatable than cis experiences. Its nice to know I'm not alone in that 🫂
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It always helps so much to hear we're not alone.




















