I have a transmasc friend. he's generally really good about things. He doesn't usually make me feel like I'm nkt a woman because of how I was born. But something he did has been bothering me. He moved out of the place we shared, and brought his brother along to help. When something looked too heavy for him and his brother to carry, he asked me if I could help. Which is really weird to me because I had actively talked about how I have gotten so much physically weaker since I had started e 5 years ago. And yet he still assumed I would be stronger than he was, and that his brother and I should carry it. So there I am in a skirt and a tanktop struggling to carry this thing down a flight of stairs to his car. and in that moment, I felt like all he saw me as was a man playing dressup
when it comes down to it, few people genuinely seem to understand that hrt!!!! actually does what it says it will do!!!!! and when we talk about its effects!!!!!! we're not making it up!!!!!!
