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catching up with the show (nearly — i left episode 8 out so i could watch the whole extended cinema thing) made me realise just how transmisogynised Jax is (in the show and beyond) because like, don’t get me wrong, he’s mean and self-motivated, but really no more than like, Pomni or Zooble like at all, and in the midst of canonically coping the worst of any of them with this entire situation
people were talking about him like he was this unrepentant bully who loves to pick on girls specifically (which is categorically not what’s depicted) when basically all of them are lashing out at each other and blaming each other for all their problems for the whole show.
don’t get me wrong, Jax is mean and picks on people (although not girls specifically? pretty weird people would say that when Zooble probably takes the brunt of it) but Pomni basically doesn’t care what anybody else thinks or feels, Zooble is an asshole to practically everybody all the time but especially to Jax even though they actually know why he’s behaving the way he does and they have literally the same exact same motivation.
anyway
I once saw someone try and claim that Jax doesn't treat Zooble as badly as the female characters (I know right, transphobic to both the trans characters, but moreso to the transfem one, who would've thought?), which is so categorically untrue, except maybe Zooble gets a bit of a break for generally going out of his way to avoid Jax and the adventures. Not to mention how he absolutely does not treat Kinger with any gendered respect.
I don't really get the issue with Pomni though - she spends the first episode being pretty inconsiderate, but episodes 2, 4, and 7 are largely about her learning and demonstrating being considerate to other people. Zooble is similarly mean to Jax, though their avoidance of other people means it doesn't take on the violent character that Jax's adventure antics sometimes do (oh yeah, Zooble tries to strangle Jax at the barest provocation in the first episode).
Also there is a parallel between the finale and episode 6 with Pomni that would need to be spoiler tagged for a discussion on how the fans (and even my visceral reactions) show a double standard.
saw someone including "Mandate of Heaven" as one of those christian terms tumblr likes to use to sound profound. which i get where you're coming from but t☝️hat one is chinese
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what the fuck is going on in this site's backend
“Dogs don’t know what they look like. Dogs don’t even know what size they are. No doubt it’s our fault, for breeding them into such weird shapes and sizes. My brother’s dachshund, standing tall at eight inches, would attack a Great Dane in the full conviction that she could tear it apart. When a little dog is assaulting its ankles the big dog often stands there looking confused — “Should I eat it? Will it eat me? I am bigger than it, aren’t I?” But then the Great Dane will come and try to sit in your lap and mash you flat, under the impression that it is a Peke-a-poo… Cats know exactly where they begin and end. When they walk slowly out the door that you are holding open for them, and pause, leaving their tail just an inch or two inside the door, they know it. They know you have to keep holding the door open. That is why their tail is there. It is a cat’s way of maintaining a relationship. Housecats know that they are small, and that it matters. When a cat meets a threatening dog and can’t make either a horizontal or a vertical escape, it’ll suddenly triple its size, inflating itself into a sort of weird fur blowfish, and it may work, because the dog gets confused again — “I thought that was a cat. Aren’t I bigger than cats? Will it eat me?” … A lot of us humans are like dogs: we really don’t know what size we are, how we’re shaped, what we look like. The most extreme example of this ignorance must be the people who design the seats on airplanes. At the other extreme, the people who have the most accurate, vivid sense of their own appearance may be dancers. What dancers look like is, after all, what they do.”
— Ursula Le Guin, in The Wave in the Mind (via fortooate)
This paragraph went in so many different directions before it ended. What the fuck Ursula
hi we’re a24 and we loved the ytp you posted when you were 15. do you want to direct the multimillion dollar adaptation of your opus, simpsons gone purple?

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everyone be quiet. marsha with her snoopy.
"games are special.... because we... have stories to tell..."
*montage of third person combat in unreal engine 5*
A lot of young fandomites are having a formative "this show ended in a way that was incomprehensible at my current level of media literacy, what the fuck?" moment this week and I think that's great
It's still sinking in that The Owl House was about a girl running away to a fantasy world, all because of the ripple effects of losing her father at an unfairly young age — only to eventually learn that the fantasy world itself was made of the bones, and the flesh, of a loving father who'd protected his child with one of his final actions, before dying and giving life to that fantasy world. And eventually, in his truly final action, even giving life to Luz herself. Luz ran away to the Boiling Isles, all because of a single book that her dad gave her — and unknowingly, she spent every day walking over ground that embodied parental loss. A world that was born from a parent's death, a parent who had to leave their child far too soon — and not just any child, but Luz's own new best friend, in all of this new magical world. And King and Luz were only ever brought together because of their fathers' deaths — before they even realized they had anything in common to grieve. Before they realized a reminder of that grief had been beneath their feet this whole time.
But, at the end of the day... their fathers both gave them parting gifts. Their fathers both gave them the key to come of age in a world full of people who'd care about them — maybe not the only world where they could've been happy, but a world they wouldn't want to imagine missing. Their fathers gave them the chance to meet each other. To understand each other. And, ultimately, to heal and grow up together. Until the ground beneath their feet stops feeling so heavy, like grief — and starts feeling lighter again, like a gift, and a happy memory.

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Kind of frustrating growing up and feeling alien and unrepresented by a lesbian culture dominated by very vocal "trans women are men invading lesbian spaces" rhetoric only to watch as literal trans men become a rampant feature of artistic representations of lesbianism. Especially after trans women attempting to clarify the definition of transmisogyny is called bioessentalism. Whatever is valid and all that, just feels like another sign of just how little value is placed on lesbians like me in the broader community: saying "people who aren't transfem don't experience or get to define transmisogyny" is bioessentialist, but the hordes of people drawing dudes with pussies being the backbone of lesbian relationships is completely disconnected from even a hint of bioessentalism. Just sayin' get your shit straight at least if you don't want people to point out how incongruent and bigoted it is.
I feel compelled to explain that I know he/him and transmasc lesbians exist, the problem is transfem lesbians are more common yet shockingly absent from art and artistic expression made by the majority of tme people. Why are you excluding us?
It's not too much to ask that for every lesbian with top scars we also see a lesbian with broad shoulders or bulge, but y'all act like we're asking you to climb Everest and K2 back to back and/or disgusting fetishists.
Some great tags that cut to the quick of the issue: Trans men are not inherently "one of the girls" and trans women are women, but a lot of y'all refuse to put your money where your mouths are and treat us like what we are.
Another tag worth enshrining. My ex expressed similar frustrations in the past. People knew she was bi and I was trans, but they'd still treat her like she was dating Heterosexual Steven or something because, well, I am tall and large and possess penits. She'd get weird looks for jumping into the conversation about lesbian relationships or loving women. Or worse, they'd literally exclude me from girls night shit while inviting her. Bleh transmisogyny really pisses me off... Seeing someone have inverse similar lived experience makes all the rude comments and anons telling me I'm "making shit up" worth it.
The thing that has me scratching my head in confusion about the recent wave of "trans men are invading women's spaces" rhetoric from TRFs is that I thought we were in agreement that the very concept of "men's spaces" and "women's spaces" was a load of crap. I thought we were in agreement that bathrooms should be marked "bathroom with a urinal" and "bathroom without a urinal" instead of "men's" and "women's." I thought we agreed that healthcare should never be gender segregated regardless. I thought we were in agreement that everything called a "woman's space" was just blatantly being exaggerated as a tool of exclusion.
Further, why are you using these arguments that were invented by TERFS when you know these will inevitably be weaponized against you too? Do you really think you can rehabilitate concepts made to hurt YOU and turn them into a weapon against just the people you hate? Like even if you can't be a decent enough human being to care about transmascs, you could at least have an ounce of self-preservation and realize this is helping TERFs to hurt YOU, not just the trans men you want dead!
I think part of the ''why'' is that people think conservatism is a character flaw. People think ''people become conservative because they are bad and cruel and I'M not like that! I would never be like that!"
Why are trans people turning so TERFy when we seemingly agreed that this was all bad? Well, everything is getting more conservative, on account of the climate/environmental crisis and the related decay of capitalism and the rise of fascism as a response. People are scared animals and it is so easy to adjust to this environment by internalizing it, in hopes of surviving it.
With trans people getting turned into a scapegoat and neo-radfems getting massive political platforms, it was inevitable that people would react by internalizing radical feminism and trying to cut out the parts of themselves and their community that are least able to adjust to that. I think its a semi-conscious process of trying to blend in, trying to survive, trying to make sense of what is happening to you and why. Each person has a lot of different preexisting beliefs they are working with to make sense of the world, and we aren't consciously self-aware of most of them. What seems obvious to one person (you cannot rehabilitate radical feminism for trans people, because it is fundamentally structured through cissexism) will not be obvious to another if they are navigating the same issue with a different "map" so to speak.
Survival instincts are not necessarily moral instincts. Resisting conservative, fascism, etc. are not things that always feel conducive to surviving this present moment, especially for people whose worldviews did not have a developed and strong understanding of what resistance and revolution would mean in practice, how the circumstances would feel, and the kinds of material and ideological forces at play.
I think a lot of people are getting more conservative because they are falling back on survival instincts and trying to adapt to an increasingly conservative environment. But, at the same time, they don't think of themselves as conservative, nor do they want to be, and they want their survival instincts to be moral instincts (as I think we would all like!) and that the things they are doing to keep themself safe are also things that are morally correct and effective responses to injustice.
And again, people want conservatism to simply be the product of a character flaw they are better than, not something that anyone can fall into ideologically as a result of both personal choices and belief-environment. We want it to be that becoming a conservative is a conscious process we would certainly be fully aware of if it happened to us. If we could become conservative, either conservatism must be objectively right, or it means that "conservative" is not a unique class of people entirely different than oneself and the left as a whole.
And people are very bad at doing worldview work under stress when feeling unsafe and also trying not to become homeless or starve to death. So we end up in these kinds of
from the summary for the book trans/rad/fem:
...and you more or less see all of what you said in this description alone, trying to survive a wave of global transphobia by eating and digesting a part of your environment's ideological impetus to survive, regardless of effectiveness or even reason
since the world is backsliding so hard in terms of equality and feminist movements, in that situation it's entirely possible to come to the conclusion you must backslide with it or be run over by the forces at play
What a bad-faith read of the book summary from someone trying to prove that it's an example of conservative thought. It's very much the opposite as best as I can tell. How do you see what synjectivism described above in this book summary at all?
The summary is arguing that the umbrella of "second wave" includes ideas that are not just popular but indispensable in pro-trans feminism today. What part of "repudiating bioessentialist notions of gender" is backsliding? What part of a "comprehensive social theory of transexual oppression" is a survival instinct, not an attempt at understanding the world as it is? I think synjectivism is right about there being a spread of conservative thought even in progressive spaces today, I think it describes a lot of default "afab-only" queer spaces today as well as the worst parts of trans twitter, including more than a few transfems.
Listen.
EVERYBODY knows (or should) that you DO. NOT. STOP. in Vidor, Texas.
It’s best to just run out of gas elsewhere. Whatever you do, black folks, DO NOT STOP IN VIDOR, TEXAS.
There’s a good chance you’ll get lynched or just come up missing - and I’m not joking.
also do NOT stop in Harrison, Arkansas!!!! (relatively close to OK and MI) a nazi town with a BIG KKK organization.
Reblog To Save Life
Okay but like reblog to LITERALLY SAVE SOMEONE’S LIFE
Please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please puHLEAAASSEEEEEEE BE SAFE
They are called sundown towns and there are a LOT of them in the US.
https://sundown.tougaloo.edu/sundowntowns.php
This website has a clickable map where you can see suspected and confirmed sundown towns by state, as well as information about whether these attitudes are historical or current.
The homepage of Dr. James W. Loewen, author of Lies My Teacher Told Me, Lies Across America, and Sundown Towns.
Reblog for the link
reblog for the link
REBLOG FOR THE LINK
Please stay safe
REBLOG IT DOESNT MATTER WHAT BLOG YOU ARE THIS IS GONNA SAVE SOMEONE
I am poc too and i am scared for my LIFE when i go to the south. please stay safe.
I am not poc but I know this could save someone’s life. Please reblog and spread the message.
My obligatory addition to this every time it crosses my dash, because I know the link is definitely missing ones in my own (northern) state and there are some in this thread not on the above link either - thread by LeVar Burton with a LOT of replies from people naming the sundown towns near them:
https://twitter.com/levarburton/status/1300918792143339520
Just in case someone is traveling, please be careful
AUTO REBLOG
On this weeks episode of why America is terrifying.
im not american but god this is terrifying
REBLOG REBLOG REBLOG THIS IS HORRIFYING
This is fucking terrifying stay safe y'all :(
Heres Arizona’s , by the way
As someone that lives in Beaumont right next to Vidor DO NOT STOP HERE EITHER!!! Or literally ANY of the surrounding cities. You have a better chance in New Orleans and Lafayette than here. 
Holy that’s terrifying
jesus fucking christ. stay safe, everyone.
I can’t believe the city I live in is on that list, holy shit
Holy shit I live by some of these places
Holy shit
i am not near any of these places (not any that i can think if i live in a progressive state) but PLEASE be careful.
Be careful please ya’ll!
@rareblackside
REBLOG THIS
(Especially as a dark skinned myself.)
Reblogging to save a life, please try to make people aware of this as this place is actually disgusting and people have gotten hurt here. Please, I’m not looking for interactions for popularity, I’m looking for people to spread this and keep others safe. 🪽
please reblog this to save a life. … this is genuinely scary guys… looks left looks right…/srs
dawg why tf do these places exist. reblog to legitimately have a chance of saving someones life
@azazel-the-fifth plz stay safe and never go here D:>
I saw the bnnuy glow
I saw the tv glow
this isnt how life is supposed to feel.

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Female shadow the hedgehog is the girl i want to be.
SHES EVERYTHING I WANNA BE
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post 1: they don't want you to know that everyone is stupid and angry nowadays. and its because of covid post 2: ive tied together two social trends ive identified. and they are because of fascism post 3: they don't want you to know that everyone is stupid and angry nowadays. and its because of AI post 4: ive tied together two social trends ive identified. and they are because of christianity post 5: transmasculine joy is revolutionary post 6: i am the only literate cinephile left in a sea of cartoon watchers. and here are my thoughts about this critically acclaimed hollywood film post 7: no longer identifying as transmasculine and stopping T because the patriarchy exists is revolutionary post 8: ive tied together two social trends ive identified. and they are because of tiktok