#strictures

6/27/21

I have really been down on myself for so long for not keeping this blog up to date and not posting more recovery details as they were happening. Sometimes being in the middle of it is more overwhelming that you aren’t really thinking much about documenting it lol

That being said I am at a much better place in my life right now and am extremely motivated in a lot of areas. I am working full time, going to the gym 5 days a week, and training to become a fitness/nutrition coach. I really feel like I am in a spot to get this blog a lot more active and keep up with it on daily basis. I would really love to get more information out there and routinely be answering questions many of you might have.

I just recently passed my 4 years post op phalloplasty and am less than a week away from my 6 years post op for top surgery. I am also 10 months post op the 3 piece inflatable erectile implant and nearly 8 years on testosterone.

If you feel something very strongly It’s probably innate, it’s probably illogical It’s probably dangerous and it’s probably best ignored.

Who’s in charge here anyway?

I’ve written before about how I think a lot of writers ask the wrong questions. Like here: https://morgansmithauthor.wordpress.com/2017/02/25/how-should-my-character-die/ It’s a serious problem. Because it feels as if the writer asking thinks there is a “right” answer to things that someone who is not the writer should be able to tell them. From “What should I name my Main Character?” to “Should…

in history: for royalty, it's decorum and status and threats deriving from the loss of - politics; for the poor, death and disease. 

for now: without these past cultural strictures...