#5w6

Was just talking to multiple friends about how it’s wonderful being able to have deep conversations about sm but also be silly and laugh about the unhinged chaos of life.

I do think if I hadn’t done psychological and spiritual healing and growth which bleed into my EQ I probs would be way more what my mind is in default to be like which is a bit concise and lacking in emotionality, but I have gained a better understanding and filter.

I care about being emotionally intelligent past most INTJs but... sometimes... it can only go so long till I get tired of the bs. Being considerate matters to me... That’s often why I just don’t talk lol. I really took the phrase “if you have nothing nice to say don’t say anything at all” too literal. But that’s also because I have no words other than what I have sometimes and that’s not gonna feel great so… I’d rather process things and get back to the topic later, or not, if I'm over it and it's not a big deal to me anymore. My peace matters more than anything, personally.

Things do affect me, I just cope differently, and I suppose I do so in a more eastern style of belief in that I don’t feel entitled to anything in life or anyone similarly, this helps me understand that we technically have no ties in life in that we don’t take anything to the grave with us. I can never possess anything in life but myself and the intangible things that I learn/take from this life. Those matter most of all to me. I’m in touch w/my emotions, deeply, I’m just not ruled by them like most are. My approach is to allow them space and myself time to process them to learn from it all and make peace with them/things as they are, and in doing so, come to embrace them in their truest raw form… and then move tf on.

Acceptance is always the key for me, then redirection. The cycle of the emotion and processing, acceptance, and moving forward however is most logical and healthy though might happen many times depending on the thing having an effect on me.

i mean, ngl, yeah, some stuff really is true, but that?... nah, i fuck with the void hardcore.

Aparte de ser intp 5w6, queer y autista, también tengo apego evitativo.

Hey! I know I'm a 5 for sure, but I've gotten both 5w6 and 5w4 on tests. I'm not ENTIRELY sure which one I am, but the 5w4 results have been more recent, so maybe that one? I've tried typing myself, and I think that I am probably 5w4 based on descriptions on more official sources, but I'm really conflicted about it because I think I've seen posts where 5w4 is like one of those 🌟💫desirable types💫🌟 so I don't wanna be like THAT GUY where I'm like "no no but fr tho I am 5w4 lmao" but at the same time, I love originality and try to be as unique, original, and authentic as I possibly can (with as little cringe as I can manage lmao).