Lore + angst :

Why.... do i have feeling Shelly lore is.. Looking harmless but very deep like..

I think her lore about Always begin neglected and treated like extra... Or rather treated like annoying by her firends or anyone in the past cuz for matter of fact nort did get ask before someone wanting to know how teenage Shelly was like and nort was like oh you don't want to know... ALSO!

her badge is a participation award..So...IF you don't knowww.... WELL..

It's kinda becoming more obvious that she's person who masks her sadness and covers it up like it's okay I understand!

When she obviously has no one in gardenview to talk about fossils or her interests or anything no one has time for her and no one really seems to be in that interest she more like the yapper when it's her favorites! But no one seems want to listen cuz like I said they find it boring or useless or don't have time and she feels like she's burden and annoying cuz of it and tisha and Dandy don't really have time for her at alll

so she spends most of her time with pebble or alone

And from experience when you keep making up excuses! for someones actions and bottling up your feelings for them for not becoming a burden or to not worry them you wil realize at the end you have gained 2 things either a burnout or negative outcome

Cuz you never reallly expressed what you actually feel about it ( - _-')

Shelly Personality ! :

Shelly is ENFJ!

1- And like i said enfj's are usually people pleasers and struggle to say no!

(" extreme People-Pleasing" )

2- Also she wil expect from anyone to know about fossils facts! ("Over-Idealism" )

3- she can be a bit of patronizing or preachy

("Condescending Tendencies")

4- she WIL NEGLECT HER SELF for the sake of others or to keep harmony!

("Neglecting Themselves" )

But!

She can be

1- natural Cheerleader

2- Masterful Peacemaking

3- Persuasive Communication

BTW! SHE 9W1 ENFJ

Known to be THE HERO + PEACEMAKER!

She would be VERY EMPATHETIC!

She wil want to uplift others while doing what is fundamentally "right." !

strong desire for things to be "perfect"!

Relationships!

Mugman would probably be perfect bestie for Shelly both care about harmony both very empathetic and loyal and shelly will feel safe place to open up without judgment!

And bendy would never reallly get along with Shelly, cuz Shelly demands emotional depth and bendy would demand validation

And both will completely freeze Be out with a polite, icy wall of permanent distance. Bendy will hate this because they can no longer control or feed off Shelly's good nature

AND THATS IT FOR TODAY. :)

And I hope I'd didn't mischaracter Shelly...TAT

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Ever wondered what each Enneagram type would be like as a dog? Here's a quick breakdown of their type ! 🐕

Want to dive deeper into each type? Check them out here : One / Two / Three Four / Five / Six Seven / Eight / Nine

cannibal virus (see what happens when 2 gluttonous fools suddenly become cannibals overnight!)

Fi users have a delayed emotional reaction and cannot process things in real time. Fi needs to go inside itself to do those things, but often, life is passing too fast to allow that and when they can't be alone, and people are staring at them or waiting for a reaction, their solution is to default into their Enneagram coping mechanisms to balance it out.

For you as a 9, that is “don’t react / don’t cause conflict, let it blow over,” followed up later with self-annoyance that you kept the peace instead of standing up for a belief. For a 6, it’s “let’s deflect from my discomfort or question this, because I disagree and want to keep my friends / say nothing controversial that could bite me later.”

Unlike a Fe, you can’t process your feelings on the spot and express them instantly. It’s easier to shut down, let the moment pass, and don’t fight about it. Low Te has a sense of “if I could not be argued out of my convictions, you can’t either” and high Fi has an inner conviction that “you and I should be allowed to think what we want, provided we don’t force that on one another,” that may counter arguing about it with “it’s futile / not going to work, anyway.”

It’s likely none of your True Deep Convictions have been triggered yet in a way that makes you unable to remain silent. That day WILL come, but 99% of what ‘bothers’ Fi is not a hill worth dying on for a 9 core. You will save that fight for when it is fully “worth it.”

No, it does not mean you are mistyped. It means you have a dominant introverted function that needs time to weigh the emotional consequences of standing up for yourself or something else against the physical, emotional, and social costs it will require (9).

Inferior Te also can't immediately articulate their convictions or come up with an argument on the spot that is more in-depth than “I hate that,” which can make an IFP feel self-conscious (low Te problems) and hesitant about getting into a fight.

Which is not surprising to me because as an e9, we tend to not know what we really mean to the world. Our "potential." (I despise that word.)

For example, I only JUST realized that the reason why I can't achieve things in life is because I can't show up for myself but for others. For someone else, people, or something else. I don't know if I am even capable of showing up for myself. I tend to fall asleep to my own needs and desires. I avoid them like the plague, everything I do in life is either because someone else told me to do it or I am expected to do it.

This might sound like I would want to become a psychologist or a teacher but no. I want to be useful in quieter ways. Like, ways that tend to go unnoticed but would become painfully obvious if it was gone. This, of course, is overlooked in this society. Especially with the rise of ai but that's another topic for another day. And if an e9 lacks the proper guide they need in life, then they'll inevitably fall behind and when they fall behind they'll be labeled as lazy and nothing more by others. (Hi I am that e9.)

how do you set boundaries with the world around you? (do you assert yourself, do you blend in, do you please others, etc etc)

how do you act during stress? (are you more positive, do you stay calm and try to be "objective," do you get emotional, etc etc)

how do you act in anger? do you experience it often?

how do you act in shame? do you experience it often?

how do you act in fear? do you experience it often?

how do you act in relation to others in conflict? (withdraw, go-with-the-flow, upfront, etc)

how do you "get what you want?" (more demanding + straightforward, believe it should be earned, focus on self, etc etc)

Rumi - 1w2

At her core, Rumi is a perfectionist who does everything in her power to make sure things go as planned. She doesn’t want to be perceived as bad or immoral, which is a core value for type 1’s. However, with her wing, she does so in a more assertive way, choosing to play the savior rather than see how things play out and then react. This causes her to get upset when things go wrong, or when people see her as evil rather than a good person.

Zoey - 9w1

Zoey is very non-confrontational and does everything in her power to make everyone happy. She does this by trying to, in her own words, “play both sides” and tends to stray away from conflict. She often seems afraid of causing conflict and hurt feelings, and is constantly trying to please everyone, in whatever way she can. Her type 1 wing allows her to be accommodating to those around her, rather than assertive.

Mira - 4w3