#enneagram types

SEX SYMBOL 🥵 The H0rny Hornevian Triads ❤️‍🔥 Part 1: The Superego / Compliant Triad 🙏 Enneagram Types 1, 2, 6

written by Larissa

🧼🙏💦 Type 1: Losing My Religion

This will only hurt a little and it’s for your own good. Controlled burns and prescribed fires in my temple of hallowed temptation.

Unscented soap opera. Attraction purified and sanctified. Punishment mixed in for some pain/pleasure. 1’s know the correct way to experience a holy union, eggs over hard, poached to perfection, intentional mate-sculpting, rigid attention to details, spanking (literally, verbally, energetically) until their hot “dog” obeys orders. Might be attracted to slightly messy lovers/partners because it gives them a project or purpose (which will also be what destroys the relationship and makes it untenable). A paradox of sorts, these 1’s fixate in the realm of the carnal and energetically taboo, so it must feel idealistic, correct and pure. Sublimating and fetishizing into the shadow lying tucked and contained beneath carefully buttoned and pressed cotton. Control and discipline in the uncontrollable, dangerous instinct. 

🫴🍯💖 Type 2:  Heavenly Hands

I’m an easy lover, I'll get a hold on you, believe it. Like no other, before you know it you'll be on your knees. I'll take your heart but you won't feel it. Now get ready for your massage…

This persistent power bottom isn’t behind the throne, they’re sitting on the King’s lap and putting on a show of how necessary and alluring their nurturing is. Your enmeshed lover, defender, caregiver - no one will ever give you love like they do (they make certain of this by chaining themselves to your door and scaring away anyone else). And while they’re at it, they may also be showing off their nurturing to your friends. Shhhhhhh, gentle lamb. Have some more honey. This isn’t really about you, even though it feels like it is. It’s about how impressive the 2 is at “serving.” Open palms, enveloping bosom, breast milk with a love spell in it. They’re your love witch. It was fated. Over the top fussing, trussing, bussing - massages included at no extra cost (that you’re aware of, until it’s too late). The need to be needed is amplified by the sexual instinct, and they’re *not* a single-tentacled octoputhy. Every crevice will be filled, even ones you didn’t know you had.

🥃⚔️❤️‍🩹 Type 6: Chivalry & Chivas / Chardonnay

Oh no, officer, please don’t send me to h0rny jail. I’m a good girl/boy. Don’t place me under citizen’s arrest and search me, I forgot to wear my clean underwear. Let’s run away together! I’ll leave my abusive boyfriend + you leave your frigid wife!

SX6s fear not being seen as strong or desirable, so to compensate for their self-doubt they exaggerate their strength and/or beauty. They're the most counterphobic E6 subtype, going against fear with aggression. They act intimidating and aggressive, believing that appearing threatening will make people believe in their strength and desirability. They bark but rarely bite, as their intimidation is a tactic to not appear weak, not so much a way to actually hurt others.

SP6s see others as a threat, so to avoid this fear they act warm and submissive. They ally themselves with others to ensure that they won't be lashed out at, doing everything they can to appear likable. They desire warm and affectionate treatment from others, so they repress aggression, believing that they must always be good. They fear loneliness and dealing with the harshness of life on their own. Their strategy to avoid this is relying on others for warmth and protection. They also see everything in shades of gray to avoid conflict with others.

🩷THE LEFT DESIGN BELONGS TO: MATRIX SO3SX8LOVER

The Enneagram is confusing and mistypes are rampant because most people figure out their type based on nebulous traits like “creative,” “intuitive,” or “perfectionistic” instead of being taught the core underlying structure. 😭

My hope is that this little pdf simplifies the Enneagram into its barest most useful parts, revealing:

the lie each type tells themselves (and why) 🐍 🤫 the behavioral loop each type gets stuck in ♾️ why each type is so h0rny for their for core type’s struggle 🥵

SX5s want complete union with another person. They idealize romance and because of this they hold their partner to high standards, wanting the relationship to be the perfect one they envisioned in their head. They’re highly withdrawn and distrustful, and long for somebody they can fully trust and feel safe with. They avoid social interaction for fear of being hurt, but when they finally let their guard down, they exhibit a more vivacious side. They expect their partner to let their guard down just as much, due to their intense need for trust.

SP5s want to shield themselves from the world. They feel overwhelmed by the demands of life and other people, and due to this they retreat and hide, watching the world from the sidelines. They need a refuge to feel safe in. They're prone to hoarding, fearing a lack of resources. Despite this anxiety around survival, they try to get by on very little, denying their needs because they feel this is what gives them autonomy. They also place great emphasis on conserving their energy. They're obliging to the requests of others, not wanting to expend energy on conflict, but they're secretly resentful, often feeling used and abused.

SX4s are the most blatantly envious of the E4 subtypes. They compete with others to gain approval, even going so far as to make others suffer. They believe this will expel their feelings of deficiency. Despite their intense sense of lack, they act arrogant and aggressive, trying to cover up how inferior they feel. They feel like the world is against them and that they must fight to reclaim what it takes from them.

SP4s swallow their envy and often aren't even aware that they have envy. They see suffering and endurance as the key to being loved and recognized, which gives them masochistic tendencies. They're extremely stoic and believe that they must always keep their emotions private. They're the most self-sacrificing of the E4 subtypes. They fear a lack of resources and they rashly go after what they feel they need for survival. They're prone to risky behavior due to this.

SX3s rigidly conform to gender roles to be seen as an object of desire. They feel a deep need to be validated by a significant other and to achieve this they cultivate their image, working hard to appear desirable both physically and behaviorally. When they're in a relationship, they strive to be the perfect partner, believing that this will calm their insecurities. This results in them overindulging their partner and not prioritizing their own success and independence. They lack a solid identity, since they place so much emphasis on being desired. They continuously repress their own needs, focusing only on their partner.

SP3s prioritize an image of efficiency and productivity. They don't want to appear vain. Rather, they want to be seen as reliable, hard-working, and helpful. They crave security, money, and a stable position in the world, which often results in them being workaholics. They tend to identify themselves through their roles and performances. Being seen as a good and supportive person is a guarantee to them that they won't lose the people they're dependent on for validation.