obsolete observations

3. agonizing over the present

The horror is the idea that you might choose to spend your life with somebody only to realize they don't actually want a partner and friend, somebody with ambitions and thoughts and joy. They want somebody productive, compliant, and sexually available, and all your internal life is nothing but a barrier to that. That the person you love only loves what you do for them, and the less of the an actual person you are, the happier they are.

Happy pride month (Living Single 3x22, "Woman To Woman")

starting off pride month with one of the best coming out scenes in television history 💕

Hello???? Suggestions????

this is how new yorkers @ mamdani

— Reyna Biddy

I love this picture so much! Post it whenever I come across it.

(I used to have a printout of this at my desk at work because I just loved looking at it so much.)

Mon tabarnak j'vais te décâlisser la yeule, câlice!