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sorry to the "let people enjoy things" crowd but it's actually really fun to make fun of things you don't like. if u need ur interests validated by strangers then that's super not my problem

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'disabled' used to mean real shit like being a quadruplegic, now people call themselves disabled if they are anxious about making a phone call. what a joke
Considering all the many problems disabled people have I can't imagine this is one of them. Do you not believe mental illness can be a disability? It feels clear that's what you are making fun of here. If someone has extreme anxiety that hinders their ability to live life then that is a disability. Who does it hurt to fight for more people to have the support they need?
i myself have friends with serious physical conditions that that are not visible to the naked eye that are going to kill them before long. we both know that's not what i'm talking about.
i'm talking about people who declare their frustrations about their average lives disabilities. this morning i couldn't get out of bed (because i was glued to my phone) but you wouldn't catch me calling that disabled, even if it happened repeatedly.
why does this concern you?
these people are taking limited resources away from people who genuinely need them
and they also make disability look like a joke
no, i do not believe mental illness is a disability, i don't even believe it's an illness. it's nothing compared to physical disability. half of the people on this platform need a reality check not fully paid medical assistance
I don't know exactly what you're talking about and was trying to figure out your line. The same logic you are using to say depression is not a disability is the same types of things people have said to me to say my brain damage is not. To plenty of people they think I am taking away resources from "real" disabled people and making disability look like a joke. Because I do not look disabled and am more intelligent than people expect someone with brain damage to be. Especially as you do not see mental illness as a disability which are all caused by physical differences in the brain. If the physical differences they have are not a disability then why are mine? Is it because I was not born with it and received my injuries as a teenager? That doesn't really apply to any other sort of disability does it.
Here are just some conclusions on the physical effects happening in the brain of someone with depression though I will link the full study.
"In major depression, there is a hyperactivity of the white matter in the territories related to the frontal cortex and basal ganglia. Major depression involves altering the rewardâpunishment system. HF-rTMS produces metabolic changes in the ACG. Post-mortem in major depression, a reduced number of glial cells was found in the PFC; here there is also a dysfunctional junctional intercellular communication, which consists in a visible decrease in the transmission of the signal between astrocytes. Depression involves hyperactivity in the limbic areas where emotions are processed, with inhibition of the prefrontal areas. Hyperactivity is found especially in the amygdala, correlating directly with ruminant tendencies, intrusiveness, and adjacent anxiety. The amygdala is a key point in modulating affectivity,"
Another example would be schizophrenic which also has plenty of effects on the brain itself. "Johns Hopkins Medicine researchers say they found new evidence that schizophrenia can be marked by the buildup of abnormal proteins similar to those found in the brains of people with such neurodegenerative disorders as Alzheimerâs or Huntingtonâs diseases,". So is Alzheimerâs or Huntingtonâs diseases considered disabilities to you? Why is schizophrenia not? Is it because you believe it is less severe? How are the neurodegenerative issues of schizophrenic people not a disability that deserves accommodation?
So if mental illness is a physical process working incorrectly within the brain do tell me how that is not a disability? Why do they not deserve support for their brain but I do? If they are a joke then why am I not one?
The present review addresses major depressive disorder (MDD) and the implications of antidepressant treatment in the field of brain neuropla
https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/news/newsroom/news-releases/2019/06/physical-evidence-in-the-brain-for-types-of-schizophrenia
what you call mental illness is not the brain 'showing disfunctionality.' the WHY is missing. why is the brain doing that? can we find the root cause and change it?
you are confusing cause and effect. animals that think they are close to death become lethargic waste away and refuse food until they pass away
what if the brain (as in the actual processes going on inside the brain) were working as intended but the environment was not conducive to anything but pain, fear and boredom?
if you want to look into it check out radical psychiatry
If the brain was working as intended then areas wouldn't be experiencing neurological degeneration as in the case of schizophrenia, that is the why, the medical condition is the why. I regularly show disfunctionality and the why is my brain damage.
There are hundred percent cases where people are depressed because they are living in poverty but this is a different situation than clinical depression. Sometimes situations can be fixed but sometimes that does not matter because there is something wrong with the brain. In these cases that is a disability. Autism, schizophrenia, and depression are all disabling and cannot always be fixed by environmental changes. When it comes to Autism and conditions like ADHD these can never be fixed by environmental changes they are physical differences to the brain. A lot of mental illnesses are life long conditions.
Also I regularly engage with content that is against the psychiatric field. I believe there are a lot of problems with how we treat mental illness. In the same vein I believe more hospitals are abusive places and need to be changed. This doesn't mean I don't believe in disability or that mentally ill people are disabled.
You are mistaken about the etiology of depression. âClinical depressionâ is a diagnosis made upon a set of symptoms (for a period of 2 weeks or more iirc). Donât make things up and start equating different illnesses if you havenât read the DSM, for starters. If youâve read any of the research for schizophrenia and ASD, youâd also know these are thought to be developmental disorders in nature with strong genetic linkages. The age of symptom consent also matters significantly here.
Can you explain why women are twice as likely as men to have a diagnosis of depression? You canât, because there are MANY known risk factors for depression, including environmental nuances.
When you said âsometimes that does not matter because something is wrong with the brainâ, youâre oversimplifying the interplay between nature & nature, which is the environmentâs role in altering brain chemistry. Theres a significant pathological difference between SCZ and MDD.
Iâm not sure how people live with a reductionist attitude towards mental health and illnesses. Whatâs the point of getting treatment if youâre gonna assume so many patients with MDD are just incurable; why even do talk therapy? Your brainâs too disabled?
One thing I find fascinating about anti separatism arguments is it constantly frames it as women retreating from society somehow. Like women associating with each other somehow plucks us away from the rest of the world. Men are the number one separatists and I doubt anti separatists would ever consider this withdrawing from the rest of world.
Men practice separatism when they preferentially hire their buddies to the higher-paying jobs at their companies. They practice it when they hand down valuable keepsakes or estates to their favorite male relatives. They practice it when they socialize amongst themselves while not helping the facilitators of the social events, which are usually women.
They manage to practice separatism while keeping us as part of their world as little as needed. We can do the same.
Youâre saying âseparatism doesnât have to involve retreating from society, look how men do itâ but if a woman calls herself a separatist while married to a man, are you going to accept that?
I think you're making the mistake of treating the word "separatist" as a yes-or-no identity, rather than "separatism" as a series of actions, with degrees of rigidity.
Is it a separatist action to work for a man? No. But most of us don't have the option to make good money under a fully woman-owned/staffed company.
Is it a separatist action to spend spare energy to prioritize developing relationships and skills with your female coworkers over male ones? Yes, that's a good compromise. That's a degree of separatism that doesn't involve retreating from the benefits of current society.
Concerning boyfriends and husbands -
Practicing separatism while having relations with a man is tricky subject.
Men don't get into relationships with women for love but for real tangible benefits.
Even if you don't know what he gets out of you, he knows. If he wants something out of you he will try to force or coerce, or trick you into giving it to him. If he had no benefit from you he would dump you.
There are no exceptions to this.
A thing I often see self proclaimed âmisandristsâ with bfs/husbands or male sexual partners question is why should they have to forego that part of life when misogynistic men can fuck and marry women just fine without any internal struggle, and the thing with this argument is that not only do men not face the same risks to their lives and health being with a woman, as women do being with men, in fact they gain big benefits as you mention, but menâs hatred of women is also coming from a vastly different place. âMisandryâ is indeed a response to misogyny. Women on average worship males as much as males worship males and undermine women. Both socially and biologically, women have a tendency to revere men. Men are bigger and stronger on average, they look down on women instinctually. We are lesser to them. Social and societal structures only furthers this.
A woman whoâs seemingly aware of the dangers men pose, of how violent and strong they are, of how much they lie and manipulate to get what they want, to have such a woman still think sheâs special enough to pick well? Itâs naive and arrogant all at once. Itâs not mentally sound either. The man is the predator, the oppressor.
Most women who have been murdered by their male partners, whether it be romantic or solely sexual ones, also thought they picked well. They did not pick these men knowing or even imagining that their end would one day be at his hands.
An oppressor using the class placed under them in society will never be comparable to the seemingly aware oppressed person still refusing to part ways, as much what is in their control, with the person with power over them.
Saying all that and I hadnât even gotten into the difference in female and male promiscuity. Women sleeping around is not and never will be the same as men doing so. Not only are you perceived much differently for doing so, the risks are also higher once again physically even if he is not turning violent one day. Some STDs hit women more severely and then thereâs also the fact that pregnancy can potentially happen, unless the woman or man in question is sterile(though that still doesnât remove all the previously mentioned risks).
I think women can do what they want, if they wanna make stupid choices, thatâs on them. But it does make it basically impossible for me to feel bad because âmisandristsâ are usually pretty well educated in statistics, general dangers and male depravity and to then still choose to put themselves at risk the way some of them do? Well..
Seperatism without sexual and romantic seperatism seems fairly useless to me. Because these two things might be what benefits men the most and the single two things they target the most in relation to women. Everything else a lot of them are perfectly fine being completely separatist themselves. A lot of men would not mind having a society where womenâs sole purpose is romantic mothering of them and letting themselves be fucked by their men.
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Iâm going to say something that might sound crazy. Suicide and suicide attempts are sort of a societal alarm bell that says âsomething is very wrong with the environment this individual was in.â A living being choosing to take themselves out of existence is the most extreme act of distress there is. The state stepping in to silence this alarm bell by funneling suicidal people into a state sanctioned euthanasia program, normalizing this act through a socially accepted bureaucratic system, is not a good thing. It goes hand in hand with the stateâs interest in maintaining the status quo at the expense of the population and the psychiatric industryâs interest in individualizing societal problems to extract profit and aid the existing system. Itâs saying âthere are no complaints here, just people with sick brains, carry on.â
Exactly. Weâve gone from depression is a lifestyle choice => a chronic biological disease to the point where euthanasia is easier than social or public health reform. Itâs weird granting euthanasia as a treatment option for suicidal patients. Where do they draw the line for capability of informed consent? If sheâs acutely suicidal, is she in the state to choose medically-assisted suicide? If she can decide, then a whole lot or suicidal teens like her will convince themselves (as well as psychiatric providers, who notoriously medicalize female trauma) they are terminal.If it was her parentâs choice, then weâre opening a whole different can of worms concerning autonomy. What a dystopian mess for psychiatry.

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there is something kind of sick about âyou need to pretend to love hearing straight women talk about their boyfriends or you are abandoning them to abuseâ
I used to not get lesbians until I realized they arenât just horny sex freaks, but also feel romantic attraction! đĽşđĽşđĽşđĽşâđťâđťâđť#ally
women arenât choosing to be lesbians for emotional understanding, itâs technically possible that a man could understand me better emotionally, but that doesnât matter because I physically am incapable of feeling attraction to a man! the phrasing of this post is so weird, itâs like those people who think lesbians decide to try women after being scorned by men. it doesnât work like that, itâs an innate immutable thing.
Yeah I do think they see us as women giving women a try after being scorned by men because thatâs how they are. Seems like itâs a relatively popular thing for straight women to lament âhavingâ to date men (you donât. No one does) and âwishingâ they were attracted to women instead. But their idea of women dating women is just like. Chastely braiding each otherâs hair and going to Sephora together because itâs taboo for women to have any active sexual desires at all in a society that expects us to be passive for men, but especially taboo to desire other women. That is literally the only thing that makes you lesbian or bisexual though. Not some innate âunderstandingâ that all women share because lesbian women are not a monolith and we all have different personalities and life experiences. Plenty of people have been in bad/unsatisfying relationships where they didnât feel understood by their partner! Regardless of sexual orientation. But, quite frankly, I find the implication that these straight women go into dating expecting to not be understood and to feel zero emotional connection to their partner alarming. If you feel like men and women are from completely different worlds and you could never connect with a man on a deep level, do not date them. Once again, you donât have to. And giving up on men doesnât mean you have to âtryâ women.
it's easily observed that most women understand the danger men pose to them. it's widely acknowledged that things, on the whole, have been very bad for women everywhere for a very long time, and that the individual liberties women have in the west today (mostly the freedom to produce and to consume, albeit still not to the degree that men are entitled to) have done little to make women the actual decision makers in society. it's, as they say, a man's world, and that certainly hasn't been threatened by any social movement on a wide scale. and yet none of this has hampered women's collective devotion to and enthusiasm for partnering with and making more men, and the only group actually explaining this, or even talking about it, is the blackpill feminist.
if anything, blackpiller feminists have an optimistic perspective, which is the crux of the argument, that people (and for once that includes women) are doing these frankly baffling things Because They Want To. like that's genuinely the whole point. all of this everywhere is happening because People Fucking Want It, and of course the inverse statement, that People Want To Fuck. that's the scary boogeyman argument everyone is so afraid of, that, according to our detractors, we as blackpill feminists must have been each individually spited or traumatized into realizing. because obviously there's no other way to come to that conclusion.
and that's why we're never making it out of the patriarchy, innit, because even just talking about women's actions in the first place means you hate women. any suggestions for how to get the boot off our neck means you supported the boot the whole time and you want women under the boot forever. even mainstream feminists don't want to talk about men's actions anymore for, i presume, similar reasons; the party line has shifted from "men oppress women" to "patriarchy oppresses everyone" because holding up a mirror is actually worse than hurting a woman in the first place since hurting women is just business as usual. noticing it, or, god forbid, doing something about it (like choosing not to screw and birth men), is actually the worst thing you can do, and the close runner up to that is to tell other women they don't have to screw and birth men either. but women don't want that solution so i guess we're just gonna do this until humans are wiped off this planet.

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don't shave your legs this summer HOLD THE FUCKING LINE
the hair literally makes you less sticky
If you spend any time where thereâs ticks you can better feel them on your legs with leg hair. More leg hair = less tick bites
Have you felt the breeze in your leg hair? It's magical. Feel that breeze.
Woman sentenced to 50 years in prison for killing the man who had groomed her since she was 14, raped her, and financially coerced her into multiple cosmetic surgeries.
50-year-old Hal Sasko invited 17-year-old Sarah Brooke Gonzales-McLinn to move in with him after she graduated high school. Three years earlier, Sarah worked for Sasko at the pizza shop he owned. When she left that job, Sasko continued to contact her. Sarah confided in him about her complicated relationship with her parents, her neighbor molesting her as a child, and her experience being raped by a man that burned her with his cigarette.
âSasko promised to take care of her.â
Sasko charged Sarah rent and provided her with âunlimited access to marijuana and alcoholâ while increasingly demanding more money for gas, her phone, and other bills.Â
When Sasko shared that he was attracted to Sarah, she âshut him down.â When she discussed moving out, Sasko threatened to sue her and told her he could wreck her credit so that she could never get an apartment or buy a car. Eventually, Sasko started demanding sex alongside rent.
After this, Sasko bragged to his friends about having a âyoungâ but âunattractiveâ girlfriend and started pushing Sarah to have cosmetic surgery.
He paid for her to get a nose job, then added the $6,000 cost to the bill she would have to repay before she could stop having sex with him. He told her that men donât like flat-chested women. She needed a curvier body. He wanted her to have breast augmentation surgery, but the doctor said she was too young. He arranged for her to have buttocks implants instead. She objected but felt she had no choice. He added the $10,000 cost to her bill. She estimated that he raped her two to three times per week for 10 months.
On Janary 14, 2014, Sasko texted Sarah to apologize for trying to rape her earlier that week. But at 5:15 pm, he sent a text asking her to put beer in the refrigerator. Sarah said she knew if Sasko was drinking, he would try to rape her again. When he lost consciousness that night, Sarah reportedly made the decision to slit his throat.
Lawrence police questioned her after she was found 11 days later in Everglades National Park. Detective Jamie Lawson wanted to know why she used Saskoâs blood to write âFREEDOMâ on the wall. âWhat were you trying to express when you did that?â Lawson asked. âThatâs how I felt,â she replied. Later, [Sarah] told Hutchinson that killing Sasko felt like standing in the sun for the first time.
During her 2015 trial, prosecutor Charles Branson argued that it would be âinappropriateâ for the jury to hear about Saskoâs abuse because it might cause them to âfeel sympathyâ for her. The jury never learned that Sasko was a rapist or of his constant use of pornography that featured children, bestiality, and videos of men raping women who appeared to be sleeping.
On September 4, 2015, a judge sentenced Sarah to a minimum of 50 years in prison. In May 2021, Sarahâs defense attorney successfully argued for reducing her prison sentence to a minimum of 25 years, after which she would be legally allowed to seek parole.
In a column for the Kansas Reflector, Sarahâs prosecutor and defense attorney co-wrote an article claiming, âbattered woman syndrome defense wouldnât be a Get Out of Jail Free card.â
Prison staff continue to taunt and objectify Sarah.
[Sarah] said her unwanted buttocks implants are a constant reminder of the physical and emotional pain Sasko inflicted on her. Shortly after she arrived at prison, she asked to have them removed. âThey were all just curious,â [Sarah] said. âI remember one nurse went and called another nurse in and they both touched me.â The state denied her the medical procedure. âYeah, it would be ideal if all of the nurses would, you know, follow HIPAA and keep your medical stuff private, but they donât,â [Sarah] said. âAnd they told a lot of people â a lot of officers, a lot of inmates. That was just very traumatic.â
Sasko was attempting to groom two 16-year-old girls before Sarah stepped in. Her reported actions likely saved these girls years of similar torture.
"Confidential police reports revealed Sasko was grooming 16-year-old twin girls before his death. Their mother was furious at the attention and gifts he provided them, including cash, gas, clothes, subwoofers for their car, and an unsolicited envelope of marijuana. When the mother blocked his number on their phones, he bought them new phones. If they ever wanted to run away, he told the girls, they could move in with him" (x).
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I'd like it if women who sleep with men and date them were more honest about the reasons why. It's okay to say that you just really like dick because that's how evolution spat you out and that there's nothing feminist about it. It's okay to say that you enjoy the power dynamics, the receiving role, the degradation. It's okay to say that you're masochistic and just really like the way things are. It's okay to say that you just really like men, their bodies, and how they are, and that you're willing to take a lot of risks to be with men because that's an important goal to you. It's okay to say that you do not give a single flying fuck about any ideological goals because having a man is more important to you. What's some abstract feminist goal 200 years in the future when compared to the warmth of a body of someone you're attracted to lying next to you right now, right? What's some abstract feminist separatist goal concerning women you don't know and don't give a shit about when compared to Thomas from Starbucks without whom you feel restless and like your heart has been ripped out of your chest, right?
I'd unironically respect it if they were honest. I'd respect it far more than the endless coping and virtue signaling about how it's super feminist to sleep with a bunch of different men and be a BDSM sub and how sex is actually extremely symmetrical and equal. Just say what you feel. Do not justify it, just be aware of it. You don't owe us a justification for it, you can want the things you want without trying to convince us that it's super deep, feminist, elevating and rational. Who convinced you that all of your motivations have to be an extremely thought-out phd dissertation? Who lied to you and told you that all human motivations have to be a result of rational inquiry? Have you forgotten that we are literally apes?
Not prone to catching feelings whatsoever so maybe I can't speak on this, but I don't get the hype around being "pursued". Honestly that would put me off even if I had feelings for the other party to begin with. Even the term "pursue" is creepy tbh. Activates my fight or flight.
Yeah, if the feelings are mutual then what happens is just âone party asks the other party out and the other party says yesâ. I have been pursued and it was indeed gross and creepy.
All these dating/romance strategies of courtship just sound like an uncomfortable ritual meant to haze us into thinking itâs attractive.