Wunjo

[ID: a digital drawing of grass and pink and yellow flowers with the text “fuck ice”. End.]

They're enslaved by nature. It's no wonder they're not seen as rational or logical when they do the most illogical shit. Most women aren't Ada Lovelace, they're not genuises. Most cannot even vet the father of their children yet they call to have "women's intuition" or be act as if they're the gatekeepers of life. Ma'am, you'll get knocked up by a homeless man because he said you have a tiny wait and fat ass. GTFO.

This is exactly why I don't listen to women. It's all noise, and their actions speak louder.

They can read all the feminist literature, they can study scientific articles regarding male behavior, they can list endless male violence statistics, but they eventually succumb to loving the same creature they claim to be repulsed by.

This push away from and pull back towards nature is the origin of their cognitive dissonance. They're conflicted with nature vs. the human-made stories created to make nature more palatable.

They're conflicted about nature so they bargain through various means: feminism, radfem discourse, the matriarchy fantasy, the womb envy cope, the countless movements and sex strikes that go nowhere. These are the stories that make the biological role of the female seem less brutal. Childbirth and pregnancy don't seem so violent if it's called "divine". After all, men are just jealous they can't create life, right?

And there are those few of us women who were born with an instinct that kept us away from males completely. We don't possess the same cognitive dissonance. We couldn't be socialized or compelled by biology to fuck or entertain males.

This is why feminism is useless to us. We don't need to bargain with males because we want nothing to do with them and nothing from them. Not a dollar, not a baby, not the illusion of a gentleman, nothing.

(Typing this really quickly on break) 

Especially how marriage and children just bring out the absolute worst in people. You don’t even need to experience a terrible relationship to realize that it’s an absolute nightmare of a situation to be stuck in you just have to watch and observe these people. 

I work part time in a diner and a majority of our patrons are newer families and married couples (considering the area that I live in). There’s obviously some that are really sweet and make sure their children behave but the ones that aren’t are awful. 

The ones that piss me off the most are seeing men just sitting there scrolling through their phones while their wives handle all the work with their toddler/newborn. Like I’ll see the baby in the carrier being rocked and pacified with a bottle and the toddler is sitting on her lap. Some of the worst experiences I’ve had were watching toddlers throw a huge tantrum over the food and their (usually) mothers desperately trying to get them to eat. And if it’s not that, then they’ll be on their iPads/their parents phone blasting music or a video. It's so annoying. This is why so many children grow up to be entitled, phone addicted brats.

This might be more of an argument to not have children, but I hate the way that some families will let their kids run through the tables and chairs and then get upset when the kid bumps their head into the corners of the table, trips over something or even rams into one of my co workers who’s carrying food. 

What even happened to teaching kids table manners??? Do these parents realize that being at a restaurant gives them the opportunity to teach them how to treat retail/customer service workers with manners and respect?

Women are so much more then just baby factories. We are complete and whole people, beautiful, wonderful and complex. Layered and complicated. Glorious and messy. Unstoppable. For religion to limit us to just making babies is beyond insulting. There is so much more to us then just to please men and have kids. I'm so incredibly fed up with the lies that we have thought we have to believe. We don't have to have kids, get married, or follow your God to have a beautiful and meaningful life!

Horse Pendant (Dagdan). Turkmen Iran or Central Asia, 19th Century.