To say that living is a privilege is to say that nonexistence is an injustice, which is absurd. There is no one being oppressed for not being born because, surprise, they do not exist. But to bring a child into this world is the first possible violation of consent, to make the choice of creating another's subjective experience fully aware that they may hate it.

All of us exist only because our parents were selfish and wanted a vessel for entertainment, or because of your father's perpetration of rape. Life is only born out of selfishness or tragedy and the cycle of trauma continues throughout the child's life and to the following generations ad nauseam. For every happy experience one person has, many many more will be trafficked, raped, beaten, exploited, killed. To ignore this is incredibly dangerous (and arguably bigoted as well) and ignores all the people pushed into the hellscapes of oppression.