I’m so over the het partnered women refusing to remove their heads from men’s asses. Stop calling yourself radical feminists if you aren’t capable of examining and understanding why participating in patriarchally significant transaction, which is what marriage was and still is, should not be wanted or had. Stop acting like distancing yourself from men in your life and prioritizing other women is the worst thing that could be asked of you. How can you call yourself a feminist and be so willing to exist in relation to a man, no matter how liberal or radical you defend him to be, who will always be socialized as a man, benefit from being a man, and wield a power and mobility you cannot even attain as a woman? How can you willingly and happily exist like that? Why is it so hard to not only acknowledge that you’re groomed to be married and to be a mother and to preform unpaid labor not only physically but emotionally and to actually reject that socialization and exist free from it? Why is political celibacy so abhorrent instead of the idea of partnering with someone who will exploit and dominate you in ways that you all go blue in the face swearing they won’t? Stop acting like your children growing up in household with a man won’t affect them negatively when we’ve all lived it and know that it will in some way help condition your son to be the same as every other and your daughter in subordination. Be realistic. Actually practice radical feminism if you’re going to call yourselves one.

I feel y'all need to read the three books bell hooks wrote about the importance of romantic love in our lives. You can be a radfem without being ideologically pure. Geez

romantic love and we are talking about men

its so hard . to exist knowing that just by existing . u are meat to the rabid dog sitting next to you on the train. interviewing u for a job. the professor who sees u as rotted but chews u out anyway. ur father who wants to keep you in a freezer. u are to be consumed. again and again and again. until u die. then the desperate dig up your bones in the dead of winter to gnaw on. they chew on your memory turning u into something unrecognizable. a meal that never was. you cannot satisfy them even in death. u cannot own your flesh and bones and name even in death.

u let them chew on you occasionally just to feel something with love being impossible against an expiry date. you let them so you can't get upset when they start nibbling too close to the vital stuff and creating scars that won't heal over, except for when u do. then they act like they weren't salivating in anticipation to begin with, they lash out as they've been left out of a meal they've already planned. you are now a reminder of their infinite and indiscriminate hunger. unable to cope with misplaced shame in their need, they try to spin it that not only is being mauled your divine purpose, you should be so lucky. you are evil for wanting to keep your flesh to yourself when there are hungry dogs all around you begging, hunting, plotting and scheming for scraps.

I’m stating the obvious here but it really does disturb me how much of male sexuality seems to focus on control and humiliation and pushing boundaries. the fact they make women uncomfortable is part of the appeal. they enjoy seeing regret in pornstars eyes. they like making deepfakes of women they know specifically because they know the women would hate it.

I'm glad I'm not the only person seeing this. "Me rescuing the Latina baddie from ICE.", legitimately kill yourself.

Remember how They were TRIPPINGGGG over themselves at the rate they were posting “memes” about “saving” Ukrainian/russian women via making them sex slaves.

it wasn't just a meme, brothel owners in germany were trying to traffick recruit them as they exited the rescue trains. these men aren't "joking"

The most searched genre on pornhub when Russia invaded Ukraine was "Ukrainian". Men will always masturbate to our pain.

My least favorite thing about being in a gathering of women is when it becomes hettie support group. Usually a couple men being there prevent this from happening. You'd think "thank god the men are gone now we can stop including them in everything" and then it turns into some dumb aita validation contest

i don’t think i’m exaggerating when i say that the average height for women in the US would increase by at least an inch if teen girls were allowed to eat as much as teen boys are

Can literally anyone explain why “girlboss feminism” is actually bad tho. Why is it bad for women to be strong and successful. Does anyone know or do we just hate women. No one says “boyboss” when the main character of an action movie is a guy who kills a bunch of dudes.

Also it’s shortsighted and illogical. If we were to change the social and civil laws that are unfair to women, women have to take over every influential position to make it happen. Because real effective change comes from having seats at the table, not from protesting outside the door or begging those in power to feel sympathy for us. I honestly think bashing that idea is psyop by men to discourage women from seeking more positions of power. It’s not surprising to me that right after this, tradwives content became popular because women don’t have to work and be a girlboss anymore. They should just let men lead the home and the country and it’s okay. If anything that tells me women are close to a breakthrough, all this resistance is because we’ve hit a vital nerve in the patriarchal structure. We should go back to that instead of this current nonsensical movement.