Bisexual John Danziger Evangelist

Every time I apply my oestrogen gel because of menopause I think "there is a trans woman somewhere who is also sitting in her underwear post shower waiting for the gel to dry before she finishes getting dressed" and I feel happy and a sense of kinship and camaraderie with her even though I am not a trans woman or even trans femme in anyway

i keep seeing that post about how frustrating the buff guy -> petite girl type genderbending is, and i wanted to add my two cents regarding the addition of ‘just swap pronouns and don’t change the design’ approach because i think these are two sides of the same coin, as they both fail to really delve into what i think is the most interesting aspect of this design exercise.

Not this anon: https://www. tumblr. com/mousidy/819131738906378240/ but I do want to sincerely thank you for this (and I am also thanking those in the replies & reblogs) as I am now trying to look at my transition goals critically and make sure that I'm not unintentionally transitioning into looking like someone who wouldn't be out of place as a transmisogynistic caricature.

I've been getting a couple asks lately that are like this and like? you can and should do whatever you want with your transition. nothing you can do with your transition itself is going to be inherently harmful to trans women. a lot of ways a person can look are going to be stigmatized and caricatured, that doesn't mean it's harmful to look that way. seek what will bring you fulfillment and joy with your transition. your transition is yours and no one else's