"You're not allowed to complain about me doing x behavior because it's not a form of systemic discrimination." Okay what if I told you that there are things in the world that are bad besides systemic discrimination. What if I told you that while x behavior may not be systemic discrimination, it is still asshole behavior. It's still antisocial (opposite of prosocial). It still makes the world worse. It's still makes you a tar pit.
"Everyone should just do whatever they want as long as it's not systemic discrimination against marginalized people" is an abysmally low bar and I actually do think humans are capable of more. I actually do believe we can have a world where we are kind to each other and care for each other. I am going to hold people to a higher standard and say so when people aren't meeting it. I would like us not to be tar pits.
