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Why are these innuendos even needed?

Why does a year long relationship still need to hint at its own existence?

Why is there a business profile that’s about everything except business and a bunch of cliché quotes, when its real purpose is obvious to anyone with a double digit IQ?

If Sam were truly in a serious, loving relationship, there are two ways he could have handled it.

The first, and in my opinion the one most suited to him: we simply wouldn’t know she existed. He would be quietly and happily in love, without putting anyone at risk in the process.

The second: he would look happy. He would glow around her. He would want to share her with the world. He would look back to make sure she was there because he wanted her there.

This strange limbo we’re in looks like everything except a serious, loving relationship, and every little stunt like this only proves it more.

As always, a voice of reason and an excellent post.

Another…Sam in suit…🤫

Bat is alright, I just have fresh news from her via @cajon-desastre, to whom I would like to say a very public, heartfelt thank you!

@bat-cat-reader's account has been suspended. Again. Because someone tried too many times to connect to her Tumblr account yesterday night, European time. For seven hours in a row, from 2 to 9 AM - now that is a coordinated, furious and despicable attack!

I think I know who did it. And I would like to talk directly to you, scum of the Earth. You and ALL your sock accounts. You and all your Anons, who share the same grammar and spelling problems, ALWAYS.

WHY? Why did you do that to a woman of grace and worth, who did NOTHING to you? Why do you hate her so much, as to be rabidly determined to cut her off a community who loves her and will always be by her side?

Is it envy? Is it despair? Did you want to reach or hurt someone else and were too afraid to try? Did you want to scare us all?

Let me tell you something. YOU FAILED. I am standing by her. She is also standing by her. And also she, she, she and she and she and she... all over the world. In all the time zones. We stand by her and we will do all our possible to have her back soon and safe.

I would also STRONGLY suggest you immediately stop playing with fire. Remember my Romanian proverb: if you play with fire, you will wet your bed.

I am going to do exactly what I did this summer and write to my contact at Tumblr. Please reblog this post and write to @support and @staff, too. Help me help Bat, whom we miss terribly and love to bits.

Help me bring her back home, one more time. Thank you!

Another…Sam in suit…🤫

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@balfeslove

So, I’ve only been shipping SC ‘with’ you all since August sometime.  And I don’t have the timelines of Caitriona’s schedule as dialed in as some of you.  But one thing that keeps nagging me about her having a ‘civilian’ boyfriend that SHE apparently didn’t have before Outlander began and only happened after she started filming OL, is this:

So she gets cast late August, early September 2013.  Is in Scotland by mid September, is working, which includes learning script, meetings, horseback riding lessons, other lessons?, costume fittings, annndd then filming.  She is in every scene, filming 12 + hours a day with weekends off, which more than likely a good part of that is spent learning lines and sleeping/resting I would imagine, with occasional munro bagging with some guy she met on OL, “magical evening walks” with some guy she met on OL (according to him), visits from across the globe friends – Donal, etc.  This is more than likely her schedule for SEVERAL months.  I believe I read somewhere that they were filming for 9 or 10 months originally, even if it were 6 months, then some time off, then promoting, then back to filming for 3 more months – that’s pretty much more than one year of her life devoted to OL.  During her time off she was in California (not the UK), going to Big Sur, hiking the LA Canyons with her sister and some guy she met while filming OL, hanging with her cat and friends, etc., just being HOME.  Then her and her costar are doing some heavy promoting during the summer, then back to filming in August (I believe?).

Okay, stay with me – Now we’re into the fall/end of year of 2014.  They wrap in October.  She’s in LA (@home) for Thanksgiving with her good friends – Simon, Karolina and others (have you seen the Thanksgiving photos on IG – she’s either exhausted, a bit drunk or not entirely happy or all three).  In December according to accounts she does a whirlwind trip to NY, Paris, Ireland (I do believe that’s all very doable btw).  Then in January 2015 her and her costar from OL are at People’s Choice Awards – in LA .  Also at this time she knows her ‘flat’ is on the market so she realizes she’s going to have to move, so does she stay in LA even though she’s rarely there anymore or uproot and move to Glasgow where she WORKS many months out of the year for OL?  Well, yeah.  

Seven years is a long time. I feel bad for them.

[May 2016, Hollywood Walk of Fame with Jodie Foster]

[July 7, 2016. Lemon and hugs]

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Happy Birthday, Boo1! 🎁🎂🥳

Happy Birthday to Boo1! The first of many little Heughmans! 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻❤️

I have never seen Cait with such an edematous face!!

Cait’s face has always been the give away when

This pictures were my boarding pass!

And this is the picture of my face on my boarding pass ID

I’ve been a fan of yours since I learned you and Sam were going to play two characters I’ve loved for decades. I’ve never fanned before, and Tumblr (which I discovered quite by accident) is my first foray into social media. 

I soon found others who seemed like minded, and I kept hearing a word I didn’t understand: shipper. I had to google it to learn its meaning. Yep, I’m a shipper.

Everything I saw and read about you and Sam aligned with what I intuitively sensed – that you are kind, compassionate, humble, generous, and just Good People. Even when shippers had their first “Down the Rabbit Hole” moment with your denial before the 2016 Golden Globes, I supported you both. 

It was clear to me from your dramatic about-face from the previous day that Starz CEO Chris Albrecht learned you were planning to reveal your relationship and forced the denial. I didn’t blame you; rather my heart went out to two people who were being punished for the crime of falling in love with their costar. 

Throughout the narrative when Sam was playing the lead role, I supported him. It was again clear to me that being paired with anyone other than you was distressful for him. I’m sure it also wasn’t easy for you to see your husband linked to another woman. 

These are photos of you and Sam from when the narrative was in full swing. You both look exhausted.

Sam appeared to be on the verge of a physical, mental, and emotional breakdown after a year and a half of his narrative. Perhaps that’s why you offered to take the lead role with your “engagement.” I don’t think it’s a coincidence that your well-being appeared to start suffering at that time. 

Cait, I have always supported you, no matter what was going on. Even after your first blocking spree on Twitter, I backed you 100% because I knew you were doing the best you could. Since you recently blocked someone who had the audacity to wish you and Sam a Merry Christmas, however, I now find myself in a quandary. I don’t think you have changed at heart, but your behavior no longer represents the woman I have respected and admired.

I have no right to offer my suggestions (and my prayers), but I think highly enough of you to want to reach out in the only way I can. 

If Lionsgate/Starz is still directing the narrative, I pray you find the courage to stand up for your rights in this era of Time’sUp and MeToo. I understand it will require a huge leap of faith, and I believe you have the inner fortitude to do it. There are many women, myself included, who would support you in this. By standing up for yourself, you have the opportunity to be a role model to women who are still being manipulated by those in power.

If your PR team is directing the narrative, I pray you choose a different team that has all your best interests at heart, including your professional life, your personal life, and your health. 

If you and Sam are directing the narrative, I pray you look with open eyes at the toll it’s taking and decide if whatever benefits you’re getting are worth the price you’re paying. In my opinion it has not only negatively affected your health, it has alienated some of your best fans and has bled into Outlander. 

This message comes from the place in my heart that wants only the best for you and Sam. By taking appropriate steps and being honest about your relationship, I think most people will come to respect you and your privacy. 

I found one on SIS Brazil IG but for some reason when I copy it here, the link doesn't work. 🤷🏻‍♀️ But I assure you, it's there and these are the screen shots I took from it.

Sam said he is very proud of how the show promoted Scotland.

We are ambassadors (just so there's no confusion, he meant both of them because he looked at her when he said that)

Then she giggled and asked

Sam then answered

Now, I'm asking this just for the sake of argument, mostly because anti anons have been sooooo busy lately, trying to make us see the "truth"...

And beware, this is a simple, LOGICAL question.

Why turn her last name into a Scottish version when she "married" a certain Scottish beanie loving, sideburns rocking, albeit very shy, music producer whose last nam starts with Mc...?

If Sam had said "but you are, you're a McGill", that would be it, wouldn't it? The day would be proclaimed as a National holiday in Antiland and celebrations would last into the wee hours of the night (in all the time zones) because that would be the rebuttal that would shut our mouths forever. 🤐

Is McFairy really such a shy and fragile person that if his "wife" utters his name he might 💨 into thin air? 🫥

Also, he could've said "but you are, you're married to one" or "you are, by marriage" but that would be on the verge of coming out and admitting to which Scot she's actually married to.

Again, makes you wonder - when Sam said that he and Caitriona stopped buying gifts for each others birthdays and just take each other out for dinner and drink's and he takes her home after she has one too many but during turtle soup scene Cait blurted out how Sam said that scene was too close to home - does that mean that McFairy is the designated driver? Naaah... you celebrate your birthday first and foremost with your husband/wife. No husband/wife is THAT understanding, especially if you have a smoking hot co-star with whom you shot the hottest and realistic sex scenes in TV history and during Covid you played tonsil hokey with said co-star and pushed your thumb into his mouth before devouring him (while pregnant!)

So, once again... they chose and always will choose a less favourable option that will work in their favour when they decide to end the narrative - she never, excuse me THEY never confirmed to whom she is actually married to, never uttered his name.

She's married to her HUSBAND, to the love of her life that she has Outlander to thank for and for being an honorary Scot.

Her husband likes to read about gin, he even manufactured one. Their son loves singing Smooth operator and her husband used it to promote his gin on SM right after Father's day... see?

However you spin it, it always comes back full circle to the one that has confirmed it publicly. That's enough for me.