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Distance by car between downtown EDI (the fan pic was taken in front of The One Bookshop, on the Royal Mile) and Melrose is between one hour to one hour and a half, considering traffic and time of day. Feasible.

The reality is that for many of us, Sam and Outlander are deeply connected. Most of us discovered him because of Jamie Fraser. We fell in love with the character first, and then became interested in the actor behind him. That's not unusual. It's how fandom works.

Now Outlander is over.

Yes, the show is still available to watch and it will most likely bring in new viewers. Some of those viewers will become Sam fans too. But the question I keep coming back to is: what does Sam's career look like now that there are no new seasons bringing millions of people back every year?

On one hand, Sam is doing what many actors do after a long-running role. He's exploring different opportunities. There are the whisky businesses, the books, the travel projects, the charity work, acting roles, voice work, appearances and events. On paper, that all makes sense. But I also understand why some fans are feeling uneasy. Over the years, the relationship between Sam and the fandom has changed. In the earlier days, many fans felt they were seeing a more spontaneous, authentic version of him. These days, some feel that nearly every social media post is connected to a product, a launch, an event or a promotion. Whether that's fair or not is another discussion entirely.

The truth is that fame changes things. Running businesses changes things. Having every post analysed by thousands of people changes things. At the same time, I think some fans are experiencing a kind of fatigue. There seems to be a feeling among parts of the fandom that they're constantly being sold something. A new bottle. A new event. A new project. A new experience. Again, that doesn't mean Sam is doing anything wrong. He's building a career and businesses beyond Outlander. That's perfectly reasonable. But right now, there are fans who feel less like they're sharing a journey with him and more like they're customers being marketed to.

Then there's another issue that makes everything even messier.

A growing number of fans seem less interested in Sam's work and more interested in his private life. Every photo, every comment, every interview gets picked apart and turned into theories, hidden meanings and innuendo. Personally, I wonder if that's part of the reason we see less of the spontaneous Sam that we fans remember.

If every post becomes a conspiracy theory, wouldn't you become more guarded too?

And it creates a strange cycle. Fans critisze and analyze. Sam becomes more private. Fans feel he's becoming less authentic. Which causes even more speculation.

The result is a fandom that feels a little lost at the moment.

Some fans are excited for whatever comes next. Some are frustrated. Some are worried that without Outlander the momentum will slow down. Some are simply happy to support whatever Sam chooses to do. Maybe all of those feelings can be true at the same time.

What I do know is that we're watching something that happens to a lot of actors. For twelve years Sam Heughan was the face of one of television's most beloved characters. Now he's trying to figure out who Sam Heughan is beyond Jamie Fraser, while fans are trying to figure out what their place is in that journey.

Perhaps that's why everything feels a little uncertain right now.

Not because Sam is a fraud.

Not because the fandom is collapsing.

But because we're all standing in the space between what was and what comes next.

No doubt, Sam has had to learn how to reinvent himself over the past year and a half and deal with the end of one era and the beginning of another. But he is not some rare exception. Caitriona went through the exact same thing, probably in a healthier way. Plenty of actors who played one role for years, with the same level of intensity, have gone through it too. And so do regular people, when they leave a place after many years or go through a drastic life change. Sometimes under much harder circumstances.

At the end of the day, he got twelve very successful years. Those years gave him a platform, opportunities to build businesses, and a large fanbase that stood behind him. The fact that he is now destroying that with his own two hands doesn’t mean I have to feel sorry for him.

It may be a bit of a chicken and egg situation, like you said, but I have no doubt that if Sam weren’t so secretive and manipulative, people wouldn’t be analyzing every reflection in his photos. If people believed he had nothing to hide and that he was honest with his fans, there would be no need to take out a magnifying glass to figure out where he is, build timelines, and ask how, within 72 hours, he somehow managed to be in London, Cork, Belfast, Glasgow, and Edinburgh.

I am sure many people will absolutely welcome more genuine, organic things about S and by S. And less bearding, drama, trolling and commercial content than we are being served in generous, daily helpings right now.

Transitioning from one job and lifestyle to another is never easy. It happens to millions of people all around the world. Diplomats, military people, people who get married abroad, people who leave their home for a better life elsewhere, people who go through a rough patch in life, people who divorce, people who lose their jobs and stability from one day to the other. We are talking about a 46 year old man who seems unable to balance his (public) persona and his (intimate) anima, in order to offer a clear cut view on who he really is. We think we know why and every faction has its own theory, but what remains constant and clear is that he's got something to hide.

He swears that they are "just good friends,"A platonic bond that never ends.

But every time his phone lights ,It’s her face who comes up .

He knows her coffee order, yes, and helps her with her daily stress. He quotes her words like holy text, I’m sitting here, the one who’s vexed.

When date night comes, she tags along, The third wheel singing Freedom's song.

He holds my hand, yet turns his head, o check if she is safely fed.

They share inside jokes from the past: A secret language made to last. Im just the girl he dates to dine, while she is clearly his Valentine.

It’s the fact that they still exist.

A year into this circus and we’re still being fed interview scraps, vague tags, unclear innuendos, and kindergarten level social media signalling.

A year of feeling like we’re being played, watched, answered, and treated like complete idiots.

A year in which Sam has lost a lot of the respect and goodwill he had from almost every corner of the fandom. And not because of one relationship or another, but because of the way he has handled himself within it.

This is supposedly a relationship that isn’t private enough to be private, but isn’t public enough to be public either.

It exists in that convenient middle ground where the audience is expected to draw its own conclusions, keep his name in the conversation, and do all the work for him, while he keeps a safe distance from anything definitive.

So after a year, I think it’s fair to call it what it is.

Manipulation.

At this point, if Sam told me it was morning, I’d check the sky. And honestly, how sad is that? To stop believing someone you respected and supported for years.

There’s a reason so many different corners of the fandom have found common ground here. It’s not because everyone suddenly agrees about Sam and Caitriona. It’s not because everyone agrees this is PR, or a beard, or about hidden sexuality. It’s because this specific narrative has managed to offend almost everyone, just for different reasons.

Most people seem to agree that she is a very questionable person with a troubling history. And he himself is coming across either as a manipulative man trolling his own fandom at best, or as a player who knowingly exposes a child, one who has already been through enough instability, to unnecessary risk at worst.

I don’t feel excited about his next projects anymore.

I don’t feel any desire to support his business ventures or his marketing campaigns.

I don’t feel affection for someone who has turned himself into a product and keeps marketing himself through other people, with very little concern for the danger he may be putting them in.

And I don’t have much respect left for a man who seems to have lost every ounce of authenticity, who keeps playing a version of himself I genuinely don’t like, while probably seeing me as nothing more than a walking dollar sign.

It’s time to grow up, Sam.

Would the real Sam Roland Heughan please stand the damn up?

His loyal fans of all persuasions are running out of patience or fucks to give. Which means he is running out of time.

I have a theory about MW. She's been consistently tapping into and following Tumblr posts and reacting to them almost in real time. It clearly bothers her what fans on Tumblr think and say about her.

Could it be that perhaps she was a fan of the show and SH with a Tumblr account of her own? Being a part of the fandom would perhaps explain why she cares so much.

Would love to know your thoughts on this.

Interesting theory, and on the surface, definitely possible.

In theory, that could explain how she knows the main bloggers, who to follow, and who to use as a pipeline.

Of course I'm tired of the relentless PR slop we're being force-fed. But let's not complain too much. Sometimes we get gifts.

. . . So I dutifully listened to the entire interview between these two besties, ears perked like a truffle pig hunting for anything remotely useful for this blog.

And I found it.

The Name-That-Must-Not-Be-Spoken is not uttered once during the entire fifty-something minutes. What is uttered, though, is a tender, beautiful little 'we'. The legendary Sam&I appears again - just compressed into a single syllable.

But the most revealing thing is the body language.

The Main Heroin says 'we' as though it's the most natural thing in the world (because it is), and then, a fraction of a second later, realizes that perhaps this was not the most strategic wording available. So she covers it up with an adorably embarrassed smile, looks down at the floor, and after two or three more wes eventually switches to I. Phew. Crisis averted.

Now let's do some fact-checking. The first "we became producers in season 4" isn't entirely accurate, because they didn't actually become producers until season 5.

Now, you may call me a conspiracy theorist if you wish, but I am absolutely certain there is no connection whatsoever between this sudden promotion of the Protagonists and that famous:

Remarkable weekend. ☂️💞🍾🎊 Wonderful tailoring @alfreddunhill.

As a reminder: season 5 was filmed from April 8 to November 21, 2019, and premiered on February 16, 2020. I am merely presenting the timeline. No connection. None at all.

In the opening credits, her name appeared first, then his.

. . . Season 6? Same thing, but reversed: first him, then her.

. . . By seasons 7 and 8, both had upgraded from producers to executive producers,

and in the opening credits they appear together, sharing a single title card.

. . . So, as usual, The Main Heroin's candid TV confessions don't quite survive contact with objective reality. But who's complaining? We... I love Sam&I. And I especially love that, at this point, it's genuinely difficult to tell where one of them ends and the other begins.

Q.E.D.

And here, Dearest Gentle Reader, you may verify for yourselves that I am neither lying nor stretching the evidence.

Living Paintings audio tactile books rely on descriptive audio guides to bring stories to life for children who are blind or visually impaired.

For our latest book release, Jonty Gentoo, we’re delighted to have the support of Sam Heughan, star of the hit TV series, Outlander! Sam kindly joined us in the studio and read the audio description for Jonty Gentoo and the penguin’s adventures to find the South Pole.

Side Note: The Living Paintings studio and headquarters are located in Newbury, Berkshire.

Sam lending his voice not only delivers an immersive experience for children, but also helps us raise the profile of our books and encourages people to join our library, so that more children who are blind or visually impaired can benefit from our special books.

We’re always so grateful to all of our volunteers, because without them we couldn’t do what we do.

Sam, like Jonty, is a cold water swimmer and so loved reading about Jonty’s ocean adventures. We think you’re going to love listening to Sam as he describes those ocean swims!

Thank you so much, Sam, for your generous support.

How do our audio guides work?

Our exclusive audio guides describe the illustrations and tactile pages in each book, the scenes in the book, the characters, the key items, the tiny details that bring the story to life. We also add music and sound effects to make an immersive experience for children.

Listen to Sam read a short excerpt from Jonty Gentoo below!

Jonty Gentoo - The Adventures of a Penguin

Description from Amazon:

Join a plucky little penguin on the journey of a lifetime, in this fabulous new adventure by picture book superstars Julia Donaldson and Axel Scheffler.

Jonty the gentoo penguin longs to find his true home at the South Pole. One night, he sneaks out of the zoo and sets off on an amazing adventure, all the way to Antarctica (with an accidental detour to the North Pole!)

Readers will be cheering as Jonty finally finds his way, in this captivating story of bravery, friendship, and finding your place in the world.

So I think I actually have a lot to say on this but I will just leave it for now. I think I’ve left enough information for people to form their own opinions.

As a companion piece to 'You had on the dress...'

Entertainment Tonight via YouTube: Caitríona Balfe Shares Outlander SECRETS with Pluribus' Karolina Wydra | Creator to Creator

KW: I remember when you were going to the test and we had those like three dresses and…

CB: I had three vintage dresses. 

KW: Three vintage dresses.

CB: I said, ‘Which one do I wear?’ ‘Which one will I wear in this?’

Quite late in the UK, isn't it?

And naturally... the private account gets tagged.

I understand they seem to have a very strong need this week to prove there’s something real between them, which ironically only proves the opposite, but here’s some free advice for whoever is managing this circus: when you want to share something funny with someone close to you, you simply send it to them privately. That’s the normal thing normal people do.

But it’s fine, keep acting as if none of us have ever been in a relationship and have no idea how people behave in one.

I do find it interesting that she has now decided to fully drop the mask and stop pretending this is a “business account,” because unless penguins are the newest addition to the therapeutic farm in Cork, there is absolutely no professional reason for that story.

I also find the shrinking time gap between these innuendos very interesting. After all, it was only a few days ago that she tried to convince us there are dogs that grow into completely different dogs, accompanied by the soundtrack of a man who could be anyone, but who we’re clearly meant to think is Sam. And we’re meant to think he made the effort to visit her during his free time.

Is this shrinking gap in any way connected to his tan and the sighting of his co-star at an airport in a coastal town in Spain around the same time everyone assumed he was on vacation? Asking for a friend.

And thank you again to Steph for answering everyone on Tumblr who wondered whether you’d be at the event on Sunday by following the event’s account that, for reasons still unclear, was even created in the first place. The communication here is getting so direct that eventually we might all become friends.