⛓️ The Weather Report Was Never About the Weather ⛓️
I need to circle back to something I wanted to write about earlier, before I got distracted by... well, everything else.
As we know, the 'Creator to Creator' podcast featuring Karolina Wydra and the Main Heroine was heavily edited before it was released. As I pointed out back in June, the Name-That-Must-Not-Be-Spoken isn't uttered a single time during the entire fifty-something-minute conversation.
After watching the additional footage that was released later, I'm now convinced that the Name-That-Must-Not-Be-Spoken was mentioned. It was simply... Snip. Snip. Snip. The name that survived the edit? Tobias. Let's listen together.
But it was such a learning curve. I remember, you know, I'm so grateful I had the first two weeks were with Tobias. And Tobias was such a seasoned actor and had so much experience. And I remember just watching how he conducted himself in the meetings and watching the sort of questions he asked and all of those things. And I was like okay right it's okay to ask that, it's okay to do that. And just sort of he set such a great bar. Also he's such an incredible actor that it sort of just set a really good bar for everything and for what he was striving for.
. . . My first reaction to this rather lavish praise of Tobias was that it fits a narrative the Main Heroine has been presenting publicly for quite some time now: that filming Season 1 with Tobias was this beautiful, enlightening, sun-drenched experience, complete with scenic drives through the Highlands in vintage cars. Then came filming with Sam. Cue the biblical rainfall.
After weeks of beautiful, sunny weather during filming with Tobias, the first day of shooting with Sam was a real downpour. And it just kept on raining, a real deluge. It just didn’t stop bloody raining.
I don't think this story is really about the weather. I don't question Scotland's rain. Or Tobias's professionalism. Or the charm of vintage cars.
What I question is the ongoing insistence that nothing life-changing happened during those months once filming shifted from Tobias to Sam. Because I believe something did. She hopelessly in love. Not with Tobias. With Sam.
That's why I find the whole Tobias anecdote genuinely sad.
The Main Character wears his metaphorical chains around his neck, on his wrists, and on his fingers (and occasionally slung over his shoulder whenever the #PurseHolder function kicks in). The Main Heroine wears hers in her mind. I don't see two villains here. I see two people imprisoned in different ways by the same (love)story. Perhaps that's why I can't help but feel for both of them.
[7 July, 2026]




















