#positivelyplural

It has been a long while since we made that term, honestly, so we can’t remember all of the specifics.

However, many of our terms came about by researching the definition of certain words or terms or phrases in other languages and then adding on suffixes until something stuck, so yeah most likely we came about the word erê while researching and liked how it sounded/looked with the -sian suffice. At least, we’re pretty sure that’s the case haha. No clue what language specifically we looked at to get it, though.

(such as leaving notes in a packed lunch, sending tiktok links on sp to eachother, hand holding e.c.t) ♡

Hi anon, I absolutely love love love this ask! Below I'll list some ideas I can think of, but I encourage others to comment what they have done to show love to their alters, headmates, and parts.

Leave kind notes

Leave drawings of them or things they like

Buy them a small present (trinket that reminds you of them, keychain, bracelet, clothing, etc)

Give them time to front to engage in a hobby they enjoy

Do tasks for them so they don't have to (pack lunch, do the dishes, laundry, pay a bill, etc)

Do activities cofronting with them (we like to work out together and go on walks!)

Make them dishes they like or buy their favorite food

Front when the body is sick so they don't have to

Talk with them frequently (using journals, texting, or cocon)

Tell them they're doing a great job and other compliments (they did great at work, they helped the body so much today)

Complete mundane but important tasks for them (shower, brush teeth)

Support their mental health needs (wearing ear plugs in noisy areas, making sure they take meds, giving them fidget toys)

Watching shows or games they enjoy with them, letting them info dump to you

Play games with them (we like to play board games together!)

Encourage them to talk to irl friends (if you are out or feel safe doing so)

Encouraging them to go to therapy (and telling them how amazing they do when they do go)

Telling them how pretty/handsome/adorable/cool they look in headspace

Compliment their positive traits like their kindness, generosity, bravery, humor

Talk about positive shared memories together

Solve problems together (word puzzles, games)

Do things in headspace together (if you have an inner world)

Tell others about how much you appreciate them (if you are out or feel safe doing so)

Letting them have cozy evenings with blankets, snacks, a movie, etc (and you can join too!)

Encouraging them to try something new

Reminding them you love them and are there for them

Listening when they are upset, sad, angry

Holding them when they cry, wrapping a blanket around them, etc

Helping them calm down or ground (breathing techniques, meds, distraction, 5 things)

Creating music playlists together

Making playlists, collages, art inspired by them

I'd love to hear more! ♡

…. RIGHT…?

(for context, there are at least 70 characters in the main cast + 11 new ones added in season 6. yeah. that many.)