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I like this article because it’s not what you think it is.
the world is a strange and wonderous place

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my controversial opinion is I don’t think Zuko was confused by “my first girlfriend turned into the moon”
he was there during siege of the North. he infiltrated the spirit oasis. he has an uncle who studies spirits and the spirit world. he watched the sky go dark then the moon suddenly reappear like everyone else in the entire world did. and most importantly he watched zhao get eaten by a giant godzilla fish spirit.
his entire life since he saw that beam of blue-white light in the south pole has been ‘this day has already been so goddamn weird’
The only really new information was that that was Sokka’s girlfriend
Important opinion in the tags that I need to have be part of the post:
Also, Iroh was there? He literally watched Sokka make out with the moon spirit. And you want to tell me that a romantic sap like him would not have immediately told Zuko about this romantic tragedy? Please, Zuko has known about this for ages, he just knows that this is not an acceptable situation in which to say “yeah, I know.”
Sokka: “My girlfriend turned into the moon.”
Zuko: “I know.” “Yes.” “She sure did.” “Uh huh.” “Tell me something new.” “Are we still talking about that?” “That’s rough, buddy.”
[image: tags by samwisethebold: #it’s not that he doesn’t get what sokka means #it’s that how on earth do you respond to that]
When you put it like that, this is actually a legendary display of tact on Zuko’s part
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The face of a woman regretting the music lessons.
This is fairly close to the relationship I had with my mom.
i love those little moments where her face lights up because the joy of the joke far outweighs how sick of it she is. like the moment with the star wars music? *chef’s kiss*
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about 90% of fanfiction takes place in a utopia where men are thoughtful and unsure of their place in the world
@skulandcrossbones this might be the greatest tag on a reblog I’ve ever seen.
we don't credit rebecca sugar enough for making the episode with the first gay wedding in a kids show extremely plot relevant so it could not be skipped or cut.
#rebecca sugar has gone on record saying that they knew from the beginning they wanted ruby and sapphire and they put every inch of planning#in to make sure that the studio could not take them out. sugar has said they’d compromised on hundreds of things they’d wanted for steven#so that they had the bargaining power specifically to keep ruby and sapphire’s relationship#and a number of ‘filler’ episodes were created just to establish counter-arguments that might come up when they pitched the wedding episode#the one that comes to mind is the episode about steven and connie getting lost in rose’s room steven’s central conflict about liking their#fave book series’ romantic ending was later weaponised when producer’s were like ‘oh but steven’s a boy he won’t be too interested in them#getting married’ sugar was able to be like ‘no. in this episode it’s established he loves romance and specifically weddings. and in these#episodes it’s shown how much steven cares about ruby and sapphire and their relationship and happiness. you cannot convince me this is not#good and necessary plot development#and they wrapped it up in the season finale and the big climactic point of the diamonds finally coming to attack earth to make the#episode integral to the series no skipping it without confusion. and had ruby wear a wedding dress because international censors took#advantage of her design to give her a masculine va#and sugar made certain that everybody knew This was a queer love story that an entire town supported and admired and that any child watchin#it at home would know they are not alone and that that support is waiting for them out there somewhere#sugar sacrificed the wider story they wanted to tell for that and it was a horrible decision to be given but they made the right choice
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I feel like a horse with no name is probably the best song in the world. Not even my Favorite song just the best
He’s literally just telling it like it is
Unironically I think the early to mid 20s age group in America has unbelievably bad consent boundaries on all levels and so much language to defend it but this makes me sound like elon musk if I say it however the commonality of someone who will be like “I had 47 panic attacks and it’s your fault” if you tell them no is insane
I rejected someone and got called “the scariest person I’ve ever met” with so much therapy speak interspersed like alright okay alright okay alright okay
“You just say whatever you’re thinking and I don’t know how to handle it” was verbatim part of this conversation. Also everyone hates to see an autistic bitch
When I was in this age bracket, there was a huge emphasis on improving consent culture via graceful rejection, and it's gone by the wayside. Which sucks.
Twice in my youth (once in high school and once in college) I was in situations where I was asking someone out and I could tell they were calculating in their heads the risks of rejecting me, and both times I said, out loud, "you can say no, I wouldn't have asked if I wasn't prepared for either answer." And then they said no. This wasn't some spark of special wisdom I had - I knew to do it because feminist conversations among my age group brought it up regularly. This isn't happening nearly enough anymore.
More recently, I was really glad when we got to "rejection sensitive dysphoria" in my IOP program and it was one of those symptoms where the therapists really emphasized how it affects others. Because it does.
Being someone who cannot handle rejection makes you much more likely to violate boundaries, and yes, that includes sexual ones. Yes, you, reader who has never hurt a fly. If you don't want to stumble backwards into sexually assaulting someone, fix your RSD meltdowns. If you keep them up it's only a matter of time. Because if you're nice enough to interact with, but are known to have RSD meltdowns, guess what happens when your friends and acquaintances need to reject you?
there is an odd phenomenon i've been noticing since 2019 about people trying to use their mental health or disorders as an excuse to abuse people in several ways (especially sexually), and it's really disgusting to me as a mentally disabled s/a survivor.
you can't avoid consequences or accountability by using therapy speak or saying your disorder made you do it so i can’t be upset and i need to do what you say. fuck that.
"i have rejection sensitive dysphoria so you need to say ‘yes’ or else you're an abuser and an ableist."
i have rejection sensitive dysphoria too. do you know what i do? i don't abuse people. i journal about feeling hurt, and then i reflect and remind myself of stuff like "this person setting a boundary doesn't mean they hate me” and "the fact that they felt safe enough to tell me they were uncomfortable shows that they still care”. if your rsd causes you to manipulate and force people into shit, WORK ON THAT.
"i'm autistic so social cues and boundaries are hard for me so it's not my fault if i violate you" (this one especially pisses me off since i experienced this firsthand from one of my abusers and his defenders)
guess what? i'm autistic too. i struggle to tell when people are uncomfortable and what made them uncomfortable. and i know social cues are really hard for us, but there is NOTHING more direct than the word “no”. there is nothing more direct than someone outright stating they don’t want something. and sometimes a lack of consent can be subtle, i'll admit, but that’s why you should ask "hey can i do this" or "did it make you uncomfortable when i did that”. it is important for everyone to respect consent, and a disability does not exempt you from that. if your autism causes you to violate people, WORK ON THAT.
i can only speak on how people use rsd and asd as a shield because i don't have the other disorders that people try to justify abusive behaviour with, but if your disorder "makes you" abuse people, WORK ON THAT. it is not impossible to change or improve. it is not ableist to ask you not to hurt others. in fact, claiming you cannot change because of your disorder enforces the stereotype that mentally ill people are inherently dangerous and abusive. i would argue that using a stereotype that has been used to imprison and involuntarily commit people with mental health issues for centuries to justify your actions is at least a bit on the ableist side.
"you're manipulative toxic and abusive for not letting me do this / you saying no triggered me and you made me have a panic attack it’s your fault / etc..."
stop misusing terms meant for trauma survivors and people with mental health issues. guilting people into sex and romantic relationships is still bad even if you coat it in therapy speak.
it's so frustrating watching people use my disabilities to ”get away” with the same terrible actions that were inflicted on me. respect consent or fuck off. no ifs, ands, or buts.
tldr: if your disorder makes you sexually abuse people (or commit other types of abuse), get help and stop trying to act like others just have to deal with it. do not use “therapy speak” (terms made for abuse survivors and those with mental disorders) to justify shitty actions and manipulate people. respect consent.
#long read but holy hard agree#ppl who have no conflict resolution skills outside of exploding or shutting down are genuinely in need of serious help#like it's easy to shit on them or say theyre bad but the reality is so many of us are forced to 'fix' ourselves#and it is Not an easy process#you cannot learn how to healthily cope in a way thats possible for you daily over night#but you Can try#over and over little by little#if you fuck up ppl arent required to forgive you#but when you choose to double down over taking that step back to see the reasons why youve hurt/upset someone#youre also choosing to isolate yourself further#i should know LOL#ive only had to deal w one person like this over the last few years im truly lucky to longer be or have this kind of person in my life#bark

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I wish more modern problems could be solved by going on quests. “Going to the grocery store is it’s own kind of quest” fuck off, I want to end global warming by throwing a magic wand into a volcano
"We're so cute. I wanna punch us in the face." Gone Girl (2014) dir. David Fincher
Gone Girl (2014) Dir. David Fincher
i think about this part in gone girl all the time

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I hate when I drink all of my drink and there's no drink left. What the fuckkkkkkk. #sickandtwisted
Harvesting carrots.
jesus christ they’re all going to carrot heaven
just showed this video to my cousin who is a feudal serf and he threw his cap on the ground like yosemite sam