one little thing ilya does that they donβt acknowledge but shane really appreciates is the way he asks for things. when theyβre together and ilyaβs drink is getting warm, he doesnβt ask βcan you put ice in this, ΠΌΠΎΡ Π»ΡΠ±ΠΎΠ²Ρ?β he asks βcan you put three ice in this, ΠΌΠΎΡ Π»ΡΠ±ΠΎΠ²Ρ?β so shane doesnβt stand at the ice maker and worry about how much ice is too much ice or conversely how little ice is not enough. he can just get him three ice cubes and feel accomplished.
same goes with coffee, when ilya needs a top off he shows shane on the side of the mug the line he wants his mug re-filled to. it really helps because shane wants to be helpful. he wants to get things for his husband and receive a kiss on the cheek when he does because it feels like something normal couples do. but he doesnβt want to deal with the dread of having to ask follow up questions because the instructions werenβt clear enough.
okay iβve really pulled a hollander with this one. i just described something that sounded nice to solve a problem iβve experienced and the communityβ’οΈ was like βtotal power exchange?β
all the shaneposts that are like βheβs inventing kink out of his beautiful mindβ yeah me too ig. whoops.

















