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Your gender has absolutely no moral value or bearing on whether or not you're a good person.

“Where are the trans men in history?” See. When you're born a gender that was forcefully married off, who had to live most of their life indoors, when you had to raise children, and had a lobotomy if your family thought you were a tad too odd, it's kinda hard to come out as a trans man now ain't it.

as a person under the agender/nonbinary umbrella I actually think the recently increased focus on a nonbinary person’s agab is insanely fucking uncomfortable and blatantly exorsexist. Stop trying to sort NB people into boxes of amab vs afab, transfem vs transmasc, tma vs tme, etc etc. It is not praxis or activism to keep attempting to binarize people whose entire identities are built around the fact that they DO NOT ADHERE to a binary. You are just being a fucking tar pit #sorry

"trans men/mascs transition out of oppression and towards privilege" is a terf talking point and it will never be progressive.

Challenge for people to stop acting like testosterone is an evil chemical that turns someone into a monster the second it enters their bloodstream

being a trans guy is great because you get all the negative effects of being a woman in a patriarchial society and all the negative effects of being a man in a patriarchal society

society feels an ownership over transmasc bodies and a lot of the anti-transmasc sentiment on this website is literally meant to punish us for daring to assert autonomy over the bodies we're told don't belong to us (our own bodies). it is a rage people feel because we're reclaiming that ownership. that's why people act so bitter and resentful. that's why there's so much contempt. it's because they don't think you deserve to actually have a say in what happens to your own body, because it's not supposed to be yours in the first place.

it’s like i always say, being a trans man/masc means constantly dealing with everyone’s different suggestions on how you should adjust your transition goals so that you become more fuckable to them

something i get accused of frequently when i talk about women (and especially trans women) who are bigotted towards trans men is "oh so you think that trans women have privilege over trans men?" and it's like no. i dont. in fact the entire thing relies on trans people Not having meaningful privilege over each other. trans men are a class of man that can be victimized by people who dont have privilege over cis men, who have been victimized by cis men. misogynized people LOVE the existence of transandrophobia amd isomisogyny because it allows them to perpetrate misogyny and transphobia in a way that a. they dont usually have access to/are usually the victims of and b. is socially acceptable among women and trans people, because being misogynistic or transmisogynistic to a woman isnt as acceptable in gender marginalized communities as misogyny and transandrophobia to transmascs/men are. transandrophobia and isomisogyny among misogynized people RELIES on them being misogynized, bitter, and having the desire for the privilege to oppress rather than the desire to end oppression