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I have a very important question to ask ye. What's the best thermal spa to go to in Budapest? @barplvn

Oh, that's a tough one -- there are so many good ones out there, but Széchenyi Baths is one of my personal faves. The architecture is great and it's got both indoor and outdoor sections. The pools are the best, so if you were thinking of going, that's one you might like.

Oh yes, that's so true--or when you're just starting out and trying something new, the anxiety builds up inside you. I don't think people will fully understand what it takes to do some of the things that we are able to do and fully appreciate it; that it's kind of in my opinion like dance but also like art if that makes sense.

I agree -- the first time one tries those sort of things, it's hard not to feel that way. I'm sure that some can't fully understand how difficult it is and the sacrifice it entails, though I'd like to believe there are some who do appreciate it. Same with dance and art -- not everyone gets it. Then again there are others who do love it, which is actually amazing.

i need you to stop being so cute, please and thank you! got me wanting to kick my feet over here. extra? no way. you're the main star, baby. what are you working on next? anything you can talk about?

Was that exactly my plan? I'll never tell. Oh please, love this for me. Main star or extra, you bet I'll be having the time of my life anyway. I can't say too much yet, but there are some fun collabs coming soon, hopefully sooner than later.

some recent developments have gotten me to think about friendship breakups and how they actually take such a chunk out of your soul, perhaps even more than romantic breakups. i can confidently say that i've cried more tears about losing friendships than i have over any man and it's just a different type of hurt. you ever see your former friends making a life for themselves without you and feel bitter-sweet about it? you no longer fit into that life and for valid reasons but it still gets you in your feels. what's the roughest friendship breakup you've ever had and how did you get over it? i'm in the trenches here and might need some sage words of advice. / @hfrpstarters

Friendship breakups are just so hard and very underrated. The thing is, sometimes you've been a friend with someone for a long time and once they walk out of your life, it's difficult to go on as if nothing had happened. The worst part is that, although you heal and do move on, you'll catch yourself thinking about how things would be now if you were still friends and you immediately feel upset. One of my roughest friendship breakouts was with a fellow model friend -- we used to do everything together. I wish I understood what happened, but it made me realise that some people aren't meant to stay in your life forever -- and that's okay. What helped me was writing down all of my feelings and thoughts and then burning them. Whenever I felt like I had to vent, I would write everything down. You're a singer-songwriter and a popstar, so surely you'll be able to create something truly beautiful and inspiring out of your situation. And if you ever need someone to talk to, I'm only a text message away -- just so you know.

I couldn't agree with you more, and I know for me music has been there for me through it all. Every emotion that I have ever had. Aw, well at least that you're still able to keep in touch with them, even if you aren't able to always get down there. I understand though, because work keeps me from being back home as much as I would want to with my fam. Still kind of just laying low and hanging out with Halle, but I have some things brewing. I am going to be dedicating to new music very soon.

Music's a good therapist, don't you think? There's always a song that describes exactly how you're feeling at any given moment. Keeping in touch makes everything better, though obviously I'd rather see them in person. I'm glad you're taking this time to relax and enjoy it with your loved ones, but I must admit I'm very excited for new music. It'll be amazing, I'm sure of it.

not even sure if you into the game of football and i gotta strange funny feeling people are tired of hearin about the Superbowl but what is your prediction if you do watch if not that's absolutely cool too. @barplvn

It's almost Superbowl time so of course everyone's talking about it. I think you'll always find people who are tired of hearing about it, though. I do go to football matches and although I'm not rooting for anyone in particular, I think Philadelphia Eagles have got a huge change of making it. We shall see what happens! What do you think?

All of these things you're telling me sound so exciting! I'm glad you've got a lot of projects to look forward to this year. Music, acting, fashion -- you're doing it all. To be honest, I'm very curious to know about this fragrance you'll be releasing. I do hope that your clothing line makes it to fashion week! I'm sure everyone will want to see what you have been creating. Besides that, how's everything going?

Barbara: i love a good renaissance fair -- i feel like they're so underrated. okay, that's actually a great choice! i totally agree that you'd be able to pull him off, even the blond hair. now i need to see this happen, just saying.

Are you a fortune teller? I think you might be one because I totally see this happening -- or maybe this is just me being completely taken by your charm. For the time being, I'm going to New York for pleasure because even when we end up working together, that'll be my biggest pleasure. Oh my, I had no idea the cheese thing was a test but I'm so happy that I actually passed it. Then again, can we actually trust people who don't like cheese? That's the question we should be asking ourselves. Wine and cheese nights are my favourite types of nights, just throwing it out there. I can take you on a inspo trip to Hungary -- that'll be enough to never wish you had a big fam again. The holiday tea is always worth it, so I can't complain that much.

you're the sweetest person ever, i'm obsessed. you were together for so long that you grew into a unit and it's hard to untangle yourself from that. so much of your identity becomes entangled with your partner and that journey to discovering you who are again is tough and painful, especially when strangers are sharing their unwanted opinions as well. that's good that you two aren't in a bad place, fighting on top of everything would just be too much. how's life feeling as a single gal? do you feel like you're ready to get out there and date again or is everything still too fresh?

Please, that's you and only you. Exactly -- I think I couldn't have said it better myself. It's hard to think about your own value and worth once your relationship is over, but it's all about taking some time to heal and move on. It's also a good opportunity to learn and grow as a person, which can be more difficult than it seems -- especially with people commenting on your life all the time. Fighting would've made it worse, for sure. Life's quite good, actually! Honestly, I haven't really given much thought to dating again. If it happens, then it happens, though I don't think I'm actively looking for anything serious right now.

They really do. I am actually jealous of your friend for having a friend as good as you. I mean, I have to make sure you have the full experience so your friend knows what to expect. This is going to be such a good day, I am so excited for it.

I know, right? That can be easily solved by having me as a friend too -- it's a win-win for everyone involved. Exactly, just to make sure my friend knows what would happen if she ever comes to one of your shows. Me too! This is super exciting, I can't wait.

Random question but if you could live anywhere where would you choose? I mean if you could have your pick of anywhere on the planet?

That's a tough question considering that there are so many beautiful places in this world, but I think I'll always choose Budapest. There's no place like home, or so they say. Which place would you pick?