|| Bigender transmasc boygirl she/he || This is specifically a feminist blog, I mostly talk about transmascs but will frequently expand to talk about feminism in general
My name is V Iâm bigender (transmasculine) and I post a lot about how my identity intersects with misogyny. I believe that I am fully a woman as well as fully a man although I live most of my life as a woman. I could also be classed as genderqueer or androgyne but I donât call myself that as often.
If youâre going to make a callout post about me at least @ me I love attention
Running list of things Iâve been called because I think itâs funny, if you hate me please feel free to add to this list. All of these come from either TERFs or transmasc targeting transphobes
Middle aged British woman
Most mentally ill trans man
Least obvious transandro
Sock puppet
Deranged psycho
TMRA trying to poison transfeminism
Transmasc Ben Shapiro
Pathetic cisgender woman/fake trans
Terven princess
Bitch (x5), Cunt (x6), Pooner (x3), Slut (x1)
Some more info about me and my beliefs under the cut:
Iâm pretty critical of the trans community because itâs my home and I love it. I donât want us to have to live in a house with broken windows and leaky faucets just because weâre convinced that we can never have anything better. I want better for us. I want us to be safe and happy and I donât want any of us to be shoved aside as if we donât matter. Trans liberation should not only be available for white binary trans people who pass. We need more love for trans people of color outside of turning dead Black trans women into saints without ever listening to what they fought for. We need more love for trans people outside of the imperial core, especially those who donât speak English or who struggle with it. We need more love for intersex people no matter how they identify. We need love for people who, seeking acceptance from a community who is meant to love and care for them, are told that their issues are âtoo complicatedâ or âderailing the conversationâ. To the people on the fringes: I love you.
One thing thatâs going to be controversial about me is that I will be referring to myself as female. I donât believe that itâs useful to me to say Iâve changed my sex or that Iâm not deeply affected by the patriarchal, sexist society we live in. I donât believe this is âself misgenderingâ as I literally donât believe that itâs possible to misgender yourself and I also donât think sex and gender are the same thing. If you, the person reading this, do not identify this way thatâs fine but please donât try to change the way I speak about my body and my oppression because it makes you uncomfortable. I donât believe that your identity has any impact on mine or my validity and I hope you will extend me the same courtesy.
I do also believe in *some* of the tenets of radical feminism. I mean this with as much emphasis as possible: some. I donât believe in trans exclusion, Iâm not a lesbian separatist, etc etc. What I do believe is that gender is a construct that has mostly been used to create a sexist hierarchical society (think gender roles and stereotypes). In my ideal post-patriarchal world, nobody would be trans in the way that no one would be cis, we would all just use whatever clothes and pronouns we wanted and there would be no hierarchy. I also believe that sex based oppression is real and I donât think misogyny could exist without it. This does not mean I donât believe in transmisogyny or that I think all misogyny is sex based.
Another important thing I believe is that we really *really* need to do more to center trans voices outside of the imperial core. White people in the trans community (including myself) also need to stop appropriating language used specifically about racial violence (eg âdigital lynchingâ to refer to blogs getting banned) and language that is hyperbolic to the point of meaninglessness (calling bans on gender affirming care for children in the US âgenocideâ)
As a last note Iâm sincerely uninterested in any discourse that completely ignores misogyny as a monstrous violent force in our world. If I see one more person talk about âAFAB privilegeâ or say female specific issues like pregnancy, abortion, FGM, menstrual stigma, lack of inclusion in medical studies, child marriage, (I could go on forever) donât matter as much as what trans people in the US go through Iâm going to lose my mind.
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"if you accuse a trans woman of anything I will simply not believe you. by accusing a trans woman of literally anything you will get her harassed by transphobes and that is your fault. and also even if she did the thing by talking about it you're not doing anything about it so it's useless and I hate you."
"what if she's racist? I am a black trans woman and many white trans women are racist."
"you see oversensitive darkie this is exactly why I posted this. she probably has a very human and normal and understandable reason to actively be racist, which is normal for racist people. you can't help if she's racist. unless you are willing to personally put in the work to deprogram her racism why would you want to talk about her being racist? who gave you the authority to do that? what's that? this is actively harmful to you and other people she is being racist to? too bad. by talking about it to warn people or anything kiwifarms will kill her."
The pseudo-religiosity of the conversations around Stonewall are really really weird. You know people who were there are still around and it was a widely written about event. You donât have to act like trans Jesus came down from Heaven and died on a brick for our sins.
I fear many of us are forgetting that trans men belong to Men (the gender) but not Men (the sociopolitical class) and I think thats an important distinction
Money is a social construct as well but unfortunately when most of a society agrees on something they tend to act in accordance with that agreement.
Gender means different things in different contexts and OP is showing the difference here. In feminist theory, gender is the prescribed roles given to people generally based on sex. Itâs often a negative thing in that context, gender roles for example. When trans people talk about gender we tend to mean internal identity which often does not mean the world recognizes it. In a trans sense I am a man because of my internal identity that is not acknowledged by society as a whole. In a feminist sense, because society doesnât recognize me as a man, I cannot fit into the male class.
Iâm getting pretty annoyed by the amount of people who will get mad at me and say shit like âyou just think Iâm a RAPIST because I have a penis! Youâre bigoted against my penis! Youâre obsessed with my penis you think itâs the rape organ!!â Like first of all I actually have friends with penises so I canât be bigoted âď¸ secondly I have literally never said anything close to resembling that but it *is* weird that the worst supposed crime of mine you can think of is that I make false rape accusations lmao
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I bring a real 'actually people who are pregnant do deserve some special consideration because they are effectively at least temporarily disabled if not permanently after some complications' vibe to the party that a lot of people don't seem to like
This is real. Also, I had periods for about a decade pre-transition, and those can be debilitating, too, and should be given special consideration if the person having them experiences things like severe pain, heavy bleeding, issues with things like cysts, extreme nausea or fatigue, etc.
Back when I was in university we were asked to do a brief research exercise on a health condition impacting a community. Can't remember what I wanted to look at now, but it was something to do with the trans community.
Whatever it was, to put it this way, if there were 10 studies on the trans community as a whole, there were 3 on trans women and trans fems and 0 on trans men and trans mascs, and 0 on nonbinary people. All of the mixed studies were also pretty much useless for my purposes as well because they were all so lopsided.
I think I swapped to a bunch of different things - addiction rates, smoking, depression, mental health in general - nothing that was even roughly equal in looking at all of us. Trans men, trans mascs and nonbinary people are so under researched as to be nonexistent.
To keep this brief since I've rambled a bunch - this is a major issue health wise since we have not a lot of literature on what testosterone does to certain bodies. This can lead to major health complications, not because of the testosterone itself, but because there might be an interaction thats missed or a complication that's not noticed (which is the same for any medication that's under researched on certain bodies. This is not me scaring people off of hrt, this is me pointing out its a medication like any other.)
#the therapist who wrote my permission slip for hrt was a trans man#and during that appointment we talked about the erasure of trans men from basically everything#and i talked about an article i had read a week or so earlier about trans people and hiv#it very in depth about risks prevention treatment etc#except that it exclusively referenced trans women with a single sentence at the end basically saying 'oh trans men are at risk too'#less than a year later i saw that same therapist speaking at an hiv organization fundraising event#he talked about how he had just recently been diagnosed with hiv#and had to sit there while this doctor told him all about how the treatment options had never been tested on trans men#none of them#they knew that the treatment would work#but not how effective it would be in comparison to its effectiveness in other demographics#no idea what kind of side effects he might experience#how it would interact with his body and his hormones#what the long term effects would be#nothing#he had to sit there while his doctor told him he would have to be a guinea pig but its not like he has a choice#the only alternative is dying from aids#that whole thing was kind of a wake up call for me#and i started paying more attention getting tested regularly myself and all that sruff you're supposed to do#and over time i befriended the person who did most of my testing#they were also trans masc and we would talk about this kind of stuff#and i told them i wanted to get on prep but every doctor i asked had a wildly different answer on if i even could take it#which verison i could take etc#and they said that only one form of prep has been approved fot trans men but its never actually been tested on trans men#and that one version isnt good for long term use because it has some pretty serious side effects long term#and they said that they regularly go to conferences and meet with representatives from all these drug companies#and they ask 'wheres the data on trans men' 'when are you doing clinical studies on trans men'#and the answer#every single time is: we have not done any studies on trans men and we have no intention to ever do studies on trans men#this is not some passive result of trans masc invisibility it is an active act of erasure that needs to be recognized as an act of violence
I fear many of us are forgetting that trans men belong to Men (the gender) but not Men (the sociopolitical class) and I think thats an important distinction
trans men don't post pictures of yourself on the internet and ask if you pass. like nothing good is going to come with that. its not even a good way to see if you pass. just don't do it
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They fetishize what happens to "afabs" so much they cant even fathom that its torture! Rape? Hot. Beainwashing and Abuse? Double hot. Pregnancy which can be life ruining and in some cases life ending? Hot AND we cant do it so it's so transmisogynistic to talk about that being a bad thing at all. Being victim blamed for pedophilia? Fantasies all over their blogs.
Every bit of torture we've been subject to our entire lives is their goon fodder so ofc they dont care about what happens to us.
I agree with this but I really would caution you from thinking everyone whoâs not a transmasc is like this I know you feel like garbage right now and itâs so hard to fight through all the awfulness but we do have people in our corner
You donât have to answer this but the person pushing back on the recent ask about the Holocaust is a Polish non Jew who has a history of writing screeds like that whenever anyone says Jews were the primary targets of the Holocaust. Just for some context. (Poland has literally been trying and in some places succeeding in minimising its own guilt during the Holocaust so this rhetoric is quite dangerous)
I kind of figured, Iâm not Jewish or Polish so my opinion doesnât matter in the slightest so I decided not to respond
âIf an oppressed group is a class then that means youâre saying they will always be the oppressed in every interactionâ is absolutely insane.
A Muslim in America is violently oppressed for being Muslim but Muslims in say, Senegal, oppress and have colonised the indigenous people there. Same with say, a Chinese person in America versus China.
Some people are completely incapable of understanding that the world is not a big game of Who Has The Most Oppression Points. A Black man can be violently and horrifically sexist to a white woman, a white woman can be violently and horrifically racist to a Black man. The world is actually really fucking complicated.
Asked a classmate to stop ruining the vibe of our trip by complaining about how bored he was and how much he wants to go home (ungrateful fucker) and he started mocking me IN FRONT OF HIS DAD and when I was like âhey wtf youâre a grown adult whatâs your damageâ he and his dad started giggling to each other like Iâm some kind of nagging bitch
skirt post anon - while itâs true that skirtlike garments are definitely suitable for various activities, the idea that âskirts are reviled because theyre associated with femininity when theyre a Good Garmentâ is ass backwards logic. for the majority of the past 400 years of history in western cultures women have been FORCED to wear skirts lmfao. and it wasnât skirt-type garments that are made to be comfortable during physical activities, it was explicitly ornamental and uncomfortable skirts made to restrict movement. The same type of skirt that is 99% of all skirts produced industrially right now and available to purchase for the majority of the human population. Most people who âcriticizeâ skirts arenât saying I Dont Like Skirts Because Iâm Not Like Other Girls, theyâre (correctly) pointing out how the Skirt, a type of garment that comes to at the very least a western person in 2026 through its misogynistic history, is a physically restrictive garment that is only imposed on about half the human population with the purpose of associating that type of human with ornamentality and even sexuality. (And yes skirts still are imposed on women to some extent even today - think of school uniforms, many types of sports uniforms, formalwear, etc.) Thus the ability to wear pants, perhaps even exclusively, for a woman, is still an act of radicalism, freeing herself at the barest sense, to acquire a better range of movement. (Think of the âgirlsâ children clothes are more restrictiveâ post that was going around a while back)
tldr post was accusing the tail of wagging the dog and patting itself on the back for Spotting Patriarchal Mindset of criticizing skirts for being associated with femininity (lmao)
btw im not mad at you, and youre free to disagree, im just very dejected i guess at how things that were considered commonplace even when I was your age are now this muddled
No I totally get what you mean. When I saw your first ask I thought you were criticizing the concept of skirts being a convenient garment which I disagreed with especially because many cultures around the world wear skirts and itâs gender neutral in those places (that does not mean misogyny doesnât exist despite popular assertions that if another culture does something we consider to be gender neutral they must be pro gender equality). I understand now that you were criticizing the assertion that skirts are inherently good and liberating and only hated because women wear them rather than women are hated and thus bear the burden of overly restrictive clothing.
Iâm going to the Vatican today and am wearing an ankle length skirt and a scarf to cover my arms to meet the dress code required in the nation state while my male classmates are wearing shorts, jeans, and T shirts. I like skirts but in this moment I donât feel like Iâm making a choice out of convenience or keeping cool, but because a government is saying my skin is unholy.
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okay I have to disagree with the skirt thing, especially the backwards logic of "because they're tied with feminity/women, they're derided". for the longest time skirts were (especially in the west) an impractical garment that greatly inhibited one's freedom of movement and autonomy (and even now in most cases) and so were prescribed to be worn by the class of people (those AFAB) that cis men believed were unworthy of freedom of movement and autonomy, especially for the purpose of earning a living wage in working environments that were completely unsuitable for those garments. so no, it would be more apropos to say that because people AFAB were derided, they were forced to wear skirts. it's why we had to fight so hard to legally be permitted to wear more practical, autonomy-enabling clothing đ¤ˇââď¸ again that phrase and its logic is just another example of this weird transfeminist, cultural feminist tendency to 'naturalize' of feminity, instead of viewing it as a socially constructed instrument of oppression for people AFAB principally. (i.e. â https://www.tumblr.com/razortouched/809643396147871744) OP is seeing this through the lens of someone who was not allowed to 'demean' themselves by wearing skirts instead of through the lens of people who were forced to wear skirts/dresses/specific tunics as proof of their inborn social subjugation.
Ahhh ok I can see where youâre coming from. Putting the cart before the horse is always incredibly annoying.
apropos of nothing, having read the scum manifesto, its basically the exact sort of thing men have been writing about women for centuries so i dont understand what im supposed to be offended about. it's actually really funny for that reason. ooga booga terfy cognitohazard
Oh my god the SCUM manifesto is so fucking funny it delights me
