|| Bigender transmasc boygirl she/he || This is specifically a feminist blog, I mostly talk about transmascs but will frequently expand to talk about feminism in general
My name is V Iâm bigender (transmasculine) and I post a lot about how my identity intersects with misogyny. I believe that I am fully a woman as well as fully a man although I live most of my life as a woman. I could also be classed as genderqueer or androgyne but I donât call myself that as often.
If youâre going to make a callout post about me at least @ me I love attention
Running list of things Iâve been called because I think itâs funny, if you hate me please feel free to add to this list. All of these come from either TERFs or transmasc targeting transphobes
Middle aged British woman
Most mentally ill trans man
Least obvious transandro
Sock puppet
Deranged psycho
TMRA trying to poison transfeminism
Transmasc Ben Shapiro
Pathetic cisgender woman/fake trans
Terven princess
Bitch (x5), Cunt (x6), Pooner (x3), Slut (x1)
Some more info about me and my beliefs under the cut:
Iâm pretty critical of the trans community because itâs my home and I love it. I donât want us to have to live in a house with broken windows and leaky faucets just because weâre convinced that we can never have anything better. I want better for us. I want us to be safe and happy and I donât want any of us to be shoved aside as if we donât matter. Trans liberation should not only be available for white binary trans people who pass. We need more love for trans people of color outside of turning dead Black trans women into saints without ever listening to what they fought for. We need more love for trans people outside of the imperial core, especially those who donât speak English or who struggle with it. We need more love for intersex people no matter how they identify. We need love for people who, seeking acceptance from a community who is meant to love and care for them, are told that their issues are âtoo complicatedâ or âderailing the conversationâ. To the people on the fringes: I love you.
One thing thatâs going to be controversial about me is that I will be referring to myself as female. I donât believe that itâs useful to me to say Iâve changed my sex or that Iâm not deeply affected by the patriarchal, sexist society we live in. I donât believe this is âself misgenderingâ as I literally donât believe that itâs possible to misgender yourself and I also donât think sex and gender are the same thing. If you, the person reading this, do not identify this way thatâs fine but please donât try to change the way I speak about my body and my oppression because it makes you uncomfortable. I donât believe that your identity has any impact on mine or my validity and I hope you will extend me the same courtesy.
I do also believe in *some* of the tenets of radical feminism. I mean this with as much emphasis as possible: some. I donât believe in trans exclusion, Iâm not a lesbian separatist, etc etc. What I do believe is that gender is a construct that has mostly been used to create a sexist hierarchical society (think gender roles and stereotypes). In my ideal post-patriarchal world, nobody would be trans in the way that no one would be cis, we would all just use whatever clothes and pronouns we wanted and there would be no hierarchy. I also believe that sex based oppression is real and I donât think misogyny could exist without it. This does not mean I donât believe in transmisogyny or that I think all misogyny is sex based.
Another important thing I believe is that we really *really* need to do more to center trans voices outside of the imperial core. White people in the trans community (including myself) also need to stop appropriating language used specifically about racial violence (eg âdigital lynchingâ to refer to blogs getting banned) and language that is hyperbolic to the point of meaninglessness (calling bans on gender affirming care for children in the US âgenocideâ)
As a last note Iâm sincerely uninterested in any discourse that completely ignores misogyny as a monstrous violent force in our world. If I see one more person talk about âAFAB privilegeâ or say female specific issues like pregnancy, abortion, FGM, menstrual stigma, lack of inclusion in medical studies, child marriage, (I could go on forever) donât matter as much as what trans people in the US go through Iâm going to lose my mind.
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i love how these anons are erasing the fact that you are also a woman. anything to put that damn ~TME~ back in their place
Honestly itâs probably a good thing they canât see through my TME aura or whatever because a transmasc with any sort of relationship with womanhood or femininity is kind of blood in the water for these kinds of people
Also to clear everything up (even though I absolutely should not have to, people are just fucking piranhas over a trans man having a hard time) the reasons Iâm not friends with that person anymore is because when I confronted them on using AI to write their entire capstone paper and threatened to tell the principal if they didnât fess up, they had a meltdown on my birthday and told everyone they were going to commit. I spent my entire 18th birthday terrified and could not enjoy a single moment with my family because my best friend knew staging a mental breakdown would get them out of consequences. Which yeah it did their only âpunishmentâ was getting even more attention. Throughout our entire friendship I initiated every hangout, every discussion, paid for every concert and convention, you know the deal.
So yeah I stopped talking to them and it has literally nothing to do with this blog. Is that enough for you vultures?
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Finding out that not only is the average person suspicious of feminism but other queer people are too has actually made me feel the need to be like 300% more feminist irl
honestly I do kinda get why some transfems might be wary of some just generally feminist talking points, as a lot of them could be a slipperly slop to terfism, but also like you are actively alienating your fellow queer people by like refusing to engage in anything feminist because it might make other people realize that they experience oppression too, and that there are things to discuss other than transfem's problems. Like making feminism a bad dirty word makes people 'peak' and become radfems/radleaning
âSlippery slope to TERFismâ get it together dude wtf
has anyone else noticed how tumblr âtransfeministsâ have not read a single book of feminist theory except whipping girl? (and tbh i bet most of them have not read WG either, just tumblr posts badly regurgitating it but thats another matter)
like they always go on about listen to women when women feminists are telling you to shut up feministly hey lil bro lil buddy why do you hate women for being feminists you stupid MRA⌠and then none of them have read a single work of feminist scholarship. Yk. The thing that feminism actually is and came from. An intellectual practice started by women to discuss and critique the way misogyny works in society both structurally and interpersonally.
its almost like they donât think much of women at all actually, if those women are cis. Itâs almost like they dont think anyone assigned female at birth has anything worthwhile to say about the female experience or misogyny or gendered oppression. One has to laughâŚ
*obv not all the feminist canon is written by cis women, thereâs plenty by trans people of all genders and types, but foundational feminist scholarship is still largely cis female
Yeah thatâs pretty much it, any feminism that doesnât directly apply to them must simply be TERF bullshit
spend more time being bitter towards women online, that will definitely make you friends
Isnât it funny how when someone stops being friends with a trans woman for literally any reason itâs basically murder but when I decide to stop talking to someone who makes me feel like shit for reasons completely unrelated to my tumblr blog itâs because Iâm secretly evil?
agdhdhffd how funny would that be oh my god. I donât think it is but if sheâs a grown adult âlawyerâ and is getting involved in teenage drama that would be hilarious
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was your friend actually a manipulative asshole or did they just say it's bad to accuse black trans women of being sexual predators because you dislike a post she made
Babygirl my friend doesnât even know about this blog, nor would they give a shit because theyâre pretty solidly against describing how you would hypothetically rape a teenager. Sorry but does the idea of having a friend in real life rather than over discord not register to you? Do you have so little going on in your life that everything has to come back to your blog rather than, yâknow, shit in your life you donât post about on your political blog?
People will respond to my posts (usually ones that are several months old) with paragraphs upon paragraphs of incoherent nonsense and when I donât respond they send me asks like âheh.. my logic is just too powerful for you, you have to ignore it to surviveâ like no baby I just donât speak internet loli maoist
Itâs alright they were a massive manipulative asshole anyways and thankfully have no work ethic whatsoever so I bet you a quadrillion dollars they drop out of college and I reign supreme
I can tell that one of my friends, a trans woman, and kind-of by extension her girlfriend (also transfem) have been really into this discourse, since she has a bunch of weird takes she'll bring up at random. I always shut it down right away when it comes up, but it feels like a ticking time bomb. Like, I'll always emphasize how insufferable and anti-social queer discourse stuff is to me, and that I am not talking about it, but it bothers me that she's involved in it. It's obvious that it's often on her mind, and I kinda don't know what to do about this situation.
This friend group the only thing keeping my head above water, it's been so so meaningful for me to have real friends, but I'm definitely the most expendable member. It's very difficult to meet people where I live and I'm honestly lucky to have found these people. Idk, do I just accept that bad things happen and let whatever happens play out? I'd ask for advice, but I don't know if there's even advice to be given tbh.
Woof I honestly donât know. I quite literally just had my only friendship crumble (as in like a few hours ago) and the only thing I can say is sometimes the holding on is worse
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Very typical response to telling someone âhey you donât actually exist in a vacuum and have no way to tell what pornhub videos are consensual and which are drugged human trafficking victimsâ.
You have the heavy hitters in the response here like âyouâre just a puritanâ âyou hate sexualityâ âshut up because this makes me uncomfortableâ etc etc but what Iâm most fascinated by is the âwhat human traffickingâ comment. What the fuck does that even mean? Do you think sex trafficking is a myth made up by uppity puriteens?
