|| Bigender transmasc boygirl she/he || This is specifically a feminist blog, I mostly talk about transmascs but will frequently expand to talk about feminism in general
My name is V Iâm bigender (transmasculine) and I post a lot about how my identity intersects with misogyny. I believe that I am fully a woman as well as fully a man although I live most of my life as a woman. I could also be classed as genderqueer or androgyne but I donât call myself that as often.
If youâre going to make a callout post about me at least @ me I love attention
Running list of things Iâve been called because I think itâs funny, if you hate me please feel free to add to this list. All of these come from either TERFs or transmasc targeting transphobes
Middle aged British woman
Most mentally ill trans man
Least obvious transandro
Sock puppet
Deranged psycho
TMRA trying to poison transfeminism
Transmasc Ben Shapiro
Pathetic cisgender woman/fake trans
Terven princess
Bitch (x5), Cunt (x6), Pooner (x3), Slut (x1)
Some more info about me and my beliefs under the cut:
Iâm pretty critical of the trans community because itâs my home and I love it. I donât want us to have to live in a house with broken windows and leaky faucets just because weâre convinced that we can never have anything better. I want better for us. I want us to be safe and happy and I donât want any of us to be shoved aside as if we donât matter. Trans liberation should not only be available for white binary trans people who pass. We need more love for trans people of color outside of turning dead Black trans women into saints without ever listening to what they fought for. We need more love for trans people outside of the imperial core, especially those who donât speak English or who struggle with it. We need more love for intersex people no matter how they identify. We need love for people who, seeking acceptance from a community who is meant to love and care for them, are told that their issues are âtoo complicatedâ or âderailing the conversationâ. To the people on the fringes: I love you.
One thing thatâs going to be controversial about me is that I will be referring to myself as female. I donât believe that itâs useful to me to say Iâve changed my sex or that Iâm not deeply affected by the patriarchal, sexist society we live in. I donât believe this is âself misgenderingâ as I literally donât believe that itâs possible to misgender yourself and I also donât think sex and gender are the same thing. If you, the person reading this, do not identify this way thatâs fine but please donât try to change the way I speak about my body and my oppression because it makes you uncomfortable. I donât believe that your identity has any impact on mine or my validity and I hope you will extend me the same courtesy.
I do also believe in *some* of the tenets of radical feminism. I mean this with as much emphasis as possible: some. I donât believe in trans exclusion, Iâm not a lesbian separatist, etc etc. What I do believe is that gender is a construct that has mostly been used to create a sexist hierarchical society (think gender roles and stereotypes). In my ideal post-patriarchal world, nobody would be trans in the way that no one would be cis, we would all just use whatever clothes and pronouns we wanted and there would be no hierarchy. I also believe that sex based oppression is real and I donât think misogyny could exist without it. This does not mean I donât believe in transmisogyny or that I think all misogyny is sex based.
Another important thing I believe is that we really *really* need to do more to center trans voices outside of the imperial core. White people in the trans community (including myself) also need to stop appropriating language used specifically about racial violence (eg âdigital lynchingâ to refer to blogs getting banned) and language that is hyperbolic to the point of meaninglessness (calling bans on gender affirming care for children in the US âgenocideâ)
As a last note Iâm sincerely uninterested in any discourse that completely ignores misogyny as a monstrous violent force in our world. If I see one more person talk about âAFAB privilegeâ or say female specific issues like pregnancy, abortion, FGM, menstrual stigma, lack of inclusion in medical studies, child marriage, (I could go on forever) donât matter as much as what trans people in the US go through Iâm going to lose my mind.
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They fetishize what happens to "afabs" so much they cant even fathom that its torture! Rape? Hot. Beainwashing and Abuse? Double hot. Pregnancy which can be life ruining and in some cases life ending? Hot AND we cant do it so it's so transmisogynistic to talk about that being a bad thing at all. Being victim blamed for pedophilia? Fantasies all over their blogs.
Every bit of torture we've been subject to our entire lives is their goon fodder so ofc they dont care about what happens to us.
I agree with this but I really would caution you from thinking everyone whoâs not a transmasc is like this I know you feel like garbage right now and itâs so hard to fight through all the awfulness but we do have people in our corner
You donât have to answer this but the person pushing back on the recent ask about the Holocaust is a Polish non Jew who has a history of writing screeds like that whenever anyone says Jews were the primary targets of the Holocaust. Just for some context. (Poland has literally been trying and in some places succeeding in minimising its own guilt during the Holocaust so this rhetoric is quite dangerous)
I kind of figured, Iâm not Jewish or Polish so my opinion doesnât matter in the slightest so I decided not to respond
âIf an oppressed group is a class then that means youâre saying they will always be the oppressed in every interactionâ is absolutely insane.
A Muslim in America is violently oppressed for being Muslim but Muslims in say, Senegal, oppress and have colonised the indigenous people there. Same with say, a Chinese person in America versus China.
Some people are completely incapable of understanding that the world is not a big game of Who Has The Most Oppression Points. A Black man can be violently and horrifically sexist to a white woman, a white woman can be violently and horrifically racist to a Black man. The world is actually really fucking complicated.
Asked a classmate to stop ruining the vibe of our trip by complaining about how bored he was and how much he wants to go home (ungrateful fucker) and he started mocking me IN FRONT OF HIS DAD and when I was like âhey wtf youâre a grown adult whatâs your damageâ he and his dad started giggling to each other like Iâm some kind of nagging bitch
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skirt post anon - while itâs true that skirtlike garments are definitely suitable for various activities, the idea that âskirts are reviled because theyre associated with femininity when theyre a Good Garmentâ is ass backwards logic. for the majority of the past 400 years of history in western cultures women have been FORCED to wear skirts lmfao. and it wasnât skirt-type garments that are made to be comfortable during physical activities, it was explicitly ornamental and uncomfortable skirts made to restrict movement. The same type of skirt that is 99% of all skirts produced industrially right now and available to purchase for the majority of the human population. Most people who âcriticizeâ skirts arenât saying I Dont Like Skirts Because Iâm Not Like Other Girls, theyâre (correctly) pointing out how the Skirt, a type of garment that comes to at the very least a western person in 2026 through its misogynistic history, is a physically restrictive garment that is only imposed on about half the human population with the purpose of associating that type of human with ornamentality and even sexuality. (And yes skirts still are imposed on women to some extent even today - think of school uniforms, many types of sports uniforms, formalwear, etc.) Thus the ability to wear pants, perhaps even exclusively, for a woman, is still an act of radicalism, freeing herself at the barest sense, to acquire a better range of movement. (Think of the âgirlsâ children clothes are more restrictiveâ post that was going around a while back)
tldr post was accusing the tail of wagging the dog and patting itself on the back for Spotting Patriarchal Mindset of criticizing skirts for being associated with femininity (lmao)
btw im not mad at you, and youre free to disagree, im just very dejected i guess at how things that were considered commonplace even when I was your age are now this muddled
No I totally get what you mean. When I saw your first ask I thought you were criticizing the concept of skirts being a convenient garment which I disagreed with especially because many cultures around the world wear skirts and itâs gender neutral in those places (that does not mean misogyny doesnât exist despite popular assertions that if another culture does something we consider to be gender neutral they must be pro gender equality). I understand now that you were criticizing the assertion that skirts are inherently good and liberating and only hated because women wear them rather than women are hated and thus bear the burden of overly restrictive clothing.
Iâm going to the Vatican today and am wearing an ankle length skirt and a scarf to cover my arms to meet the dress code required in the nation state while my male classmates are wearing shorts, jeans, and T shirts. I like skirts but in this moment I donât feel like Iâm making a choice out of convenience or keeping cool, but because a government is saying my skin is unholy.
okay I have to disagree with the skirt thing, especially the backwards logic of "because they're tied with feminity/women, they're derided". for the longest time skirts were (especially in the west) an impractical garment that greatly inhibited one's freedom of movement and autonomy (and even now in most cases) and so were prescribed to be worn by the class of people (those AFAB) that cis men believed were unworthy of freedom of movement and autonomy, especially for the purpose of earning a living wage in working environments that were completely unsuitable for those garments. so no, it would be more apropos to say that because people AFAB were derided, they were forced to wear skirts. it's why we had to fight so hard to legally be permitted to wear more practical, autonomy-enabling clothing đ¤ˇââď¸ again that phrase and its logic is just another example of this weird transfeminist, cultural feminist tendency to 'naturalize' of feminity, instead of viewing it as a socially constructed instrument of oppression for people AFAB principally. (i.e. â https://www.tumblr.com/razortouched/809643396147871744) OP is seeing this through the lens of someone who was not allowed to 'demean' themselves by wearing skirts instead of through the lens of people who were forced to wear skirts/dresses/specific tunics as proof of their inborn social subjugation.
Ahhh ok I can see where youâre coming from. Putting the cart before the horse is always incredibly annoying.
apropos of nothing, having read the scum manifesto, its basically the exact sort of thing men have been writing about women for centuries so i dont understand what im supposed to be offended about. it's actually really funny for that reason. ooga booga terfy cognitohazard
Oh my god the SCUM manifesto is so fucking funny it delights me
I hate how common the fauxcest/incest kink is online because I genuinely do have a transgender younger sister and every time I talk about her online Iâm worried people will think itâs a freak thing. No!!! Iâm her older trans brother by two years!!! Sheâs my sister in the actual way!!!! It drives me crazy!!!!!!
That sounds absolutely awful I canât imagine talking about my brothers online and having to worry about someone getting that gross with it, Iâm sorry
Also like, while queer people absolutely suffered during the Holocaust up to and including murder, hatred of queerness was fundamentally because it was seen as Jewish degeneracy. It cannot be separated from antisemitism. This is a form of antisemitism that persists commonly today. Fucking JD Vance, the US vice president, said that George Soros was to blame for the transition of a former friend of his.
Yupppp they were fine with good aryan homosexuals like Ernst RĂśhm
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Also like has there ever been a case of a terf murdering a trans person? Iâm not saying that they canât cause harm. But I feel like people use terf and transphobe interchangably and they are in fact different. Ted Cruz and Vladimir Putin are not terfs
I donât know if Iâve ever looked into it. Iâm sure thereâs been a few? I think cis men are the vast majority of murderers of trans people though. That doesnât make TERFs not bad obviously and Iâm too exhausted right now to dig even more into articles about trans people dying
Iâm usually on your side but people like jkr literally use their status to change the laws of their countries just to hurt trans people. I feel like long term systemic evil and violent evil should not be compared because you actually cannot measure evil?
Dude in this circumstance yes you can and Iâm sorry that you canât see that thereâs a difference between a rich TERF lobbying for bathroom bans and the systematic torture and execution of millions
If gender is a class then radfems are correct, there is no way around it and I feel like you dont want to make that argument. Please dear jesus will people please allow words to mean things. I want to be so sympathetic to these transandrophobia posts because trans men suffer despite what the noise says but clearly everyone wants to be knowledgeable about shit without learning a fucking thing. Like god damn if gender or sex is a class, then Emmett Till was oppressing Carolyn Bryant by default. Complete nonsense, nobody in any trans tag knows a fucking thing about anything, this site belongs in the dustbin of history, good luck!
I'm also from the same local community that lost Murry, and am an NKU student, and it means a lot to see people like you who aren't letting his name fade away. It's okay to admit the local pride events don't feel safe, and I'm sorry that you're having to go through that. I hope you are able to find some sort of community with other queer people that are accepting of masc identities. I know there's not many of us trans mascs around here, but we're here for you
I donât go to NKU and I never really met him but I know itâs hit people who were close to him or had classes with him harder, I hope you all are doing ok. This is really, really comforting even though Iâm not ready to try to be out again
https://www.tumblr.com/valtsv/816672464695427073?source=share can anybody else see this. I feel like im going insane. Bro look at our âfeministsâ weâre never making it out
Did you send me the wrong post?
This is what that link goes to for me and theyâre just kind of right like skirts are more suitable for most activities other than horse riding
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I think itâs interesting how medical trauma works. Back in November I had 3 surgeries in around 10 days including an emergency surgery on a Sunday morning followed by a 5 day hospital stay for a mild case of sepsis (can you call sepsis mild lol?) and during all this I was fine mentally. I was alert and emotionally stable aside from a little bit before they got my fever down but all in all I was alright. Now itâs been like 8 months and every time I have a slight pain in my abdomen I kind of freak out