|| Bigender transmasc boygirl she/he || This is specifically a feminist blog, I mostly talk about transmascs but will frequently expand to talk about feminism in general
My name is V Iâm bigender (transmasculine) and I post a lot about how my identity intersects with misogyny. I believe that I am fully a woman as well as fully a man although I live most of my life as a woman. I could also be classed as genderqueer or androgyne but I donât call myself that as often.
If youâre going to make a callout post about me at least @ me I love attention
Running list of things Iâve been called because I think itâs funny, if you hate me please feel free to add to this list. All of these come from either TERFs or transmasc targeting transphobes
Middle aged British woman
Most mentally ill trans man
Least obvious transandro
Sock puppet
Deranged psycho
TMRA trying to poison transfeminism
Transmasc Ben Shapiro
Pathetic cisgender woman/fake trans
Terven princess
Bitch (x5), Cunt (x6), Pooner (x3), Slut (x1)
Some more info about me and my beliefs under the cut:
Iâm pretty critical of the trans community because itâs my home and I love it. I donât want us to have to live in a house with broken windows and leaky faucets just because weâre convinced that we can never have anything better. I want better for us. I want us to be safe and happy and I donât want any of us to be shoved aside as if we donât matter. Trans liberation should not only be available for white binary trans people who pass. We need more love for trans people of color outside of turning dead Black trans women into saints without ever listening to what they fought for. We need more love for trans people outside of the imperial core, especially those who donât speak English or who struggle with it. We need more love for intersex people no matter how they identify. We need love for people who, seeking acceptance from a community who is meant to love and care for them, are told that their issues are âtoo complicatedâ or âderailing the conversationâ. To the people on the fringes: I love you.
One thing thatâs going to be controversial about me is that I will be referring to myself as female. I donât believe that itâs useful to me to say Iâve changed my sex or that Iâm not deeply affected by the patriarchal, sexist society we live in. I donât believe this is âself misgenderingâ as I literally donât believe that itâs possible to misgender yourself and I also donât think sex and gender are the same thing. If you, the person reading this, do not identify this way thatâs fine but please donât try to change the way I speak about my body and my oppression because it makes you uncomfortable. I donât believe that your identity has any impact on mine or my validity and I hope you will extend me the same courtesy.
I do also believe in *some* of the tenets of radical feminism. I mean this with as much emphasis as possible: some. I donât believe in trans exclusion, Iâm not a lesbian separatist, etc etc. What I do believe is that gender is a construct that has mostly been used to create a sexist hierarchical society (think gender roles and stereotypes). In my ideal post-patriarchal world, nobody would be trans in the way that no one would be cis, we would all just use whatever clothes and pronouns we wanted and there would be no hierarchy. I also believe that sex based oppression is real and I donât think misogyny could exist without it. This does not mean I donât believe in transmisogyny or that I think all misogyny is sex based.
Another important thing I believe is that we really *really* need to do more to center trans voices outside of the imperial core. White people in the trans community (including myself) also need to stop appropriating language used specifically about racial violence (eg âdigital lynchingâ to refer to blogs getting banned) and language that is hyperbolic to the point of meaninglessness (calling bans on gender affirming care for children in the US âgenocideâ)
As a last note Iâm sincerely uninterested in any discourse that completely ignores misogyny as a monstrous violent force in our world. If I see one more person talk about âAFAB privilegeâ or say female specific issues like pregnancy, abortion, FGM, menstrual stigma, lack of inclusion in medical studies, child marriage, (I could go on forever) donât matter as much as what trans people in the US go through Iâm going to lose my mind.
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So for context what happened was yay bunnies reblogged a typical tumblr absurdity post that said like âIâm glad the gods granted you sentience but Iâm not sure I wanted such a complicated relationship with my sex dollâ and tagged it âtransmenâ. When someone responded to the effect of what the fuck, bunnies replied âwhatâs not clickingâ. The original post was a joke but that kind of tag from someone hateful towards trans men who frequently denies sexual violence against them is incredibly disturbing
People who hate us are perfectly capable of viewing us as sex objects. Objectification is kind of impossible without hate for the object
[tme voice] the trans woman is actually literally pinning us down and raping us with his disgusting male cock when he posts about being sexually abused
đŹ 9  đ 1431  â¤ď¸ 2534 ¡ listen um. i think its great that the gods imbued you with life as a testament to the fervent passion and peerless sk
What I mean is that is her interpretation of a transmasc person's understanding of her instead of her saying "Wow I love treating trans men as sex dolls"
So for context what happened was yay bunnies reblogged a typical tumblr absurdity post that said like âIâm glad the gods granted you sentience but Iâm not sure I wanted such a complicated relationship with my sex dollâ and tagged it âtransmenâ. When someone responded to the effect of what the fuck, bunnies replied âwhatâs not clickingâ. The original post was a joke but that kind of tag from someone hateful towards trans men who frequently denies sexual violence against them is incredibly disturbing
People who hate us are perfectly capable of viewing us as sex objects. Objectification is kind of impossible without hate for the object
[tme voice] the trans woman is actually literally pinning us down and raping us with his disgusting male cock when he posts about being sexually abused
đŹ 9  đ 1431  â¤ď¸ 2534 ¡ listen um. i think its great that the gods imbued you with life as a testament to the fervent passion and peerless sk
What I mean is that is her interpretation of a transmasc person's understanding of her instead of her saying "Wow I love treating trans men as sex dolls"
So for context what happened was yay bunnies reblogged a typical tumblr absurdity post that said like âIâm glad the gods granted you sentience but Iâm not sure I wanted such a complicated relationship with my sex dollâ and tagged it âtransmenâ. When someone responded to the effect of what the fuck, bunnies replied âwhatâs not clickingâ. The original post was a joke but that kind of tag from someone hateful towards trans men who frequently denies sexual violence against them is incredibly disturbing
People who hate us are perfectly capable of viewing us as sex objects. Objectification is kind of impossible without hate for the object
[tme voice] the trans woman is actually literally pinning us down and raping us with his disgusting male cock when he posts about being sexually abused
đŹ 9  đ 1431  â¤ď¸ 2534 ¡ listen um. i think its great that the gods imbued you with life as a testament to the fervent passion and peerless sk
Like ok the idea is that Iâm saying this but if you look carefully you can see that the text is under yay-bunniesâ reblog. So when trying to defend herself from the accusation of calling âtransmenâ sex dolls, she typed out a scenario about holding me down and forcibly penetrating me and decided that was a great thing to post
So for context what happened was yay bunnies reblogged a typical tumblr absurdity post that said like âIâm glad the gods granted you sentience but Iâm not sure I wanted such a complicated relationship with my sex dollâ and tagged it âtransmenâ. When someone responded to the effect of what the fuck, bunnies replied âwhatâs not clickingâ. The original post was a joke but that kind of tag from someone hateful towards trans men who frequently denies sexual violence against them is incredibly disturbing
People who hate us are perfectly capable of viewing us as sex objects. Objectification is kind of impossible without hate for the object
[tme voice] the trans woman is actually literally pinning us down and raping us with his disgusting male cock when he posts about being sexually abused
đŹ 9  đ 1431  â¤ď¸ 2534 ¡ listen um. i think its great that the gods imbued you with life as a testament to the fervent passion and peerless sk
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The idea that a blog that posts frequent fantasies involving dehumanisation ans also posts about hating trans men couldnât possibly mean something dehumanizing about trans men when reblogging a post about sentient sex toys, tagging it trans men, then when asked to clarify by someone who assumed she was calling trans men objects said âwhatâs not clickingâ is absurd. The mental gymnasticsâŚ
She really, REALLY gets mad when people donât automatically take her in good faith after being known for running a harassment campaign of a transmasc teenager for the crime of having a similar blog and consistently posting about how she views trans men as less than human. The way you act influences the way people treat you and interpret your actions. Whatâs not clicking?
Like tbh that did not even cross my mind at all but itâs very very interesting that the first thing that you think of when in a disagreement with a random teenager is to talk about holding him down and raping him
Like tbh that did not even cross my mind at all but itâs very very interesting that the first thing that you think of when in a disagreement with a random teenager is to talk about holding him down and raping him
So for context what happened was yay bunnies reblogged a typical tumblr absurdity post that said like âIâm glad the gods granted you sentience but Iâm not sure I wanted such a complicated relationship with my sex dollâ and tagged it âtransmenâ. When someone responded to the effect of what the fuck, bunnies replied âwhatâs not clickingâ. The original post was a joke but that kind of tag from someone hateful towards trans men who frequently denies sexual violence against them is incredibly disturbing
People who hate us are perfectly capable of viewing us as sex objects. Objectification is kind of impossible without hate for the object
[tme voice] the trans woman is actually literally pinning us down and raping us with his disgusting male cock when he posts about being sexually abused
đŹ 9  đ 1431  â¤ď¸ 2534 ¡ listen um. i think its great that the gods imbued you with life as a testament to the fervent passion and peerless sk
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Being a brown trans man who lives in a village and seeing discourse about trans men having male privilege is so wild. Most people have never seen or do not know that trans men exist here
I cannot be out at home because my family would be ostracized, I have a friend (cis bi girl) who is constantly physically abused by her mother because she found out that she has a girlfriend. Shit is not safe for queer people in these villages. I am out to classmates and a few professors at my college in the city where it's more progressive but I am misgendered multiple times a day and deadnamed every now and then even though I have been out at college for over a year. I am always seen as a woman when my professors address my class, "all girls class", "I don't see any men here", "you must know this because all of you are girls".Â
I do not pass at all and I have no access to hrt or surgeries that would not involve outing myself (additionally I do not even know if I want to pursue those things because I like my appearance but I do not like being misgendered so ugh). I walk a little faster when cis men follow me and my friends, i have been whistled at before, my friends and I have been recorded by a cis man before, I have been told to do things more like a lady by older women before and been told about how I will someday want to birth children. I do not have male privilege.
The only times I am treated like a man is when I'm told that my family is disturbed by me not wanting to shave my peach fuzz or by wearing men's clothes.
(And that's not even getting super into my ex who accused me of SA for telling her I'm questioning being a trans man after telling her in depth about questioning my gender identity for months. "If you do identify as a man well you sure are acting like one" in response to me blocking her because she didn't want me to break up with her after she said more horrible things to me and also tried to tell me that I'm probably not a trans man bc I don't know if I want to physically transition).
I'm tired of Americans talking bullshit, I am only acknowledged or treated like a man when others are trying to shame me and disapprove of my behavior, I do not have male privilege.
This is transandrophobia, and I am so sorry. I wish you the best of luck
Ough, yeah, if you actually read up on the history of the term [link], it has never been specific to trans women. In fact, its origins are completely unknown - trans & gender diverse people of all kinds have been using it for years.
It's always been about "coming out of your shell", about growing into what you're meant to be, hatching out of the embryo stage.
The "chick" definition was just a fun add on that trans women were using within their own circles, and instead of remaining silly wordplay, it got twisted by transandrophobes and exorsexists into...whatever this nonsense is.
(Additionally, the "trans men killed the women they used to be" thing is such a massive red flag, considering TERFs use that as an anti-trans talking point all the time. Also, many trans men still align with womanhood in some way, so it's just...such a huge generalization of the trans man experience.)
saw a post explaining tme and tma that claimed that the definition of tme is âsomeone who can weaponise their agab against misogynyâ and ??????? since when is that how misogyny has worked ever??? (obviously tme and tma are useless anyway but still)
(in case tumblr fucks up this is supposed to be anon)
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Cat blog I like is actually freaking tf out because they misgendered a trans guy and is saying âwell Donald Trump is evil!â Like yeah ok obviously. What does that have to do with you misgendering a trans guy?
