|| Bigender transmasc boygirl she/he || This is specifically a feminist blog, I mostly talk about transmascs but will frequently expand to talk about feminism in general
My name is V I’m bigender (transmasculine) and I post a lot about how my identity intersects with misogyny. I believe that I am fully a woman as well as fully a man although I live most of my life as a woman. I could also be classed as genderqueer or androgyne but I don’t call myself that as often.
If you’re going to make a callout post about me at least @ me I love attention
Running list of things I’ve been called because I think it’s funny, if you hate me please feel free to add to this list. All of these come from either TERFs or transmasc targeting transphobes
Middle aged British woman
Most mentally ill trans man
Least obvious transandro
Sock puppet
Deranged psycho
TMRA trying to poison transfeminism
Transmasc Ben Shapiro
Pathetic cisgender woman/fake trans
Terven princess
Bitch (x5), Cunt (x6), Pooner (x3), Slut (x1)
Some more info about me and my beliefs under the cut:
I’m pretty critical of the trans community because it’s my home and I love it. I don’t want us to have to live in a house with broken windows and leaky faucets just because we’re convinced that we can never have anything better. I want better for us. I want us to be safe and happy and I don’t want any of us to be shoved aside as if we don’t matter. Trans liberation should not only be available for white binary trans people who pass. We need more love for trans people of color outside of turning dead Black trans women into saints without ever listening to what they fought for. We need more love for trans people outside of the imperial core, especially those who don’t speak English or who struggle with it. We need more love for intersex people no matter how they identify. We need love for people who, seeking acceptance from a community who is meant to love and care for them, are told that their issues are “too complicated” or “derailing the conversation”. To the people on the fringes: I love you.
One thing that’s going to be controversial about me is that I will be referring to myself as female. I don’t believe that it’s useful to me to say I’ve changed my sex or that I’m not deeply affected by the patriarchal, sexist society we live in. I don’t believe this is “self misgendering” as I literally don’t believe that it’s possible to misgender yourself and I also don’t think sex and gender are the same thing. If you, the person reading this, do not identify this way that’s fine but please don’t try to change the way I speak about my body and my oppression because it makes you uncomfortable. I don’t believe that your identity has any impact on mine or my validity and I hope you will extend me the same courtesy.
I do also believe in *some* of the tenets of radical feminism. I mean this with as much emphasis as possible: some. I don’t believe in trans exclusion, I’m not a lesbian separatist, etc etc. What I do believe is that gender is a construct that has mostly been used to create a sexist hierarchical society (think gender roles and stereotypes). In my ideal post-patriarchal world, nobody would be trans in the way that no one would be cis, we would all just use whatever clothes and pronouns we wanted and there would be no hierarchy. I also believe that sex based oppression is real and I don’t think misogyny could exist without it. This does not mean I don’t believe in transmisogyny or that I think all misogyny is sex based.
Another important thing I believe is that we really *really* need to do more to center trans voices outside of the imperial core. White people in the trans community (including myself) also need to stop appropriating language used specifically about racial violence (eg “digital lynching” to refer to blogs getting banned) and language that is hyperbolic to the point of meaninglessness (calling bans on gender affirming care for children in the US “genocide”)
As a last note I’m sincerely uninterested in any discourse that completely ignores misogyny as a monstrous violent force in our world. If I see one more person talk about “AFAB privilege” or say female specific issues like pregnancy, abortion, FGM, menstrual stigma, lack of inclusion in medical studies, child marriage, (I could go on forever) don’t matter as much as what trans people in the US go through I’m going to lose my mind.
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i'm sorry but i do not think it is the win you think it is to be mean to a community of people who are largely queer and disabled and nd. it comes across as belittling someone for having "strange" or weird beliefs and it is not just mean it is pretty blatant ableism. that sort of behavior is not much different from people who hate on tmascs and their interests for being "cringe". i don't really think this will change your mind but i hope it provides some perspective
A lot of dnd players are queer disabled neurodivergent whatever and they’re still annoying
Good thing that trans men are immune from all sexually transmitted diseases despite the fact that PrEP is rarely offered to transmasculine individuals because almost all advocacy groups focus on cis gay men and transgender women and that changes to vaginal tissue caused by testosterone make micro-tears significantly more common leading to easier infections
We found low uptake of PrEP and high discontinuation rates in a US national sample of TMSM over 24 months, despite significant need for HIV
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It has just been declared that all trans men and mascs should eat 3-4 meals a day and at least 2 sweet treats or snacks. It’s now in the constitution of every country
So fucking what if they do have receptive PIV sex? Is there something wrong with that? Please, tell me, enlighten me, what’s wrong, what’s so “grim,” about having receptive PIV sex without being misogynistic? Also, I’m sorry but your sample size of twitter trans people is not representative of the whole population. Especially not just from replies of trans guys who are probably just being normal and helpful about how someone on T can have PIV sex even with vaginal atrophy whether or not they do it themselves.
And like, okay. To be completely honest, I do understand the sentiment. A lot of transmascs are pressured and expected to bottom and have vaginal sex both interpersonally and by society at large. It’s probably true that a lot more trans men would enjoy topping if it felt like more of an option to them. But so? Is the solution here just to shame those that don’t? Those who have internalized that that’s the only way for them to enjoy sex with their probably abusive partners that pressure them to?
Also this person clearly doesn’t give a shit about transmascs being pressured into being on the receiving end of penetrative sex unless it’s a trans woman topping, despite the fact that a trans woman topping faces negligible risk compared to a trans man being “creampied”
A comic I made recently. You cannot imagine how hard it was to find the courage to draw and post this, because my fears have grew so much stronger than me. Even setting he/him pronouns in my bio feels scary and unsafe. And drawing that comic felt like a crime.
I’m sorry but saying that someone argument is invalid because solely because they want to be an animal or believe they are one is kind of mean. I’m not really sure what the terminology is with alterhumans or therians and stuff but wanting to be an animal doesn’t make you suddenly too dumb to have complex conversations about the faults of the world we live in. And I’m not talking about someone who is blatantly wrong I’m talking about someone who is rebutting you who happens to have these unrelated traits that do not effect their ability to talk with you, I wish we were all a little kinder is all.
Well the thing is that I’m a little mean. I appreciate your kind heart
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Aren’t therians the guys who wear tails and ears and stuff? Like furry lite? I guess the answer is that I’m very pro costume in general so two thumbs up from me
Sometimes I’m sad but then I remember a good 70 percent of people who hate me either want to be animals or believe that they are an animal soul in a human body and all is right with the world once again
Flaming hot take apparently but if another trans person’s body causes you dysphoria you need to grow the fuck up and keep your mouth shut. I can’t stress this enough it is not their problem to deal with and YOU need to work on that.
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One thing id like to add is that there are explicitly feminist pornsites, you can look up "feminist porn studios" and find reputable studios, same with independent small porn sites owned and run by other marginalised groups
While you cant completly rule out unsavory or unsafe practices they are millions of miles above pornhub and similar mass hosting sites in terms of accountablility and protection for the people featured (since those have none in place)
The thing is that they are absolutly in the minority and only really findable by people who activly look for them since pornhub and similar hosting sites rule the search results
Also literally anyone can say they’re feminist and treat their workers well
