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I love my cat sm I started petting him and he rolled over for belly rubs and let me give him kisses and cuddles and started purring as soon as I gave him belly scritches and he's so cute andjtoeisoakdksns screaming crying punching a wall

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Me, to myself: (yes motherfuckers I'm still kicking, and I will make it everyone's problem) ...y'know, actually? It's very hard to actually have a legitimate trauma response PTSD episode when picturing *that one character* (who unfortunately I do have actual childhood trauma around) as a deranged version of Bob The Builder. Fuck it, he's Homicidal Bob now. Eat shit and die, bitch.
In case anyone ever forgets or doubts how completely arbitrary the sizes are for "women's" clothing:
I was at the mall today and of the clothes I tried on, the sizes that fit across the six items (four shirts, one skirt, one dress) were medium, large, XL, and 2X. Several of them were the same brand, three of the shirts were the same style/cut, and they still weren't consistent. Of two shirts in the same brand and size (both XL), one is a tight "hugs my body" fit and the other is a somewhat loose "not-quite-boxy-or-baggy" fit. I swear they are literally the same pattern just with different materials - they both have the same cut in the neckline, sleeves, and hem. (I have been sewing for over a decade, including altering and full on making clothing for myself and others - and dolls/toys/stuffed animals. I'm telling you there's very little difference in the pattern of the two other than the fabric.)
The 2X dress fit my torso the same as the L shirt did.
This shit is ridiculous. There's no reason we can't have standardized sizing the way "men's" clothing does other than sexism.
I tried to do something nice for my mom cause I was having a really good, low pain high-energy day
And I fucked up. Got overconfident and forgot that just because I feel like I can do stuff doesn't mean my body is physically capable of doing non-disabled levels of shit and I have been shaking so hard I can barely stand or hold things for like forty minutes.
The good news is I'm not struggling for breath anymore so that's nice. đđŤ I'm in agony.
i am always the bitch who's like. that's actually not true :) your brain does not stop developing at 25 or ever :) love languages can be a useful vocabulary but is not real :) a lot of the personality disorders you villainize are responses to immense pain and fear :) stop trying to sort the complexity of human experience into HARRY POTTER HOUSES pleaseee think critically abt what u are being told and who's telling u this. why would someone want u to believe that u aren't fully capable of decision making until 25? psych has been a tool to oppress since it was created, don't buy into it!

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in like 5-8 years when gen alpha starts really making fun of gen z no one is allowed to complain because like 99% of people do nothing but treat those kids like shit
so much of what gen alpha is made fun of (by literal adults!!!) is stuff they absolutely have no control over and is not their fault. they have no control of whether their parents choose to stick an ipad in front of their face day 1 instead of being parents. little girls becoming obsessed with sephora and skincare should not be a reason to make fun of them but a reason to question the beauty industry and its predatory behavior. âbrainrotâ is intrinsic to every generation. itâs not their fault that schools are increasingly becoming underfunded and kids are becoming more and more left behind by the system. not only are kids gonna be kids but theyâre also so insanely vulnerable and unable to do anything about that fact due to being literal children. and itâs so disheartening to see so many things that should be obvious societal issues and causes for concern brushed away or turned into jokes because itâs only affecting children, like they somehow deserve the horrible hand society has dealt them for the very sin of not yet growing up
btw the fact that âevery generation does thisâ is not an excuse. it doesnât matter that gen x did this to millennials and millennials did this to gen z and so on and so forth. it was unfair then and itâs unfair now. break the damn cycle.
My mom once made a comment about how stupid America and its younger population is, because drug ads will tell you not to take that medicine if you're allergic to it or its ingredients. And "back in her day" you didn't have to tell people not to take something you know you're allergic to.
I replied that it's not an individual failing when our food is full of garbage that's literally outlawed in other countries, our schools are failing and falling apart and function on a system that was developed to train silent factory line workers and teaches more government propaganda and indoctrination than anything else, most people are one medical emergency away from extreme poverty, a majority of our working-age generations live paycheck to paycheck, and the top 1% of multi billionaires (and trillionaires what the actual fuck?!?) who pay the politicians to do what's best for the rich are actively pushing for even worse conditions.
If the children are lacking the skills or resources you believe they should have then you should look at their elders and ask what *they* have done wrong. Ask yourself what you can do to help fill those gaps. You should look at the systems that they put in place, and ask yourself how can I improve this? How can I help these children succeed? You should stand shoulder to shoulder with them and help carry the burden they've had forced upon them. Be at their backs to help them move forward, stand in front of them to shield them from harm, and beside them to demand more - demand better. Help them tear the mansion of the corrupt down, splinters be damned, and dig your hands into the soil with them to plant the seeds and grow a garden, without worry for how the dirt will ruin your manicure, and join in line to share the bounty so that everyone has enough.
Gen Z - my generation - has been treated much the same as Gen Alpha is being treated by older generations, but it seems to me that each generation is treated worse than the last. Boomers and Gen X complained about Millennials, then berated and belittled Gen Z, and now they are harassing and outright abusive towards Gen Alpha.
An unfortunate percentage of older Millennials adopted the mindset and behavior of older generations - and the rest should be proud of choosing to step up and start doing the work to break the cycle. A majority of Gen Z - in my experience - made a promise to ourselves that we would not continue the cycle, and we would do what it took to build a better society, country, and world, as we lose patience with the harm caused by broken systems. Gen Alpha, having received the worst of the treatment from the moment they were born, are coming into their teens and early adulthood already having lost their patience for it- if they had any to begin with.
TLDR: Gen Alpha has been blamed for the choices and systems made by Boomers, GenX, and Millennials, and anyone with a shred of decency or humanity should have sympathy for and support, protect, and fight for and with Gen Alpha instead of perpetuating the abuse against these children.
me as a writer: Oh no I canât write that, somebody else already has
me as a reader: hell yes give me all the fics about this one scenario. The more the merrier
This one is so hard to accept. Reblogging to knock that into my brain.
Me as a writer: I feel like Iâm repeating myself, Iâve already used that theme, Iâve already written that kink, that other character uses that speech pattern so this one in another fandom canât, I feel like Iâm writing predictable things, is this different enough from that other thing I wrote, are people filling out bingo cards by my work? :sobbing:
Me as a reader: oh hell yeah this hit the spot exactly, I hope this writer has written 20 more just like it
As one friend said when I felt I was reusing a theme too much, nobody ever says, Did Agatha Christie write about murder again?
I actually laughed out loud at the last one. A very good point.
âI love this, I hope there isnât anything else out there like it!â Said no one ever
Sometimes you just really need other people to point out the obvious to you! Thanks, guys.
I remember being in a tiny fandom and reading every story a particular writer had written in that fandom, and then every other story they had written for good measure. Probably around 30-35 stories in all.
In every single story they wrote, one of the main characters either had, acquired, or considered adopting or buying a Bedlington Terrier. Always that one type of dog.
I never got tired of it. By about story 7 I was reading along thinking âwhen is the little lamb dog going to show up?â and it didnât even blip my weirdness radar.
Do your thing over and over again, friend.
An ad on TV: RSV is the leading cause of hospitalization for infants under 1
My immediate thought: LMAO not me, I was brought back to the ER within days of going home cause I would periodically start struggling to breath or outright not be able to, and it wasn't RSV! Ha!
My very next thought: Chris...what the fuck is wrong with you?? That's not a flex and it's not some sort of competition. Why are you like this!?
When I genuinely fully expect to get called names and verbally abused in response to a message asking to know what time we're meeting for a chat so I can make sure to not be busy then, and restating the boundary that if anyone is unable to remain calm and respectful or there is any name calling or similar mistreatment/disrespect than I will walk away from the conversation until everyone is ready and able to have a productive discussion.
Joy. Says a lot about the pattern of behavior they've established that I'm not even mad just tiredly expecting to be treated like shit.
I feel like the human body should *not* be allowed to respond to being fed when it's hungry with making you incredibly nauseous and sick to your stomach for no apparent reason.
No there's no possibility of an allergy or the food being bad, yes it's food I have had frequently and don't usually get ill from eating. It's nothing about the food itself - my body just goes "oh, you're doing the thing you need to do to survive that we were asking you to do? Hahaha no thanks, have some severe nausea.

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Democratic leaders did not tell members to vote against an amendment to block the State Department from citing Gazaâs Health Ministry.
Oh this hit all my red flags, I've torn down 3 already just walking Malaya to the park
If you see shit like this Especially outside your local highschools rip it down there's a 80% chance this is a trafficking scam
Thankfully seems I'm not the only one in town who feels this way
This is totally ok to rb by the way
Scam signs:
Targeting teens
No actual mention of the job company or what you'll be doing
Paid daily
Promises of trips and prizes
Encouraging you to bring a friend or relative who's also a teen
asexuals are queer pass it on
wow yall are still arguing in these notes huh
anyway asexuals are still queer, keep passing
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I wish more white people - and white women especially - would get over their white fragility and truly understand how words and actions like these do more harm than good to women of color. They need to stop making everything about themselves and catering to other whites women like women of color donât exist.
A lil something I put together for Pride Month this year.
The cane has become a daily tool I can no longer deny, and wanted to create something to show the acceptance of this aspect of my life. Alongside with the many colours I've found through the never ending journey that is self discovery.
I did create one flag myself here, the bottom right purple one. Purple is the colour ribbon used to represent fibromyalgia as well as the butterfly used as symbol for this chronic illness. I took those elements and made my own fibro flag to go with the Disability Pride flag.
Do enjoy and merry Pride Month to ya'll.
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I wish kinky sex ed wasn't so stigmatized even among left-leaning "sex positive" circles. Everyone's all "uwu I'm a sub I'll do anything you ask" okay mommy wants you to read The New Bottoming Book so you learn how to sub without hurting yourself since your sex ed up to this point is porn and your ex boyfriend Jared who liked to choke you incorrectly
Iâm so glad you asked! Let me list off what Iâve got for you:
Books I personally recommend:
- The New Topping Book and The New Bottoming Book, by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy
If youâre having kinky sex at all, you need to read at least one of these two books. Point blank. Theyâll teach you the very basics of negotiating properly (which is critical!), and help you identify what you are and arenât into.
- Mindfucking Mindfully, by Sir Ezra Where this book really shines isnât actually in helping you âmindfuckâ people, itâs in taking a close look at how to do so ethically. Itâs a great answer to the question âhow do I get someone to consent to something and still surprise and shock them with it?â
- Real Service by Raven Kaldera and Joshua Tenpenny This is a slightly niche pick but there simply isnât a better book on the subject. Itâs written from a 24/7 M/s perspective, which is not what I do, but the book itself is an indispensable guide to giving and receiving service. The phrase âif the Master doesnât want it, it isnât serviceâ will be burned into my psyche for quite some time. I love this book a lot. Maybe my favorite out of all of these.
- Enough To Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation, by Princess Kali This oneâs high on my reading list;Â Iâve heard it recommended by a number of people whose opinions on these things I trust.
- Pretty Much Anything Midori Has Ever Done Midori is a great resource for this stuff - I havenât personally read much of her work, but sheâs a well known sex educator and great at what she does. Sheâs known for bondage, but has a lot of range beyond that.
- This Negotiations Worksheet from Bex Talks Sex This is what I default to using a lot of the time for negotiations. Forget BDSMtest, you donât need that, itâs no good. Just look through this worksheetâs wordbank with your partner. Big fan especially of the âhow do you want to feel?â section.
Books I can kind of recommend:
- The Ultimate Guide to Kink, edited by Tristan Taormino This book is weird. Thereâs a lot of good info for experienced players, but some of whatâs written here skeeves me out. I think if I had a top that thought the way some of the tops in here think, they would not be topping me for long. But thereâs some good techniques and so on to pick up that I wouldnât have otherwise. I liked the distinction one of the authors makes between being sadistic in the sense of inflicting pain and being sadistic in the sense of doing something your sub doesnât âenjoy.â
- The Ritual of Dominance and Submission, by David English Man, this book fucking sucks. The writing and editing are garbage, and the fear and protocol play described need way more careful negotiation than he ever lets on, let alone recommends. This is some 50 Shades bullshit. The only time I recommend this book is to tops like me who tend to be very affirming to their partners and need a guide on how to really scare them - when their partner consents and when you negotiate it, which this book sucks at teaching you. Really good content on fear, punishment, and protocol play, really terrible presentation of the topic though. Donât read this if you donât already know what youâre doing.
- Paradigms of Power, by Raven Kaldera I love this book. Great book. Very focused on 24/7 M/s play though, and, being an anthology, some chapters are better than others. If you canât read something and pick out what is and isnât for you, donât bother. But some really great inspiration, and generally pretty well written. Big fan of the discussion of leather throughout the book.
Hope some of these are helpful for people ^-^ for the average person reading this I recommend New Bottoming/Topping, but theyâre all important parts of my library and Iâve recommended all of them to friends at some point or another.
May I also suggest Hell on Wheels and Kneeling in Spirit by Raven Kaldera, d/s companion books that address kink with a disability. They're a should read for everyone, imo. You never know when you or a partner are going to have changes in your body that affect what you can physically do. Temporary illness/injury and even just age can affect your sex life.
I'd like to suggest Better Bondage for Every Body! It goes really in depth on anatomy, pain processing, self-tying, and has chapters specifically focusing on how to do rope bondage on/for someone who is disabled or has chronic pain, which was really important to me.
reblogging specifically for these last additions bc I don't think I've ever seen resources for kink w/ disability
not to Discourse but Iâm a cis man and my partner is an afab enby and if you call us a âstraight coupleâ I will personally come to your house tie you to a chair and make you listen to a podcast about gender identity on endless repeat
this is specifically @ the people who saw us at pride together and saw them wearing a âTHEY/THEMâ button and still referred to them as my âgirlfriendâ youâre all cancelled thanks
itâs called respecting queer people juice
y'know the really amazing thing about the notes on this post - apart from just the sheer number of people who are, like, viscerally terrified of the existence of a person who isnât cis - is how many of them are responding to things that arenât here. specifically, youâll notice I said nothing about my sexuality. I didnât say I identified as non-het, or that I considered myself part of the LGBTQIA community. on the flip side, I also didnât give you any reason to believe Iâm not bi, or that Iâve never been in a relationship with a cis man. y'all know nothing about my sexuality from this post and you donât need to and Iâm not going to tell you about it now because! this post! was not! about me!
it was about respecting my partnerâs identity. and the fact that they donât get that respect from people in the exact community that they should be able to count on getting it from.
ie, you.
they are not het or cis, and no relationship they are in will ever be a âstraight relationshipâ because they. are not. het. or. cis.
everyone in the notes gatekeeping me because Iâm ânot oppressedâ? I never said I was. the person youâre really attacking and invalidating by shitting on this post is them, a pansexual nonbinary person who is unerasably queer.
huh. itâs almost as if the whole âwe canât let straight men use queerness to worm their way into our communityâ discourse is just an excuse to hate trans people, isnât it.
I reblog this every time I see itâ
thinking abt all the ppl constantly posting abt afab nonbinary ppl who are dating cis men and saying that clearly their partner just thinks theyâre a woman. and how theyâre the same ppl on this post disrespecting opâs partnerâs identity. almost like yâall donât respect afab nonbinary ppl and think theyâre just âbasically womenâ (unless they physically transition in which case theyâre âbasically menâ) but donât want to admit that so you project that shit onto their partners.
Straight - passing couples at Pride deserve the same love and respect for their identities as non- straight-passing couples do.
And if you disagree, please keep in mind that you are being a dick to queer people based on who they love, which is the exact opposite of what Pride, the queer community, and allyship is about. Don't be queerphobic because someone's queer in a way that's different from how you are / think they should be / are comfortable with.