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The context isn’t worth mentioning but I saw someone post that they’re afraid to consume new Western media because it’ll disappoint them due to no good art being possible under late stage capitalism. It’s fascinating how this dumb dog shit is earnestly posted by so many people on here. Like, really? No art has been worth consuming in the West for the past handful of years cuz capitalism? Is that why your blog is full of gifs from recent media? Follow up question: what economic systems are in the countries that make your pure, eternally good media? Are those writers not making money by selling the rights to their work to studios that then produce their scripts?
Sometimes movies or TV shows suck because the people writing the scripts aren't good at their jobs and it has nothing to do with capitalism and that's that. I’m begging this site to learn more than 7 buzzwords. Joe Biden’s criticism of Rudy Giuliani being that his sentences would consist of “a noun, a verb, and 9/11” is tumblr but it’s a noun, a verb, and capitalism. None of this is a real critique of capitalism, and none of it is actual media analysis. It’s lazy. It’s an edgelord 9th grader who just learned the word trying to shove it into every conversation to show how smart and cool and different they are to their mom
You know what it is, right? Millenarianism for ostensibly secular progressives. They need it to be part of a greater struggle-mythos they've chosen to replace whatever faith they grew up in with. "Late Stage" implies an End state. If the Alien Spaceship Behind The Comet/Rapture/End Times are coming you can be as consumerist and bullying and shitty as you want because the Story Will Continue With You As The Hero. You don't need to grow up, you don't need to assess what ACTUALLY needs to be done to mobilize people. And you never have to give up the things you loved when you were twelve or reassess them or reassess anything in new ways because you never have to grow up. You'll die young and pretty or somehow never age and remain youthful and cool forever. (Hello New Boomers) (The irony of me saying this with a Star Wars blog theme and a Z-95 Headhunter on a shelf is not lost on me. IT OK. ME READ GROWN UP BOOKS AND NONFICTION TOO! ME CAN MAINTAIN A HOME AND COOK AND DO LAUNDRY AND THINGS I PROMISE.) Anyway... As much as people like this fixate on the outward aesthetics of the 60s, (and can't distinguish between the earlier civil rights era and how much 'burn it all down' in the late 60s and 70s fucked up people's lives for DECADES, I think we're headed into if not already in a 70s'-lite era of cults and grifters picking up the shards of the people who thought 'mass movement' meant indulging their id and fucking around and smashing things and finding One Central Evil to beat up and not signing on for decades of hard work.
And that means they're incredibly vulnerable to grifters and groomers who want them and their money. Which is easily gotten by creating simple stories, strict hierarchies, and preying on people who think that some Mystical Before-Time was 'better' RETVRN, right?
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new kind of guy dropped
he's unironically 100% correct and i will hear nothing against him
Well, for those wondering why in the world that one IDF soldier would post himself destroying the statue of Christ in Lebanon... cue Ben-Gvir.
Clip shows minister waving Israeli flag as activists forced to kneel on ground and national anthem blasts over loudspeaker; Italy, France su
The video begins with a female activist shouting “Free Palestine,” before being grabbed by the head and shoved to the ground by officers who drag her out of Ben Gvir’s way, as he tours the facility.
The treatment of the detainees appeared akin to security forces’ handling of the most severe terrorists in the prisons overseen by Ben Gvir’s office, which has also prompted allegations of abuse.
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Ben Gvir is also heard urging guards at the facility “not [to] be bothered by their screams,” as a woman can be heard crying out in the background.
And just like that, suddenly every accusation of mistreatment from the previous flotilla activists is much more credible. He really did not have to post this but he sure did choose to anyway.
Who'd have thought that putting the guy convicted 8 times for charges related to supporting and inciting terrorism in charge of the country's law enforcement would have negative ripple effects.

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If you live in the USA and you're pleading for donations to pay your rent, bills, or get food then dial 211! Please dial 211 before the last minute!
It's a toll free service with people who will help you find programs in your community to pay those bills, find food, and find housing! They will give you numbers to call so you can get help.
It is not 100% foolproof. Their job is to direct you to a program they believe will help your current issue, but it's still a step up from praying random strangers online will give you enough cash before a deadline! The added benefit of these community programs, which get funded by the local government most of the time, is if there are more people using them then they can get more money to help more people.
You're not taking resources from other people if you use your community services. Your taxes pay for them. Use them.
Dial 211 first to see if they can help, and if for some reason they can't, then make your donation posts!
https://www.211.org/
Hi I work for my state's 211 service. It really breaks my heart how many people only know to call us at the last minute. 211's can provide a whole wealth of resources to use before things ever get to a cut off utility, eviction, or homelessness!
I can't speak for all 211's but most should also have a website detailing all the agencies in their database. if you don't like phone calls, this can be something to reference instead.
If you don't have health insurance but you need to see a doctor, reference 211! We list clinics that provide free or discounted general care, vision, and dental services to low income households and people without insurance! Many hospitals also have financial aid policies that can severely reduce your bill if you had an expensive procedure!
If you're stuck in a dead end job or need educational resources reference 211! There are a lot of programs focused on providing basic adult education as well as trade skills or other high demand fields! State governments are generally more interested in funneling people into work than providing benefits, but you can still use this to your advantage especially if you have some form of disability but are still able to work. That includes if you're neurodiverse or have mental health issues! Most of these programs are extremely underutilized.
If you believe you qualify for public benefits but the bureaucracy of the process is in your way, reference 211! There are agencies specifically geared towards helping people obtain the benefits they qualify for- for free!
If you need help with your taxes-
If you need help finding a pro bono lawyer-
If you need help finding affordable housing/section 8 housing-
If you need help finding food pantries-
If you need help paying for your prescriptions-
If you need help obtaining disability aids or assistive technology-
If you need help finding transportation options-
If you need help following a natural or personal disaster (like a home fire)-
If you need help repairing a home you or your family owns or it needs modifications to be accessible-
If you need Queer resources-
Reference your 211!!!!!
I had no idea what 211 was before working for it but I wish I had. I've learned so much about what resources are actually available to the community even in a ho hum area of the country like my state. I've saved my partner literally thousands of dollars just from the medical resources I've gathered.
Not enough young people know about or utilize these services but they are there for you!
P. S.
This isn't an intended use of 211, but I like to reference the agency listings when I look for jobs. Many of the agencies listed are non-profits which, while they certainly are not perfect, generally have lower barriers of entry to decent paying jobs with benefits. The work environments tend to be much kinder and at least pretend to be forward thinking. You're more likely to find jobs without as many people applying as well, especially if they're only advertising their positions through their own website.
Get help paying bills, finding food, and locating other resources near you. Call 211 now for confidential help from a caring expert.
Oh my goodness. Sharing this because maybe your state has something to help you see a dentist! If it's been a while, please see I'd you have any dental services in your area. It's really so important to see a dentist.
I was born jobless and pantless idk why you expect me to change
please tell me you liked that post pr*smatic-bell chimed in on so you can dunk the shit out of xir for being an idiot. it keeps showing up on my dash and i keep having a heart attack about it thinking i'm following some zionist
See things like this get my back up, because when people say 'zionist' these days what they mean is just 'jew'.
So to me, this ask you just sent reads 'you liked something a jew said some stuff about and I don't like that'. Which I've been seeing a whole lot of recently.
Love the people in the replys being like, no no, they actually are a zionist check their blog, as if that in anyway disproves what you said.
If this specific person is or is not a zionist (which nobody doing this shit actually knows the meaning of but whatevs) does not change that the behavior being exhibited is shitty.
And the asker is convinced it's a genocide. My sibling in cthonic gods, genocide has a meaning, and it's not just 'when there's a war' or 'vibes'.
And based on the definition of genocide, there is a genocidal side in this conflict. It is Hamas.
Until you can accept this basic fact, you cannot have an accurate view of the situation down there. You are, in fact, being an antisemite. I say this as a fellow goy: you are disturbingly susceptible to antisemitic propaganda.
under US law, it's illegal for anyone who's not a member of a recognised native tribe to own an eagle feather. the penalty is a $100,000 fine.
14 years ago when I had recently moved to Alaska, I went hiking with an Aleut friend, and she pointed to a feather lying on the ground and said "hey that's a bald eagle tail feather, you should grab it!" and I was like "uhh I'm very white and that's very illegal" and she went "they're fuckin everywhere up here man. I have 20." so she grabs it off the ground and hands it to me and says "there, now it's a ceremonial gift from an indigenous person."
and I'm like, okay, cool, I guess this is how we do things in Alaska. nice.
so I keep this bald eagle tail feather around for years. display it in my home among other cherished memorabilia from places I've lived and visited, etc.
on a whim, I have just now looked it up. there is no exemption to that law for a ceremonial gift from an indigenous person. the last 7 years I lived in the US, I was technically a bald eagle poacher.
probably a good thing I don't intend to move back there anytime soon. I wonder what the statute of limitations is on bird crimes.
@freedomisscaryshit I'm fucking dying I think you forgot the word "feathers" in your tags?? or do you just wish you could grab whole ass eagles that land in your yard??
As an Indigenous person, it continues to astound me that there are such strict laws (written by White people) in our name, laws against...picking up things just found on the ground. Like, stop pretending this is "for" us. We don't want this.
so, for clarity, that's not what this is. the law against possessing feathers is an anti-poaching measure, derived from a North American treaty protecting certain migratory bird species from hunting. that treaty has an exemption for indigenous people to allow tribes that use eagle feathers in ceremonial or religious practices to continue doing so.
i used to collect feathers (illegally) as a teenager and the thing is that it's incredibly important for feathers from wild birds to be illegal to possess because it ensures that they never become fashionable to wear. the reason we passed the migratory bird act was because the american and european fashion industry was driving species to extinction in a timespan of years. not just decades. the ecological devastation of exporting birds for hats was absolutely insane and people were watching wetlands and forests and meadows just empty out in realtime. look at the wikipedia article for the plume trade.
the law against 'picking feathers up off the ground' means that you can't go shoot an eagle then sell the feathers on etsy by saying you 'just found them'. you can't own them no matter where they came from, which makes sure that they're not going to come from any birds killed and then secretly disposed of.
these laws, as harsh and ridiculous as they seem, saved flamingos, spoonbills, egrets, and all kinds of hawks and eagles from extinction. the minute these laws weaken and people can make money off killing them again, they're fucked.
this is one of those "no actually this regulation exists for a reason" laws much like work place safety and building fire codes (that Republicans keep trying to roll back) and is written in blood just like them as well. it's just not human blood this time, and the fact that people actually cared enough about long term future over short term profit to get it put in place is nothing short of astonishing. That it didn't get put in place in time to save several species is heart breaking.
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One of the things I love about the theatre is AI can't do it
Now AI can't really "do" anything, but if we assume he's referring to "things people are trying to replace with AI," I'm afraid the theatre isnt as safe as he thinks.
Sure, you can't replace stage actors with AI, but you can replace script writers with it. or lighting designers, or score composers. So just because you've got real people on the stage, doesn't mean AI isn't involved in the process leading up to it, if the producers are really determined to enshittify their work.
All I'm saying is, don't take a medium for granted. Love productions aren't inherently "safe." You still have to be vigilant.

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Companies that rushed to replace human labor with AI are now shelling out to have IRL workers to fix the technology's screwups.
Delicious. We love to see it.
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Ultimately, she spent 20 hours redoing the copy from scratch — and with her $100-per-hour rate, that meant her client was shelling out $2,000 for copy that likely would have ended up being far cheaper had a human just written it in the first place.
I love stories like this.
Get peer reviewed!
Big shoutout to anybody who's fucking struggling right now who having just a real dogshit trying time right now anybody who's staying alive anybody who's staying sober anybody who relapsed but is moving forward anybody who is choosing harm reduction anybody who is seeking support when they need it anybody who is trying their best anybody whose best doesn't look that pretty right now anybody who's fucking sick and tired and doing it anyway
shoutout to the weirdos, to the struggling, to the dykes, the fags, the queers, the trannies and the cripples
shoutout to those flaring up and forced to cope to anybody who would really like to just not give a fuck but knows thats not an option to anybody who's exhausted to anybody who's alone or feels alone to anybody putting off the bad shit for just another day to anybody who's taking a nap instead of doing something permanent
I love you, the world's a fucking mess but it's a fucking better place with you in it
Vice Chair of the Democratic Caucus Ted Lieu (D-CA) tells reporters the Epstein files contain allegations that President Trump raped and thr
This is kinda a follow up to your previously answered anon. I also found your blog a couple months or so ago now and have read through several of your posts. While you (and others) have made me reconsider previous stances and have changed my mind on several key factors about the I/P conflict, admittedly there is a lot that i still wrestle with and somewhat disagree with. That being said, I do respect and appreciate your throughness and moral consistency which i find incredibly refreshing. So to continue with this wrestling of thoughts, I'd like to ask what resources you use in your own research. I have followed a few links of your more academic/historcal sources and have found them behind paywalls or to just be snippets of a larger text (as in the case with book previews). I know the most basic thing is to start with a history textbook but those tend to be vauge and lack nuance. Additionally, what online news sources do you use/trust since the MSM is untrustworthy. I find myself lost often in a maze of confusion and contradiction. Again, thanks for what you've done on this page, there are a lot of people out there who could stand to read through it and learn something.
While you (and others) have made me reconsider previous stances and have changed my mind on several key factors about the I/P conflict, admittedly there is a lot that i still wrestle with and somewhat disagree with.
Good!
You should be skeptical. You should wrestle with things that don't sit right with you. You should disagree - and you should do so with facts and reasoning! You're Doing It Right, Anon!
(Please consider sharing some of your disagreements, okay? There's nothing I like better than constructive disagreement.)
I'd like to ask what resources you use in your own research.
I was, decades ago, a librarian.
Librarians are trained to take what may seem like an odd position on information: it's all information.
It might be accurate, it might be sloppy, it might be biased, and it might be dishonest...
...but even dishonest propaganda can tell you important things about the time/place/person who produced it.
I don't rule out any source. Al Jazeera English, even while lying, tells you a great deal about what Qataar wants anglophonic people to think. Ha'aretz tells you a great deal about what the international left wants to hear.
All sources have some value - the work of understanding the context and intent of each is on you.
I have followed a few links of your more academic/historcal sources and have found them behind paywalls or to just be snippets of a larger text (as in the case with book previews).
When I wrote for academic publications, I'd produce the citation and move on - that's how academic publishing works. The reader can verify with or without a librarian's help, and the burden is on them to confirm the cited work actually supports the assertion - but most readers were in my field and were familiar with the works I cited.
Writing for non-academics on social media on topics most readers have barely studied is a different thing entirely.
I don't want to assert something and ask readers to trust that the citation supports it, or require them to go hunting for it if another option is available.
We've all seen the dishonest tactic (on Wikipedia and elsewhere) where the writer makes a claim the cited source doesn't actually support. So I try to find sources I can link to with the explicit supporting text visible.
Sometimes it'll be excerpted in a book review. Sometimes I manage to link a pirated copy. Sometimes I'll snag a screencap or snap a photo of a source. When I can, I post links that bypass paywalls. Sometimes a DOI link is the best I can do.
It's all imperfect, but it's better than "trust me, bro" ...which is appallingly the norm right now.
We all need to be more skeptical. Read the links. Check the citations. Require sources for factual assertions. Linking things that are immediately checkable helps builds trust - and if I want readers to see me as credible, nothing matters more than that.
That being said, I do respect and appreciate your throughness and moral consistency which i find incredibly refreshing.
That's more important to me than agreement - thank you. I'm not always right, but I'd like to always be trustworthy.
...what online news sources do you use/trust since the MSM is untrustworthy.
I use all of them. I trust none of them.
Bias is inescapable. I think humans learn from and are driven primarily by narrative - and narrative will always have a perspective. Bias isn't a bug, it's a feature - and it isn't your enemy.
From a previous post on Bias:
You don't need to trust a source completely to learn something from it. In fact, the most valuable sources are often obviously biased. 1. Identify the Bias Before even reading, know what kind of outlet you're dealing with. Look at its about page, ownership, funding/revenue model, recurring columnists, and core audience. Does it lean left? Right? Is it globalist? Nationalist? Religious? Secular? Knowing this lets you anticipate the angle and spot distortions more easily. The more you do it, the easier it gets. After a little practice, you'll see clearly (for example) the huge right wing bias of the Jerusalem Post, the huge left wing bias of Ha'aretz, and how The Times of Israel is mostly pretty disciplined (in their news gathering and framing) about minimizing left/right political biases. None of these three is perfect, but seeing their usual, institutional biases lets you read them against each other. 2. Use It for Contrast Biased outlets often highlight stories others avoid or ignore. Fox News may underplay climate change but overplay immigration crime. Al Jazeera will underplay Hamas human rights abuses but spotlight in depth the most embarrassing moments in Israeli politics. The Jerusalem Post will underplay corruption charges against Netanyahu and spotlight the most depraved behaviors committed in the name of Hamas. Use this to your advantage. Compare coverage across ideological lines. The contrast tells you volumes about outfit AND audience. 3. Look for Hard Facts Don't quote the adjectives. Quote the data. What happened? When? Where? Who said it? What did the video actually show? Stop taking an analyst's word as truth - see it as a lens to try on at look at the facts through. If the lens helps it make sense, put it in your back pocket for later use. Strip away the spin, extract the structure. 4. Cross-Reference Across Angles Treat each biased source as one side of a triangle. To understand the shape of a thing, you need multiple sides. Balance a left-wing story with a right-wing one. Add an international perspective. Compare them. Over time, you start seeing the shape of the event instead of the biases of each outfit.
It's time consuming and it's hard work - but it's worth doing.
If you like, you can check out the Signal > Noise tag for bite-size lessons in media literacy.
...since the MSM is untrustworthy.
"Mainstream Media," is too broad a term to be meaningful.
There are charlatans and truth-tellers everywhere. We should trust people based on their records of intellectual honesty and responsible journalistic behavior.
I think the NYT has become a sloppy, lazy, ideologically bent advocacy operation instead of a source of journalism, but there are still things to learn from the NYT and there are still people working there whose voices are worth hearing.
I'm not going to assume everything in its pages is shit.
The world just isn't that simple.
Embrace complexity. Read and listen to smart, honest people with whom you disagree. It's time consuming, challenging, and often annoying - but it'll let you see the world far more clearly than splitting all information sources into a false binary of "trustworthy" and "deceptive."
Read everything - skeptically and critically.
There really aren't any shortcuts.
I often have people asking me about reliable sources for factual information. This post captures why I have such a difficult time answering that question. Because the skill that people need to learn is not, "who / what is always trustworthy?" but rather "how can I learn to separate factual information from non-factual information regardless of a sources general trustworthiness?" Because, let's face it, no one is trustworthy 100% of the time, if by trustworthy you mean "factual and unbiased." I'm not, you are not, and our most hated and beloved media sources are not. That's part of being human. Even when we're well intentioned, we have limited perspectives. The key is learning to identify limitations in our own perspectives and limitations in the perspectives of others. That tells us what information we might be missing and can guide us in finding it.
YES.
@wowbright makes me realize how prolix my writing is
“If voting did anything they would outlaw it.” Is such an insane take to me, because literally all of human politics for recorded history has centered around Outlawing the Vote.
Yeah dawg in fact like 2/3 of the politicians in US today are actively trying to Outlaw Your Vote

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My official position is that Luigi Mangione is innocent because he's not the real killer and whoever the real killer is is also innocent. Two different people who are both innocent.
Luigi Mangione didn't shoot that guy, but the guy who did shoot that guy was on some A Time To Kill shit, ie yeah sure he did it but come on
#luigi mangione is innocent in the sense he did not actually shoot the guy#whoever did shoot the guy is innocent in the sense that the jury should refuse to declare them guilty
Just like local hero Carl Lee Hailey in John Girsham's hit novel A Time to Kill and in the hit film based on the novel
Luigi and the Claims Adjuster both deserve to walk free for two different reasons
The reason why so many of y'all's feminism sucks is because you still believe deep down in your hearts that there are only two kinds of people in the world: precious, ethereal, fragile dollthings called "women", and violent, lustful, rage-fueled apes called "men". Until you throw that idea away, 3rd-grade-tier "girls rule boys drool, girls are princesses and boys are stinky :(" is as feminist as we'll ever get-- and I hope it's obvious that that's lightyears away from the bare minimum of where we need to be.
I don't know how I'm supposed to explain to ostensibly trans-friendly feminists that "women are beautiful soft things made of glass, men are obsessed with violence and sex" is exactly what the patriarchy wants you to believe. Patriarchy wants you to believe that being a woman and/or having a vagina (patriarchy generally believes those two things are synonymous) makes one shatter on impact with reality. It makes you easier to control if you are scared shitless of the other half of the population, and it makes you more compliant with your lot in life if you believe it is in the nature of the other half of the population to rape and kill rather than realise those were choices those individual rapists and murderers made. There is no way to make gender essentialism progressive and feminist, because it is one of patriarchy's tools of subjugation. Stop trying to make it progressive.
And I can scream all of that from the rooftops over and over again, and what I hear in reply is "Trans men really are men because no woman would ever decide to become an inherently evil repugnant rapist ape", and "You're so right. Trans women are women because they too are pretty delicate little objects I can fuck", and "You're non-binary? So are you fucktoy non-binary or sexpest non-binary?", and my patience runs ever thinner.