mostly official-ish

I've been wanting to unpack this particular terf argument for a while but I'm not even sure what I wrote that you could be responding to here. yes it's bioessentialist to see trans women as our assigned sex before what we actually are, but that fact alone does not obligate you to sleep with anyone

it would be fatphobic to announce that you don't want to sleep with fat women, and someone simply calling that out alone would not constitute pressuring you to sleep with anyone you didn't want to

Nobody can be exclusively attracted to afab people because YOU DON'T KNOW. You can't, not for sure.

Someone asked F1nn why it was that on her larger branded social media accounts she still listed herself as a femboy in some places while in more intracommunity spaces she more readily and comfortably identified as transfem.

Now, depending on who you ask that kind of question to you'll probably get a meandering answer on the complexities of how one defines their own identity. But instead F1nn gave a very quick and simple answer.

I gotta push back against this one, because the people who most saw her as a side show and then dropped her, were the people who were walking around touting how funny it was that she was dressing up super fem while not identifying as transfem.

It was people saying that she was "so transgressive" for being a boy while dressing as a girl.

Tender Man 🫂

BEN Clowned 🤡

Smile Dog 😁

I remember there was a mini TikTok trend where white guys were posting stuff along the lines of "When your [insert loved one] says to fight someone for them and its a 6'5 Black man whose absolutely ripped and has anger issues" with lyrics in the background saying "and I won't back down, no I won't back down" and I was like... hah?

Not to mention them watching porn (usually cuck porn) that involves a white woman and a Black man specifically, like on purpose

Interrogating the women that they're one a first date with and asking them if they've been with a Black dude

Gay white men constantly talking about BBC (this one is more blatant)

Some even offering money to Black men asking them to have intercourse with their girlfriend/wife and have them watch

It all has this weird and gross thing to it that's like a mix of jealousy but also fetishization while also wanting to be in a submissive position???

Also I'm pretty sure how the global sports sphere treats Black men, specifically the NFL could also probably be tied into this

Lmao I know I have to be annoying as I constantly recommend this one, but like... 😬

i ran out of my endo meds, and will have no HRT soon as well. im waiting to get disability, currently im struggling to even just afford to eat and need help

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c*shapp: $frogiess

v*mno: @ finchfrog

https://www.paypal.me/skyve

Autistic: "100%, they should look into it. Hope they can get more comfortable not masking."

Queer: "I know right? They shouldn't be afraid to come out!"

Disabled/chronically ill: "They should ask their doctor about it, and here are some resources that might help narrow it down."

she did not experience "male socialization." when i look back on our childhood, it is easy to understand that there was no privilege to that concept. she was forced to try and shrink herself into the shape of a man, and was abused when she didn't succeed at playing the part. being "raised as a boy" only highlighted the stark incongruity between what was expected of her and what she was. this repeatedly led to her facing violence.