There's an exchange I've mentioned on here before from a bit after Shelby's turning. Pyro and Scott have left, and it's just them for a few final moments, and Shelby pauses and says this:
Shelby: I haven't forgiven you yet!
Owen: I don't doubt you will.
Shelby leaves.
Owen: Eventually, they all do.
There's a lot I could go into here, and frankly I don't know that canon even bears Owen's view out. A lot of vampires end up wanting to stay vampires, but there's tension in a lot of the sire-fledgling relationships. But let's pretend Owen's right, and fledglings do eventually forgive their sires for turns, no matter how violent.
Because this is a really nice explanation for why Abolish doesn't want to get turned, and why he would (as stated by word of god) immediately prioritize killing any vampire who turned him against his will.
If he knows that vampirism will warp you like this, will shift your loyalties no matter how hard you try to keep that from happening?
Even if it's just (just!) forgiving the person who violently attacked you to the point of death, that's a division of loyalty that could get the people he works with killed: if he gets turned nonconsensually and doesn't kill them immediately, he'll decide the person who turned him is Literally Nice and let them go even though they have a proven record of eating people.
And then they will go on eating people, after he said they were Literally Nice, and then his coworkers will be dead or turned because he got turned. Not a polite thing to let happen to your coworkers. I imagine it would make water cooler conversations difficult, if they were not also getting mind-warped into being fine with it.
And it's not like he can say that out loud! He can't go 'I'm not getting turned, that makes you critically emotionally compromised over the person who turned you and my Organization will lose people if that happens to me.' to a growing group of people who are all subject to that effect! They're not going to take that well! That's going to destabilize a situation that's already a house of cards!
(AND this is assuming he wouldn't simply be considered a liability to the Organization and taken care of)
This could also be why he's reasonably okay with the turn and cure plan. It's not about leaving Oakhurst human, not really. Human is a nice to have. It's about leaving Oakhurst without a living sire. And that's why he pushes Doc's execution along once Martyn and Ren are dead. Yeah, Doc turned him consensually, but it was with the condition of Doc's death, and Doc's death was an important condition. And the longer they all wait, the more the emotional tie, the forgiveness, has a chance to work its way into him and make him decide to keep Doc alive.
And Doc...is not exactly stable.
Abolish isn't (as much of) a risk to his coworkers if his sire is dead. His first loyalty is to the people he actually cares about, the members of his organization. Therefore, any vampire who attacked and turned him would've needed to die. And in the end, Doc needed to, too.