๐๐ง๐ ๐จ๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ฐ๐๐ข๐ซ๐๐๐ฌ๐ญ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ข๐ ๐ฆ๐๐ฌ ๐ ๐ก๐๐ฏ๐ ๐๐จ๐ง๐ ๐๐๐ซ๐จ๐ฌ๐ฌ, ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ข๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ญ๐ฌ. I take a sigh of relief when I find someone who sees a compliment for what it is, a compliment. Not as a move or a hint. But a genuine response to things like the personality, the outfit, or the look. A compliment is a compliment, only if it's given without any ulterior motive. 1) ๐ธ๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐ 2) ๐ธ๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐ข๐๐๐๐ I say this because giving a compliment is often seen as "making a move". How about, no? See it as a compliment, nothing more, nothing less. The moment you see it as something more than an honest compliment, it's technically not a compliment anymore. It becomes a transaction. That's why I say it's not a mode of payment. When you give someone a compliment, they don't owe you anything. It would be rude if they didn't thank you. But getting thanked shouldn't be the motive behind your compliment. I hope that makes sense. โจ You like someone's outfit, tell them. โจ You think someone looks cute in a picture, tell them. โจ You think someone's a nice person, tell them. People love compliments. It makes us feel appreciated. And who doesn't want to feel appreciated in this world. For all you know, you made someone's day without even realising it. . Thanks for reading โจ . #normalisecompliments Tags: #compliments #compliment #itisokaynottobeokay #itisokay #givecompliments #quotesandphrases #love #appreciation #human #humanity #kind #kindness #kindnessmatters #kindandstrong #mindsetmatters #mindsetcoaching #tansattiraju https://www.instagram.com/p/CHUFRCAA4xG/?igshid=14rr16ny3honb
