avoidant culture is feeling far more comfortable yearning for fictional people that don't exist because i never actually have to get close to them. i can just write alone and feel comfortable never divulging anything
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avoidant culture is feeling far more comfortable yearning for fictional people that don't exist because i never actually have to get close to them. i can just write alone and feel comfortable never divulging anything
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i am an extremely avoidant (attachment) person due to my schizoid personality. so i really like and appreciate friends who arent very reactive by my absence. my friends who act normal and treat me just the same even after i go a lot time without talking to them. i really appreciate my friends who are patient with me and respect my boundaries. :)
I want to want someone but I also can’t think of anything worse.
….is this a niche take??

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Sometimes when people say they "can't give you what you need", they mean they won't— they don't care enough to.
One of the most common tactics of avoidance is reframing harm into victimhood.
Instead of acknowledging the pain they’ve caused, a person will flip the narrative by saying things like, “I’m not the problem, I’m just hurting myself. I’m too soft, too kind, too misunderstood.” It’s a way to escape accountability. By making themselves the victim, they divert attention away from the harm they’ve done. It can sound convincing, but psychologically, this is called self-serving bias, the instinct to protect your self-image at all costs. Spiritually, it’s avoidance of shadow work, the refusal to face the parts of yourself that wound others. Practically, it leaves a trail of broken trust, because those who are harmed are told their reality doesn’t matter.
Real softness isn’t proven by how deeply you feel for the world it’s in how you treat the people you say you love. Anything else is theater for the ego.
when you want someone so bad but you ghosted them multiple times so you know they DEF don’t want you