having both avoidant and anxious attachment is not for the weak
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having both avoidant and anxious attachment is not for the weak
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my attachment issues are such a thing that both of my main romantic relationships were almost entirely initiated by me (sex, labeling it, etc) because I felt like if I gave either of them even a day to think too much about the prospect of being involved with me they’d change their minds haha so I led with this purely unhinged, anxious energy that must’ve made me seem wildly obsessed with them in specific but is actually moreso a manifestation of deep feelings of inadequacy <333 tysm
seeing people say that "avoidant attachments shouldnt get into relationships" because would you guys say the same for anxious attachments? a relationships works by both people trying to help each other. if you are in a state in which you cannot handle a relationship with an avoidant attachment, thats fine, no one is making you date them but you shouldnt pin it on them.
i dislike this uprise in "avoidant attachments are evil" and "people with anxious attachments cant control it" neither of them can control it, neither of them are evil. both are types of insecure attachments which makes them both unhealthy.
i need people to treat both like what they are; attachment styles formed by trauma which cannot be controlled by people who have them, and should not be demonized or infantilized.
no, avoidant attachments arent evil. no, anxious attachments arent to be considered normal or seen as less bad. both are insecure attachment styles, theyre unhealthy and one should not be treated worse than the other.
they should be treated with sympathy.
Nonuki is me, i am Nonuki. Everyones always on about Yoshiki this Hikaru that but oh my god??????? I relate to the fake hikaru so much, especially in the beginning of the manga, where he’s a taboo and something incapable of loving. I love his obsessiveness, his desperation and attachment to Yoshiki, much like him I’d too put a single human life above all others, and learn the value of life for you, I’d split myself in half for you, pretend to be someone I’m not. The whole stomach void was perfect too
I’m not caught up on the manga but I’ve seen the covers of ‘Hikaru’s real form being held by Yoshiki….Where’s my Yoshiki 👀👀👀👀👀
shirt that says i turn anxious attachments into avoidants
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how are there even people out there with healthy relationships like what you're telling me there are people out there that get into arguments with their SOs and DONT think everything is over and that the other person hates them AND it's true that it's not over and eventually things go back to normal? nope its all a big conspiracy to trick me into believing love is real
A lot of the things I’ve been writing about lately have been inspired by this song. There’s something beautifully sinister about being so addicted to someone or something that you can name it.
There’s this weird character trait for (some) anxious—attached people where you seek out those you want to be purposeful for; even when they’re fucking terrible for you. The validation, the people pleasing, the relapsing.
The akrasia.
We recover, eventually.
I'm sensing some off vibes between me and the huzz and I'm really scared that we'll have been talking this long just for him to decide he doesn't want to date me 😓 fuh this anxious attachment
