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I saw this when running newpipe. But wait, it gets deeper. I clicked on the details buttons and it said as of today, we have 83 days left until Google rolls out this new requirement for apps inside and outside of the google play store. If any developer disagrees with their new terms and fees, they will be blocked!
I'll share some of the info below:
Looks like they're trying to nuke the remaining privacy and freedoms we have left on the internet.
What to do?
-Get your developer friends to not comply to their new guides
- Sign the open letter on the site and take action by checking out the full resources list on their website as well!
To summarize, this is all daunting especially when you feel all alone with unfair and inhumane regulations comming out faster than improvements but we got this working together!
Share the link with your friends, family and anyone who will listen!
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I do not agree with veganism as a moral standard. If it is your personal moral stance, that is fine. If you think humans eating meat is inherently immoral, I don’t want to deal with you, you’re hopeless. Vegan ideology behaves more like a sect of evangelical Christianity than a dietary choice.
Veganism is better for the environment, but claiming that it's a morally superior choice ignores cultural and economic factors that make people eat animal products.
It is not inherently better for the environment. That is the thing. When you begin trying to explain that local, sustainably sourced animal protein is better for the environment than imported plant proteins that are farmed 3,500 miles away using slave labor, they start tuning you out. Down is better for the environment than polyester stuffing, leather is better for the environment than pleather. We should work on making animal agricultural practices more sustainable instead of trying to shame everyone into eating plant products that are also farmed unethically and unsustainably.
Ok so I actually did the math on the first statement (local animal protein is better for the environment than imported plant based proteins).
I will be making a comparison between animal derived proteins (beef, poultry, and eggs) and plant based proteins (tofu and pulses)
First, I looked up the CO2-equivalents (CO2e)* emitted by producing 1kg of each protein source (Source), which yields the following results:
Beef: 498.9 kg CO2e
Poultry: 57 kg CO2e
Eggs: 42.1 kg CO2e
Tofu: 19.8 kg CO2e
Pulses: 8.4 kg CO2e
So we can see that plant-based proteins emit fewer greenhouse gasses than animal derived proteins.
Next, I looked at how transportation affects these numbers. I made the assumption that (1) no transportation is needed for the animal proteins and (2) the plant proteins are shipped from the other side of the world (so 20.000km). Shipping a kg of protein by freight ship at this distance emits about 0.6kg of CO2 equivalents (source)**.
So adding it up yields the following numbers***:
Beef: 498.9 kg CO2e + 0 kg CO2e from shipping = 498,9 kg CO2e
Poultry: 57 kg CO2e + 0 kg CO2e from shipping = 57 kg CO2e
Eggs: 42.1 kg CO2e + 0 kg CO2e from shipping = 42.1 kg CO2e
Tofu: 19.8 kg CO2e + 0.6 kg CO2e from shipping = 20.4 kg CO2e
Pulses: 8.4 kg CO2e + 0.6 kg CO2e from shipping = 9 kg CO2e
So even if we produce animal proteins locally and we ship all of our plant-based proteins halfway across the world, plant proteins are still far more environmentally friendly than animal proteins.
In other words, we can produce 55kg of pulse proteins, ship them 20.000km away and have the same environmental impact as producing 1kg of beef locally.
This is not even accounting for land use, water use, nitrate pollution, phosphate pollution etc., all of which have very real environmental impacts, and all of which are more present in the production of animal proteins****.
*CO2 equivalents is a way to combine the impact of all greenhouse gasses into a single number. So not just CO2, but also gasses like methane and nitrous oxide. Methane is about 30 times more powerful as a greenhouse gas than CO2, so 1kg of methane = 30 kg CO2 equivalents. The large amounts of methane produced by cows explains the high climate impact of beef relative to other meats.
**The calculations on this site are made assuming a 2kg parcel, so twice the weight I'm assuming my protein parcel to be. Considering how negligible the shipping emissions are compared to the production emissions, I did not bother to adjust these numbers.
***Overland shipping at this distance yields about 4.2 kg C02e. This is more than shipping by sea, but still fairly negligible compared to the CO2e emissions generated at the production stage.
****I've worked on this comment for like an hour now and I'm too lazy to look up sources for this statement. I hope I have been thorough enough in the rest of my comment to convince you that I am not pulling this out of my ass. Feel free to look it up yourself as well. I will be happy to correct this statement if you hit me with a source that proves me wrong.
Factory farming is worse for the environment than what the farm actually produces. Also, there's always going to be some people that eat meat just like there's always going to be some people that never do. Both of these choices are morally neutral, because food is food and we do not get to tell people what to eat, because bodily autonomy is a human right.
This is not a problem math can or should solve, because math is unfortunately something that can only solve problems that have a single correct solution. And real life problems that involve living beings are not those types of problems.
Industry emits more CO2 than any living being. The plastic and rayon plants, the oil refineries, the mines, the data centers--they all are the main CO2 problem. Factory farms are the main animal welfare and groundwater/soil toxicity problem. Blaming this on people not being vegan is ridiculous. This is a problem created by industry and cannot be solved even if everyone in the world COULD get their protein from plants--and at least one person on this earth can't, because I can't. But I'm sure I'm not the only one.
There are several places where animals are overpopulous--some of them are invasive, some are not--and hunting them down and eating them is a very good solution. We have feral hogs where I am. We also have a native species of deer that is overpopulating. Humans stepping in and hunting them down and eating them so as not to waste the meat is a good solution here. In places that have a long tradition of NOT eating meat, eating meat isn't something anybody is saying they should do.
It IS however a fact that we are omnivores as a species. Some humans not being omnivores is not proof our species isn't. You have canine teeth. You have a gut that is arranged in a particular way. These are facts of our species. That we have the freedom of choice and adaptability to survive by genetically engineering plants to produce more protein and eating them instead does not erase that when looking us up as a species of animal, we are among the omnivores.
There is no one size fits all kind of answer. And vegans asserting there is and then doing a bunch of math about CO2 emissions like that proves it is not just doubling down, it's actively deciding to play into the oil executives who found out that oil was destroying the earth in the 1970s and spent millions of dollars in marketing the idea of a Carbon Footprint and guilt-tripping individual people into thinking THEY were responsible. No. It's the oil companies. It's the industrial factories and plants that are doing the bulk of the polluting. Nothing any individual person decides to eat or not eat is going to make more than a drop in the ocean's worth of difference.
Shut the factories down.
But don't lecture people on what food is and isn't moral to eat, especially if the only thing you're thinking about is CO2 emmission. What about the human cost of plants? What about the human agricultural workers? Quinoa getting popular fucked up Indigenous people who relied on quinoa as a staple and now they can't afford it. How is that less terrible than the CO2 emmissions of a single cow? What's the cost of suffering? Or does that not matter because you can't make a number out of it? Who is the "we" in "we can produce... pulses"? They don't produce themselves! There are humans out there picking them, weeding them, and those humans have a CO2 emission and take up resources the same as any other animal. But THOSE numbers aren't available, not like the handy numbers of a cow. Doesn't mean they aren't there!
Eating only plants are not some shortcut to being morally pure, that's what I'm saying. ALL food production involves something deeply exploitative and unethical in this age of factory farming and global exploitative economy and so forth. Vegans are not magically exempt from having blood on their hands just because the blood is human only and most agriculture statistics ignore the human cost of a crop.
You cannot diet your way into moral purity and it's folly to equate diet with morality anyway. That's not how morality works. It's messy and complicated and personal. It's not a math problem.
That's a big chunk of text to basically say "I want to keep eating meat no matter what but you don't get to judge me". You could do the exact same argument against every single social improvement that has happened in the last two centuries. Your point can be boiled down to "nothing I personally do really matters in the long term so I shouldn't have personal responsibility on anything".
And while I don't think we should put the responsibility of reducing the climate crisis on individual's shoulders, I'm very in favor of governments legislating your behavior for the common good based on scientific consensus. Which on this topic, had been massively clear for years.
So as with CFCs or leaded gas, this is not a "personal choice" matter, because your personal choice affects us all. Climate change is, very much, a math problem. A very complex one that very smart people have been studying for decades. You can listen to them when they talk or you can cover your ears and shout "ÑAÑAÑAÑA THIS PROBLEM IS TO HARD FOR ANYONE TO UNDERSTAND LET ME ALONE" or "WHAT ABOUT [this other thing that should also disappear]" the same moment they mention something you find personally inconvenient.
Sure.
Throw your tantrum.
Just don't try for everyone else to look at you as the smart one when you are thumping your feet and whining about those evil men that want to take away your burger.
Explain to me what the Inuit are supposed to do. That's thousands of people. Who cannot and have never been able to grow protein from plants. Explain to me why they should have to change their traditions, which have helped them to survive in their environment. Explain to me how demanding every human on earth stop eating meat isn't cultural genocide.
Explain to me the human cost of your plant crops. How much CO2 does a human worker put out? Because you talk like crops just spontaneously generate by themselves, which is a very privileged point of view. I've been in a field and picked crops. It's hard work. It requires LOTS of workers, every day.
Explain to me how a person who is deadly allergic to pulses is meant to be getting protein. That's not a hypothetical imaginary situation, there's a very common condition that makes someone unable to consume legumes of any kind.
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Even one human being dying should not be acceptable to you. Human lives are valuable. Your solution would cause at least 1 human being to die in result. It is not a valid solution therefore.
The fact that you sit there accusing me of "throwing a tantrum" when you're the one dismissing everything I just said is ironic. The fact that you dismiss me as "throwing a tantrum" and tell me to my face that you wish me and people like me to die, well that's not surprising. Vegans don't care about humans very much, especially disabled humans, in my experience.
I don't care about your solution if it means I have to die. I think it's reasonable to get angry when someone says they don't care if you die and they want to control what you do with your own body!
Any amount of disagreement you would label "throwing a tantrum" so why should anyone call you anything but evidence of veganism being a cult??? Them's cult tactics! If it quacks like a duck it's a duck!
okay but be fair: jv did not say that no one should eat any meat ever. jv criticized your mishmash of arguments that were rather haphazardly put forward to shut down discussion of the emissions associated with different protein sources.
"this is not a problem math can solve" is a very bizarre claim to make in response to someone trying to run the numbers to double-check a numbers-based claim like "local animal protein is better for the environment than imported plant based proteins." the poster who tried to crunch the numbers might not necessarily have taken enough factors into account for their answer to be illuminating, but it is very much a problem in which one should use math instead of vibes.
and most importantly, there is nothing about honestly crunching the numbers on climate mitigation efforts that automatically locks anyone into a moral stance like "the Inuit can no longer hunt or fish" or "people who are allergic to non-animal proteins must die."
it's disingenuous to go from the incredibly broad claim "all food choices are totally morally neutral, because Bodily Autonomy" to the much more specific claim "cultures and/or individuals who need specific animal proteins to survive should not be guilted for consuming those animal proteins" as if someone rejecting the first claim is also rejecting the second one.
if anybody would like to see what really crunching the numbers on diet adjustment looks like from a non-vegan perspective, there are some great resources on drawdown.org. Drawdown is focused on what solutions are in reach right now, politically, technologically, and personally. Shifting where we get our energy is the most obvious achievable impact, but reducing consumption of ruminants (= mainly beef, but technically also sheep and goat) is pretty high up there as well. It's here on their list 5th from the top, labeled "improve diets":
They don't put forward total elimination of beef as a realistic goal, just reducing beef consumption.
Improve Diets is a Highly Recommended climate solution. Reducing ruminant meat consumption reduces methane production and pressure to destro
The recommendation is to reduce ruminant consumption to 5kg per person per year, which still accommodates eating a burger or a filet every two weeks or so. While that would be considerably less beef than I'm currently used to eating, it's also pretty damn far from cultlike veganism, especially given that they're not even recommending reducing your chicken or pork intake!
Ok I put this on FB but it can't hurt to put here too. We need help with Fantine!
Dog location: Northeast Georgia, just outside metro Atlanta and near the NC/TN/SC borders. TL;DR: Really sweet stray dog has ringworm; current foster is immune compromised; need someone to help by housing her for the duration of her treatment. Only need a short-term foster (approximately a month is the estimate for ringworm treatment? up to six weeks, I guess) and we can help find a permanent placement for her when her treatment is complete.
Details: Fantine is a stray dog we have been fostering for about the last month, she has a wonderful temperament (very sweet and trusting with people, quite resilient, friendly to all the dogs she has met) and is about a year and a half old. She has had all her vaccines and flea/tick/heartworm treatment and was spayed almost three weeks ago. and is healing up from it really well.
She's also ringworm positive, and I have some serious immune-related health conditions. The vet who diagnosed her was worried about her staying in the house with me even though she has been in quarantined in the laundry room and we are being very cautious about biosecurity.
Our local shelter is full and doesn't have the resources to help us right now. We really, *really* need help finding a place for her to finish her treatment. She has been started on oral and topical meds and is receiving anti-fungal baths. She's a really, really good and easy dog (or we wouldn't have fostered her at all) but it's not longer feasible to keep her here, and I don't know what to do. Feel free to reach out and ask me any additional questions if you have them. Willing to drive her somewhere if it will get her to a good foster. Thanks for reading.
please she is a really good dog and we cannot keep caring for her. another week of this and my partner is going to plunge into the caregiver burnout pit. please we really need help this is actively hurting us like this is an emergency and having a huge negative impact on our wellbeing
Hey y'all! Ringworm is what causes athletes foot. It's an extremely common fungal infection that is manageable for most people with working immune system systems!
Pip unfortunately does not have a working immune system, and as someone who dealt with a dog with ringworm and an immunodeficiency myself, I know what a nightmare that can be. Pip has always gone above and beyond for its dogs, but it cannot be expected to sacrifice its health in this case, although it already has done so much!
If any of my followers are able to foster Fantine, please reach out to Pip!
Pip is a reliable and responsible dog owner whom I know personally (perhaps the most knowledgeable-about-dogs person I know tbh); Not only would I be 100% confident fostering a dog from Pip, but Pip is one of the only people in the world I would trust with my own dog, Little Bird.
I'm willing to help drive Fantine to her new home, as well. I've done a long distance dog transport for a tumblr user in the past, and I'd happily do it again! I'm in Alabama, and willing to drive 3-4 hours from the Birmingham area to deliver the dog. This includes Huntsville, Memphis, Meridian, Tuscaloosa, Atlanta, Montgomery, Chattanooga, and Nashville.
So if anyone wants her but needs help to get her, I will work to facilitate that!
Intelligent alien species based on bugs but specifically those moths that don’t have mouths and only live for a week after they pupate. This species’ whole conscious life is actually in the larval phase; larvae are the ones considered people, larvae are the ones with conscious and complex brains who build society, and each instar of the larva is treated as a different phase of life. Larvae become emotionally and socially and cognitively mature without ever becoming sexually mature. When they pupate, they metamorphose into something different and strange and close to mindless, with no mouth and no digestive system, whose only instincts are to mate and then quickly die. Metamorphosis is treated, functionally, like a person’s death, and the imago phase is a kind of proto-afterlife of majestic flight and the continuation of the species. Birth and death inextricably intertwined. Sex is not something people do during their lives, it’s a thing that is done as an imago after you’ve passed on from your life but before you return to the soil in death. Resultant eggs are collected by family members to raise. I think this would be fun.
@catgirlwheels this reminds me a lot of that species we were brainstorming for the space manta ray thing.
our version was a little different in that the metamorphosis was itself the reproduction. as long as there was at least one genetic contributor of the shelled gender and one of the unshelled gender you could keep adding genetic contributors. they would dissolve together and then, if all went well, you'd get out twice as many babies as the number of adults you started with.
we hypothesized this would lead to a lot of religious beliefs about how much control the parents had over what parts of them (and which of their memories) lived on in their children and in what combinations.
it's lacking the dramatic imago flight aspect of OP's concept though, which is a shame as that would make for some really amazing imagery and diegetic art.
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Basically, if you say "this historical thing is a human universal", ask yourself, did it also happen in the Americas? Because the Americas developed thousands of years of civilization completely independent from Eurasia. Many of those broad claims about earliest "human" history and civilization are based on the Middle East and the Mediterranean. Not even China or India are considered most of the time, let alone Africa or the Americas or Oceania, which had multiple different independent origins of agriculture and social organization.
As a practical example, any theory of the origin of writing cannot only study the Sumerians. You need at least to consider the origin of writing in China and India. Even if you operate with the assumption (highly debatable) that writing from the Middle East influenced them, you cannot just assign the same factors to it.
And you ESPECIALLY have to take into account the invention of writing (Maya scripts) and proto-writing in the Americas. These were created completely differently from other writing systems, sometimes radically differently (Andean quipus). You cannot ignore them.
This is the same with everything: the origin of agriculture, cities, social organization, warfare, anything you consider a "human universal". You cannot only work with Eurasia. You cannot ignore Africa and you cannot ignore Oceania. But America, in particular, is the key to understanding history in a complete picture.
It's also a perfect example of how polytheism really is the human default, and that basically every other religion is an attempt to counter polytheism.
There are dozens of examples of monotheist or at least henotheistic religions all over the world, including Africa, Asia and the Americas, long before Christianity. Waaq in East Africa and Guaraní dualism (Tupá/Aña) off the top of my head.
My point wasn't that monotheism only existed in the middle east before spreading outwards, it was that polytheism tends to be the baseline. Also, I don't know enough about the examples you listed to speak on them, but I have a feeling there's attempts to downplay polytheism with some of these. I took a class where if the Maya faith was monotheistic or polytheistic was a major scholarly debate, and there was no good argument that it was monotheistic (henotheistic is arguable for that one though).
I don’t think that anyone serious believes that classic Maya religion is monotheistic. The idea that religion based around gods at all is a Human Universal is my problem. Common? Yes. Universal? No. There are a lot of Native North American religions, that have entities who defy easy categorization between culture-hero and spirit and god. There is the Hopi and Puebloan Kachina religion where Kachinas are not actually equivalent to gods while also being important spiritual beings. The Americas are actually a great point where questioning your assumptions about categories is especially true when it comes to religion. The idea of a pantheon of gods with discrete identities and roles and distinction as gods from other kinds of beings is not a universal one. Just because that’s your religion doesn’t mean that it’s everybody’s. Which was the point of this post.
“Have” was maybe the wrong way to articulate “the spiritual entities in this religion defy easy categorization.” Such that calling any of them gods is a “welllll not really. I mean like sort of? But not the way you’re thinking.” I’m specifically thinking of the Algonquian concept of Manitou. Is it a deity? A life-force that pervades everything? A manifestation of right-living? Yes. Is Giche Manitou / Great Spirit a god? Ehhhh like, sort of? Maybe? If so there isn’t more than one of it. There are other spirits. Are they gods? That kind of implies a relationship between spirits, manitou, and humans equivalent to the relationship between humans and gods in a way that’s just, not accurate. Calling Algonquian religion polytheistic is not taking any of that into account. Are Apache culture heroes and spiritual entities gods? They don’t talk about them that way. And as I said, Hopi Kachinas are important and powerful spiritual beings that are not really the same as a godly pantheon. This goes back to: Indo-European style polytheistic pantheon is not actually a human default, it’s just as culturally specific as anybody else.
What is the "indo-european" standard that you're talking about? You seem to be imagining a version of polytheism which only exists in pop culture. Even the idea that the primary source for every PIE derived culture's religion is an incoherence from the PIE invasions is incredibly contested, and has white supremacist undertones.
"polytheism really is the human default, and basically every other religion is an attempt to counter polytheism" is such a strong and specific claim that you'd think this person would be prepared to defend it, and yet the second anyone went "wait what are you talking about" they retreated to the vastly more generic, less falsifiable claim "polytheism tends to be the baseline."
excited to see how vague their stance becomes! taking bets now on whether all animism and totemism are gonna get reclassified as "basically polytheism" so their original stance will sound less divorced from anthropological reality.
this is not an original observation but i really do think so many of BBC Merlin's problems stemmed not from bad politics but from the fact that it was trying to be Arthurian Smallville
SO i confess i have not seen Smallville but the consensus seems to be that it's a solid, competently written television show. BBC Merlin is, um. Not That.
here is the first of the show's major Smallvillisms:
okay so in Smallville the fact that Clark Kent has superpowers is a secret. I cannot speak for Smallville in particular but Clark Kent keeping his powers a secret generally works for audiences bcos 1) it is a core element of the Superman narrative. if he was just publicly Superman that would feel weird and jarring. 2) Clark Kent is a nice and good boy and we understand that he is keeping his secret with the best of intentions
the secret superpowers angle is completely foreign to the Arthurian mythos however; in fact it's kind of the opposite of the usual deal with Merlin as a character? but they wanted to do Young Merlin with a Clark Kent thing going on. OK. now they need a reason why his magic is a secret.
uhh it's bcos they made magic illegal. who made magic illegal? the king. not Arthur obviously. different king. we want to keep the whole Camelot/royal court aspect tho so instead of doing the usual King Arthur backstory he's just uhh normal prince. and magic is illegal bcos it killed his mother. okay now we're cooking with gas. but obviously we want the villains to mostly be other magic users for Merlin to fight. why are these other magic users trying to Get Arthur? well they are mad that his father banned magic. and Merlin has to protect Arthur bcos he's going to be King Arthur one day and save the land. so Merlin's gotta explode all the other magic users. he gotta!!
it never really works partly bcos it's just not an established Arthurian Thing and also bcos it renders basically everything Merlin does extremely sketchy? I don't think it's inherently a problem that he's a morally dubious protagonist (if anything Merlin is kind of traditionally a little bit evil) but the show wants him to be a Good Boy like Clark Kent and frames him as such even though he keeps blowing up other magic users with legitimate grievances. its very strange!!
Morgana has THAT arc bcos Smallville has a whole thing where Lex Luthor and Clark Kent are childhood friends.
i re-iterate that I haven't seen Smallville but I imagine Lex being the guy in the friend group who is going to turn out evil works bcos Lex Luthor's whole thing is that he's an asshole rich white man. definitely possible to do a character like that who's sympathetic whilst still having it ring true for the audience that they're just gonna be a bad guy.
and like they maybe COULD have made this work with Morgana? but here i suppose we do get into the straight up just bad politics, doing Morgan Le Fay but she's Lex Luthor would maybe involve leaning into the privilege she has as a noblewoman (effectively a princess) but instead they just u know victimised her over and over and then when she snaps and starts exploding people it's like wow Morgana i can't believe you're evil now. stop exploding people Morgana. only Merlin is allowed to explode people.
it's like, i don't know. they didn't realise they couldn't just go directly from s1-2 Morgana (was end of s2 the switch? I forget) to 'oh she's just evil now' without it being really weird and jarring? they didn't realise that a female character could have motives for being evil that didn't revolve around all the men in her life abusing her?
but like im hesitant to even come down on it too hard for being sexist (even tho it was) bcos first and foremost its just stupid. wym she's just evil now. you didn't earn that at all. what are you DOING.
it all comes back for me to that part in s1 where we realise that Sophia's father is and was always planning to sacrifice himself for her and Sophia is distraught and suddenly these 2 characters who hitherto have been straight up evil gain a new sympathy and depth and its like oh no what are they gonna do!!
and then Merlin rocks up and explodes them both. just blows them up like bombs. and its like ok that COULD be a really interesting character moment for him but it. its not. bcos really blatantly what's going on there is they were like 'ok we're out of time, wrap it up folks. Merlin comes in and explodes the bad guys like bombs.'
it feels weird & jarring not bcos it was morally bad behaviour on Merlin's part but bcos straight up its just bad writing.
eta not gonna reblog this again but the OTHER issue w the Smallvilling is that it means Merlin is constantly not just lying by omission to Arthur but flat out lying to his face, manipulating him, on occasion straight up brainwashing him?
and like Clark Kent DOES on occasion engage in acts of gaslighting. see for example this scene. but in that instance its like well yes he did go to great lengths to deceive her but also she jumped out a window in an attempt to force him to reveal his secret so i don't think either of them come out of it great.
ok i said i was done but i am back with another aspect on this:
so Arthur is an asshole in s1. this is fine. he is at the beginning of his growth arc. Merlin training a young Arthur up to be a better king is a Thing in Arthurian literature and this is a different angle on it but nonetheless. growth arc!!
except um. it never really happens? like yeah he matures and becomes less of a manchild as the show goes along but his improvement is pretty limited.
and its like well yeah bcos he can't actually Learn anything. he must remain at all times a buffoon who is oblivious to Merlin's secret magic. he can't ever be like 'hey maybe magic isn't 100% evil after all' or 'hey maybe there's something up with my manservant' without challenging the status quo of the show. and the status quo of the show (i MUST stress this was directly stated by the creators) is that Merlin must remain Clark Kent.
i do want to say as a smallville fan i would say it being "competently written" is debatable, and also on the topic of lex luthor vs morgan la fey there is this SHOCKING similarity where the majority of lex's evil actions early on are spurred on by being just. horribly abused over and over and over until he rightfully starts acting weird and paranoid, which then everyone reacts to by going "WOW he is INTRINSICALLY EVIL holy SHIT he's tainted in the blood and cant be saved", which is why he's the character that invented the term "woobie". so like, merlin actually was cribbing from smallville with their friends to enemies villain arc, even more than one might think! it just also became a sexist one because they did it to a woman this time. i dont know why they didnt make lex luthor more evil in smallville, the early seasons largely have him appearing to kindly offer to supply top notch medical services to the victim of the week and then get horrific head trauma
the more you list things that merlin did bad the more im like "oh thats a problem on smallville too, weird"
Tumblr users will say "queer history" and mean "midcentury archival records from a specific US-American city that I have extrapolated into a universal mythos" and not even blink
>tags this as transfeminism as if the idea that men can be more oppressed than women if they want to become feminine girly girls is not the most white male yankoid shit anyone has ever heard of
“The Gender Binary” is a misnomer; gender has always been a hierarchy.
Well my culture's antagonistic history with transfemininity is well documented and spans millennia, so maybe return to the original point of why your idea of "queer history" should be less anglocentric.
Trans people, masc women/feminine men and homosexuals being excluded from the "normal binary" sex category into the third group of "others" is not "queer positivity" its ostracisation. Think about why gay men who are men who happen to be gay or eunuchs who are also men but castrated are denied their manhood and forced into a "non-men" box
What the fuck does this have to do with feminism them? Trans experience is not the same as an experience of being a woman even if they both have roots in sexism. That is if you even ignore how many trans people do define their gender as sexist stereotypes, falling into exact boxes patriarchy set for them
"what does the oppression of the gender-marginalized in a male-supremacist society have to do with feminism"
Does being gender-conforming mean that Christian tradwives aren't oppressed under patriarchy? Does defining their womanhood as their capacity to be a wife and mother and so falling into the box patriarchy set for them mean feminism isn't concerned with them? Is the oppression of lesbians outside the purview of feminism since it's queer oppression?
You are simply out of your depth. Maybe you should read more instead of lashing out at trans people online. You might find that these struggles are interlinked and learn some actual materialist feminism instead of whatever incoherent and contradictory beliefs make you incapable of connecting queer oppression to anti-patriarchal politics.
E and I are starting to think about adopting a cat again. But since we like to pick a cat based on interactions with her/him, we thought we would meet the cat and then fill out an application. Tons of places are requiring an application FOR A SPECIFIC ANIMAL before meeting them. Then this one has the (to me) off the wall process above where you don’t meet the cat until stage 5.
Can anyone who works in pet care tell me if this is normal? And why it’s necessary?
Because I am having trouble filling out an application that the shelter is treating like a binding contract to adopt.
I'd say no? To me, this looks like a perversion of a few good/well-intentioned systems at cross-purposes.
So, the standard for dogs in a LOT of shelters is that you have to make an appointment to meet them, because strangers walking through the kennels all the time stresses them out. Some shelters have decided to do the same thing for cats, though IMO the stress is a lot lower from just seeing strangers walk by their kennels (it's the ambush/chase predator difference).
Aaaand long, involved applications have also, alas, become very normal for a lot of shelters, to ensure the animals aren't going to wind up coming back, or in a bad situation, etc. (a big one is formal landlord permission, because pets often get adopted to renters, then brought back when the landlord either finds out or withdraws their previous informal permission. I know another shelter that requires that you contact a vet you plan to take the animal to so they can confirm you took the first steps to caring for it. IMO that one's less useful.)
But not even meeting the animal until you've applied to adopt it is pretty unusual, and also, for a lot of people, not a good idea, since animals (humans included) learn a lot about how compatible their personalities are from interacting.
My guess would be that this process means they need fewer staff for public interactions and whatnot. The only other thing I can think of is that it's through a third-party app like PetFinder, where the application is actually just a quick "check these boxes and enter your contact info." I would recommend just calling your local county/municipal shelter and asking if you can make an appointment to come in and meet some cats; that's more likely to get you a better process than going online (at least in my area, which, tbf, is fairly rural and person-first). Most shelters are desperate to get their animals out the door, and won't throw up a ton of barriers.
Character has a PhD: they’re really smart and knowledgable about their field!
Character has 2 PhDs: either they did a dual degree program and are braggy about it, had a life-changing experience after their first degree and pivoted their whole career, or they find the structure of being a PhD student, despite all its stress, more comfortable and familiar than the stress of finding a Real Job and have a very indulgent advisor.
Character has 3 PhDs: who keeps accepting them to PhD programs. Either this person needs psychological help or their department needs to be investigated for its academic standards. Probably both
Character has 4+ PhDs: if they aren’t an undercover vampire or something then no they don’t lol
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Wrinkles and textured skin are beautiful, vibrant, and full of life. Folds and loose skin have beautiful shapes and volumes. If you view aged skin through the eyes of an artist, you gain a deep appreciation of its beauty 🖤 That’s why we drew wrinkles and folds for last month’s drawing challenge, and guess what, I enjoyed it so much that I’ll probably do it again! 👵
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The "Grocery Shop like a Boss" post is making rounds again, and one of the bitchlings commented that they are moving out on their own for the first time so they were collecting ideas/recipes.
Which got me to wondering; do we have a "How to Preserve Your More Precious than Gold Grocery Haul" post floating around? And if not, should we start one?
We do not! And I agree--we should start one!!!
I'll start:
Tomatoes, carrots, and peppers can all be frozen without any preparation whatsoever. Just bag 'em and toss 'em in the freezer. So if you're worried you won't get to those vegetables before they go bad, freeze them for later recipes. They can then be used in a stirfry, curry, soup, chili, sauce, salsa, smoothie, whatever. And it's much easier, cheaper, and faster than canning.
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(I volunteer with a free food distro and frequently need to find safe and effective ways of storing food that is in barely edible condition and making it stretch)
When you get fruit or vegetables in plastic cartons take the fruit out and wash it and also wash the carton. If there is any bruising or broken skin, cut those part off and eat the rest immediately or freeze. In general though you should be washing (and drying) your produce immediately after you bring it home and before you put it in the fridge. It greatly reduces any potential bacteria or whatever might try to eat your food before you can.
Also dairy is freezable. Liquid milk and sometimes yogurt will thaw with a weird texture but it’s fine and you can run it through a blender if the texture is an issue. Butter, cheese and all that freeze perfectly well.
Bread and tortillas also freeze well but will go stale if left in the freezer too long. Generally though you can just take out a few slices at a time and pop them in the toaster. Or heat them on the stovetop.
Potatoes, sweet potatoes and similar root vegetables can be half baked and frozen for continued baking later.
Those bagged salads can go in the freezer and then used later for stir fry. Top it with whatever dressing it came with even if it’s cooked. Get the ones with kale or spinach or greens other than lettuce. Stir fry lettuce is not great.
In general if you’re buying bagged salad greens spinach and kale will last the longest whether you’re using it raw or cooked.
Meal planning. Meal prepping. Useful for making sure you use what you have. Match your current food stash to specific recipes and only buy what you need to use up what you already have. Don’t buy costco size quantities unless it’s something you can eat everyday or you are feeding half a dozen people.
Get jars and containers that actually seal and not the decorative aesthetic jars. You want something that will keep your dry goods safe from insects.
Treat yourself to some fresh herbs but store them in the freezer so they last longer. You deserve fresh herbs.
It’s amazing to me how many people will DNF a book simply because they find the main character(s) unlikable. I do not need to like a character, I just need to find them compelling, and for me those are not the same thing—in fact, some of the least likable characters are the most interesting to read about, IMO.
Just thinking about this cuz I finished a book that I loved, but when I was reading other people’s reviews on StoryGraph so many gave it low ratings and then said something along the lines of “I quit reading halfway through when the MC/narrator started doing some really shitty stuff and I didn’t like him anymore.” And I went??? He’s fictional! Would I want to hang out with him if he existed IRL? No. But I do find him fascinating to read about.
I don’t know, I think some of it stems from the thing where people need characters to be relatable to them (whereas I don’t care if I relate to a character to find them compelling). And on top of that, they won’t let themselves relate to a morally ambiguous (or straight up evil) character, or even just a regular person who does some shitty stuff, because then they’d have to recognize that they might have the capacity for some of those things, too, if they were in a similar situation to the character.
Or I could be overthinking it. But in any case, I find it weird because it’s not how I operate at all.
I don't need to like them, but I do need to not hate them. That can be because they're compelling or because they're funny, even if, as real people, I would not want to know them. But if I find them annoying, if I find them obnoxious, if they remind me of my bullies of thirty years ago, I am not going to want to read about them. And I wonder if some of the people saying "I don't like them" mean something like that.
I don't have to like a character as a person to like them as a character, basically. And I think some people are not making a verbal distinction, but may have a distinction in their heads.
I more often have this problem with prestige television shows where not only is the main character a jerk but everyone else is also a jerk. Individually they may all be compelling characters, and the plot and setting may also be compelling, but if everyone is unlikeable then it's emotionally draining to persist through episode after episode. I can usually handle it for a contained novel or play, but not through a TV show season or a book series.
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If I could sit down every single new sewist who wants to learn and improve their skills I would tell them the following things
Read the manual. Work through the manual from front to back. Read the troubleshooting section even when you're not having a problem. Read it. Keep it handy. Maybe download a PDF too, just in case the hard copy walks off.
Buy an iron and ironing board. They don't have to be fancy, a bigger board is only better if it is stable. An regular Ikea board has worked for me for years. A $20 iron from Walmart will noticeably improve your work. Press every seam before another seam intersects it. Don't just iron at the end.
Sewing machine needles have sizes AND types and you need to match them to your fabric. They also wear down. The often quoted rule is 8 hours of run time and its a pretty good rule.
The problem is almost never the tension settings, and even less often is it the bobbin tension. The problem is almost always your threading or needle.
Clean your machine. Do not use canned air. Take off the plate under the foot and use a brush and or a keyboard vacuum to get the fluff out.
I'm fairly confident that I've never met a person who doesn't have ptsd. I think the division is really "people with ptsd that they can mask/manifests in ways that others can ignore" and "people whose ptsd can't be ignored by others so they're forced to begrudgingly acknowledge its existence"
"my cousin is the only one in our family with ptsd, he got attacked by a large dog and melts down at the sound of large dogs barking if he's already emotionally fragile" yeah and your mother shuts down at the sound of car engines that sound like her ex-husband's car, you just never noticed because you don't pay attention to her and she's been conditioned not to make her 'silly outbursts' anyone else's problem.
i think i agree with this. especially as CPTSD gets more attention and family abolition gets more attention, it gets harder to ignore how even the very basic normal setup of society will fuck up your head in minor yet long-lasting ways.
for instance, take the way nearly everybody I know that grew up using a screen device in a home or school with authority figures who might disapprove of what was on that screen still experiences a moderate anxiety to mild panic spike when they realize someone is looking over their shoulder at their screen, even if the content on the screen is entirely mundane.
now, you aren't ever going to get diagnosed with a condition unless it's notably impairing normal function, because diagnosis is predicated on the idea that a psychological condition every person has is not a useful framework through which to view the human condition. but in practice i think that means everybody is walking around with at least a minor psychological impairment they're unlikely to get treatment for because statistically the impairment IS normal function.