My garden of musings

Yes. I think it started from a place of good intent, wanting to defend the three Walt-era Princesses after so many years of people bashing them and calling them anti-feminist. But it’s taken a turn so that a lot of fans just seem to want more heroines like the Walt-era Princesses and enjoy bashing all the heroines who are less sweet, poised, and delicate - or less white, for that matter.

To be fair ...

I used to agree with the complaints about having so many "adorkable" heroines, not because I didn't like them, but because of the sameness of them; I wanted more of a variety of personalities. But now I realize that too often, those complaints just amount to "Why can't Disney's modern heroines be flawlessly graceful, poised paragons like the heroines of the past?" and basically shame the adorkable heroines for (a) not being perfect, (b) not performing femininity correctly, and (c) showing traits that can very easily be read as autistic and/or ADHD.

Little Brother and Little Sister

I was actually speechless, how many people perceived her so negatively. Like, I am sorry, but a marriage for convenience and not out of love is not a great sin, considering her circumstances.

Furthermore, people were convinced, that she was an attention-seeking woman, who was jealous of every light that did not fall on her head...

From my perspective however, it appears, as if those two men decided to shower her with attention on their own accord. Heathcliff doesn´t seem to forgive Cathrine, that he has these feelings for her.

Her understanding of love ect might be a lil bit strange. She thinks, she had to suppress and change herself in order for Edgar to like her, therefore he should be more accepting of her wishes as well. In Cathrine´s eyes she needs Heathcliff like the air, that she breathes.

Additionally, I perceive her as a rather loyal and straightforward person, in contrast, what other people might think. She might not be always kind, though.

Of course, she can be violent and loses her temper pretty easily, but I do think, that if she was a guy, nobody would bat an eye regarding this.

Nellie Dean´s greatest criticism regarding Catherine is her being egoistic (true) and not being a lil submissive wife (also true). She has her will and her wishes and she is not exactly the shy kind of person.

I don’t judge Catherine for marrying for convenience or generally in her relationship with men.

Her relationship with Edgar is fascinating though, because she herself thinks that the one who accommodates her spouse is herself:

People are rightfully fascinated by Catherine not seeing a contradiction or conflict between her “two loves” here, but I also am fascinated that her perception of her own marriage is so radically different from Nelly’s. I think this might actually point to Nelly’s bias.

I do think that Catherine is a rather self-centered individual who can be physically abusive to her servants, so I understand why Nelly in particular dislikes her, though Nelly herself is far from flawless too in this relationship.

I think Catherine’s worst action in the book is the way she revealed Isabella’s crush to Heathcliff, that was a very thoughtless thing to do and had disastrous consequences. But Catherine being thoughtless, petty and spiteful is what makes her human anyway. She definitely didn’t want Isabella to be actually harmed.

So. my verdict is that Catherine is a complicated, troubled and morally complex individual. But this is actually a massive achievement of Bronte. She managed to write a morally flawed 19-year-old girl in a domestic setting without making her sexually transgressive, especially violent, or vapid and flighty: You would expect a female character who is in love with a man other than her husband, who is shown to be physically abusive to others, and who rejects marrying the one she loves because he is poor to come across as these things, but Catherine Earnshaw doesn’t come across as any cliche. She is wonderfully human.

It is also a great achievement that I can be annoyed at Catherine’s actions while reading the book but also totally understand her unique charisma and why men are in love with her. No one, not even people who hate the character, questioned why Heathcliff and Edgar are obsessed with her.

When it comes to the question of whether she accommodates Edgar or he accommodates her in their marriage, it could be that both are true in different ways, but for personal reasons Catherine only sees her own side of the equation while Nelly only sees Edgar's.

And while her choosing to marry Edgar rather than Heathcliff is obviously framed as a tragic mistake, I've never viewed it as a moral failing either. I agree that the worst premeditated act she ever commits is humiliating Isabella by revealing her feelings to Heathcliff, though the worst act overall might be her tantrum in which she hits both Nelly and Edgar and shakes toddler Hareton.

It's not humiliating Isabella, or her violent tantrum. It's insisting that Nelly come with her to be her servant at the Grange when she marries, and (it's implied) persuading Hindley to insist on it too, even though this leaves little Hareton without his devoted nurse. While it's understandable that she wants one familiar person to come with her, it means separating a child from the only mother figure he's ever known and leaving him alone with his alcoholic father and Joseph.

I don't personally like to draw parallels between the author's real life and their novels, unless something is clearly semi-autobiographical (Agnes Grey for example). But I would also say that not all Austen mothers are dead, absent, or incompetent. Mrs. Jennings is quite active, visits her daughters frequently, and seems to have a very loving relationship with at least Charlotte and her son-in-law (Lady Middleton doesn't like her mom). Mrs. Dashwood in Sense & Sensibility may not be as prudent as Elinor, but she is loving and close with her daughters, especially Marianne. Mrs. Morland is mostly not around for Northanger Abbey, but seems to be very involved with her children. The Musgroves seem very close despite boarding school and Mary Musgrove seems to be around her kids a lot, if not directly taking care of them.

Also, I think sometimes we get arrogant in our modern ideas of parenting and think children would have felt unloved in the past. However, expectations would have been different and comparison would be different as well. Children would look around and see that the way their parents expressed love for them was similar to other families, so they probably wouldn't feel deprived. I remember even reading a study that 20 minutes per day of genuine bonding with a child is all they really need. The Austens visited their wet-nursed children daily as far as I remember. And children today still have deep bonds with their parents despite 6 hours of school and after school activities. Or not, if their parents suck. But parents will suck under any model of parenting.

I think Austen was just interested in how parents can prepare their children for life or drag them down. She avoids the popular orphan trope and instead focuses on the ways parents can affect their children while alive. If her heroines are half-orphans, she always kills the more competent parent... You know I don't think the relationships are really that "distant" at all. Mrs. Bennet is right there, muddling in her daughter's lives. Fanny Price is over-parented. The Dashwood girls are close with their mother... Anne was close to her mother and is very close to a mother figure in Lady Russell. Emma has a close female mother figure as well.

BUT

At one point, the American release of the 1956 version of Notre Dame de Paris was going to be retitled Hunchback of Paris due to legal issues regarding the use of the name “The Hunchback of Notre Dame.”